1. Either we hypersexualize you or we desexualize you, I've seen both arguments pop up commonly choose one please.
2. Her begging for acceptance from other people has nothing to do with black men though, but more to do with society and European beauty standards which are not enforced by black men. It has to do with her fragile ego and her tendency to deflect blame, most black women do not beg for acceptance. Thats on her.
3. In part because some black women do not want to be protected by black men. "I'm independent I don't need no man." We hear this 100 times. You wont like it but the most important reason of this is, and take note every other race's communities are run as a patriarchy bar none but the black community leans towards a matriarchy. That's a problem whether you like it or not.
4. No. This is yet again her own ego speaking. Lets say I meet a dark skin girl I like, I as a black man will never point out to a sister "I love your dark chocolate skin" she does not need to hear that, I'm black myself. So just because a white man says "I love your dark chocolate skin" does not mean he loves you, or appreciates you, he sees your skin as a fetish. Do not confuse this with love.
She has zero valid points that cant be traced back to hamster rationalizations and fractured ego, due in no part to black men or women.