this was interesting but I expected a bigger conflict in the third act. But this was about the seduction not the crisis.
He didn't know what he was doing. He was playing dominant and was confused and inexperienced...A lot of people stumble into the sub/dom situation thinking they know what they want or they're compatible with the other persons need. If it doesn't work it is very frustrating. Like the shytty hotel scene at first.
I've had partners who needed to be dominated and they didn't express that at first, but would be like "pin me down" to get things going or one who is most similar to Kidman in this (very influential at Amazon

) who straight said she makes decisions all day, doesn't want to in the bed room, so tell her what to do and control her.
Personally, I need to be adored...I won't go as far as the WORSHIP shyt some need but I honestly have a giant fukking ego when it comes to women, couples with a social need for adoration, so I want her to be fukking going crazy with the desire to come over and fukk. I don't want to have to dominate or tell her to get on her knees...I want her to WANT TO and just fukking do it. Like, be ravenous because of how great I am to you..don't wait for directions.
So, I don't really fit with that type of women for long.
Interesting study here in the movie.
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