AVOID Dating: Women that have no REAL Hobbies or Interest, only want to do Activities for Social Media posting purposes. (Humble Bragging)

[Stuntone]

Avoid, unless your life revolves around seeking things for you social media post.



As a player, I meet and treat a lot of women. I'm really beginning to see this in a lot of career women. These aren't bad women, just they've been following Celebrities, Sex in the City and Reality Tv too closely. And feel that is what a happy successful life is. It's not. I'd argue most people don't really know what they enjoy. Things you really enjoy you do it all the time. Anyone who has to try and go to different places all the time are lost.

There's a reason a lot of women want to go to fancy, pretty spots. Instead of the regular spot with the best food. They want to post on IG and make other women jealous. Some women every move is looking for new ways to show other women how good she's living. These women will run you crazy and will never let you rest one weekend or sleep in on Saturday.

Current girl I'm dating is this way, but I've broken her out of it quickly. Our 2nd date, she asked me to go with her to Cooper and Hawk's, her treat. I was like nah. I wasn't getting into this cycle of imitating celebrities. I reserve fancy spots for women I love and then that's for anniversary / birthdays. Then she want me to go to this popular event at the National Harbor, uh no. I don't really know her like that. I'm realizing a lot of women want a man to shyt on other women and to rescue them from their bore life. After a month of obedience training, she's happy for me to just come over. That's how it should be. The women needs to be happy just spending time with you, no matter what. A lot of women are dating these restaurants and you're just security and companion. Maybe bcuz of from Louisiana, i'm use to women that are cool with chilling in the park and making blocks and getting a daiquiri.

This how you know a chick is lost. I asked her, what's her favorite restaurant to eat at, she says " I dont have one, I just like trying all of them"

 

[semicko82]

How did you break her out of the celebrity worship OP

 

[Cornershooter]

Good post op

Women with zero hobbies and interests just worry about men, dating , Instagram. You’ll argue with her thursday morning by the end of the weekend she fukked someone else. I know bytches that just been going on tinder dates for years

Women like that are mentally stunted god forbid you have a child with her THEN break up.

 

[Stuntone]

How did you break her out of the celebrity worship OP

She might still worship them, but she know I aint doing none of that shyt. So she doesn't bring none of that shyt up to men anymore.


I'll tell you like a Real Life Pimp told me a long time ago "You finish how you start"

Don't follow women, most have no clue what theyre doing, what or like. They usually following someone else.

 

[semicko82]

Good post op

Women with zero hobbies and interests just worry about men, dating , Instagram. You’ll argue with her thursday morning by the end of the weekend she fukked someone else. I know bytches that just been going on tinder dates for years

Women like that are mentally stunted god forbid you have a child with her THEN break up.

 

[Mowgli]

Just date women who aren't on social media.

Good luck with that shyt though.

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

A whole lot of truth in that OP. Years ago when I was out there doing wrong, I had a girl like that. She wanted to go to all of these restaurants to take pictures of food to post. I tamed her too, she would pay for most of those brunch/dinner dates, but I would pay for the fine dining dates and gas. We would go Dutch on movies, and take turns on take out food. But we did a lot and had much fun. She was much younger than me

 

[Stuntone]

I'm starting to believe people who have to allow have to be don't something, don't really enjoy human interaction. It's like dating and mates are just a social norm that they true to do, but really don't like men like that. I'm sure many men are like this too, but men are going to want to at least smash. I think this is the reason that sex falls off a lot in relationships too. A lot of women don't enjoy sex at all. It's a chore to them and they hide this to secure a man.

 

[Roger king]

Alot of society is down to vanity and stunting for validation, seek people you have common interests and likes with and go from that point

 

[Ashley Banks]

I agree. They tend to be desperate and needy(for attention/relationships) because they can’t stand to be alone because they’re just sitting there…with their boring selves.

 

[semicko82]

She might still worship them, but she know I aint doing none of that shyt. So she doesn't bring none of that shyt up to men anymore.


I'll tell you like a Real Life Pimp told me a long time ago "You finish how you start"

Don't follow women, most have no clue what theyre doing, what or like. They usually following someone else.

 

[SunnyD]

Avoid folks that can’t stand to be alone in a room with their own thoughts all together. It’s trouble. I don’t have social media. It’s not my scene but folks that rely on it heavily and I hate to say I know a lot of women like that. Some in my friend group. That’s why folks have to start listening and low key people watching. I watch without folks knowing. A lot of shiny Pennie’s, nickels , and dimes are needy and boring as hell. If a person has no hobbies or interests outside of you or social media .. you’ll become their entire world. That’s some hard shyt to live up to. shyt who has the time.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

old habits die hard. you too old to be trying to mold chicks beloved. find one that carries the values you desire. she hasn't changed, don't stroke your ego...

 

[invalid]

Our 2nd date, she asked me to go with her to Cooper and Hawk's, her treat.

This nikka know he don't get out.

But forreal OP. You coming off a bit hypocritical. Chiding women for not having any real hobbies but at the same time wanting them to be content with just chilling with you at the crib. Sounds like you don't have an active social life or hobbies yourself. It's not actual hobbies you want, you want your girl on the same wave as you - which sounds like not spending money. This is what this is actually about.

 

[SadimirPutin]

influencer culture exacerbated this problem of unfullfillment on social media

People who promote a lifestyle of professional vacationing and partying and outings never show the darker side of how they are "allowed" or "able to do or afford these things

For instance a lot of people choose vacations based on what others have chosen on instagram....

You could probably get a far cheaper vacation and have a ridiculously good time in spots like Senegal, Malta, Kenya, Guadeloupe, Peru, Nicaragua etc but people flock to spots that are becoming increasingly touristy