I don't agree with the way she's generalizing, degrading, speaking negatively towards and referring to black men as "******s". That's really disgusting on her part. But she does make a few true points:
· “Black men CONSTANTLY desexualize us and make reasons for why we aren’t good enough.” That’s true. Yall do it on here even.
· “I keep begging for acceptance from the people who are supposed to understand me the most.” Don’t get me wrong, her delivery is awful, so that may be a reason she hasn’t been accepted, but it’s true. Black men tear down black women. No other race does that to their women.
· “every other race of man ferociously protects his women, except for the black man.” She’s generalizing here, but some of them do. The most embarrassing part is that they make fun of black women to their white/Hispanic male friends at times.
· “Black men make me feel as though I’m hard to love.” That’s deep, and shows that the root of all her anger/mental instability/down right craziness is hurt.
I disagree with the fact that she has chosen to turn her hurt into hatred for black men and love for white men. Even more so, she has chosen to speak down to black men, publicly, and in such a disgusting manner. But she has a few points in there that are valid.
1. Either we hypersexualize you or we desexualize you, I've seen both arguments pop up commonly choose one please.
2. Her begging for acceptance from other people has nothing to do with black men though, but more to do with society and European beauty standards which are not enforced by black men. It has to do with her fragile ego and her tendency to deflect blame, most black women do not beg for acceptance. Thats on her.
3. In part because some black women do not want to be protected by black men. "I'm independent I don't need no man." We hear this 100 times. You wont like it but the most important reason of this is, and take note
every other race's communities are run as a patriarchy bar none but the black community leans towards a matriarchy. That's a problem whether you like it or not.
4. No. This is yet again her own ego speaking. Lets say I meet a dark skin girl I like, I as a black man will never point out to a sister "I love your dark chocolate skin" she does not need to hear that, I'm black myself. So just because a white man says "I love your dark chocolate skin" does not mean he loves you, or appreciates you, he sees your skin as a fetish. Do not confuse this with love.
She has zero valid points that cant be traced back to hamster rationalizations and fractured ego, due in no part to black men or women.