Back in the 90’s did black men create the monster that we’re fighting now by lying to all black women about them being queens

[The_Truth]

Didn't that Black Queen stuff start in the 70s?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Simpin never pays

 

[Jean Jacket]

All Black women are queens.

fukk you if you deny any one of them their opportunity to be great.

 

[Yaboysix]

Booooy,what are yall OOOON!?

WHO hurt you?!

This incel shyt is crazy!

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

If you knew dudes, please include white dudes in the bucket too, because if the black dudes you knew in the suburbs were saying it to chicks, for every 1 black dude you knew that was saying these things to black women, there were 5-6 white dudes, Asians dudes saying these things to black women also. They wanted the "street cred" too.

Undergrads in the 90s at HBCUs were not talkin like this to black women. This was not the norm like you're trying to make it seem like

I wasn’t in college in the 90s. I was in grade school in the south in predominately black schools.

And nearly every dude was on that “fukk these hoes” tip. Dudes were even harmonizing about “sorry ass bytches” word to Nate dog. And it wasn’t just thugs.

By the time I hit college around 2000s and the internet became a thing it was a wrap.

Even chicks that weren’t doing anything wrong were liable to be called a bytch or a hoe. In fact I distinctly remember chicks pushing back with the “why she gotta be all that”.

And as a female, if you weren’t feeling a dude who approached you, “well fukk you too! You ain’t all that. Ugly ass bytch.”

I honestly don’t know where you could be that you didn’t see some of these dynamics. Oh well. Everybody got different experiences.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

More gen x blaming

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Watch all the c00ns run in here with their anti-black women rhetoric

Edit Green Mile already in this bytch

 

[Wild self]

More gen x blaming

Gen X with the self-destructive shyt for the sake of being "thorough" and being "gangsta"

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I wasn’t in college in the 90s. I was in grade school in the south in predominately black schools.

And nearly every dude was on that “fukk these hoes” tip. Dudes were even harmonizing about “sorry ass bytches” word to Nate dog. And it wasn’t just thugs.

By the time I hit college around 2000s and the internet became a thing it was a wrap.

Even chicks that weren’t doing anything wrong were liable to be called a bytch or a hoe. In fact I distinctly remember chicks pushing back with the “why she gotta be all that”.

And as a female, if you weren’t feeling a dude who approached you, “well fukk you too! You ain’t all that. Ugly ass bytch.”

I honestly don’t know where you could be that you didn’t see some of these dynamics. Oh well. Everybody got different experiences.

The thread clearly said the 90s, I pushed back and said that this was not the case in the 90s, you said you did not go to college in the 90s but yet you mentioned every, or most black men from the 90s was saying this? Stop it ma'am
Then you mentioned why city girls say fukk these nikkas, when both of those chicks clearly are not the best representation of black women. You talking bout them as if they are Betty Shabezz or Corette Scott. They've done many scandalous shyt to black men in their past to be labeled as such. They fukked over black men just as much as the next man, and it's a lot of city girls that live under the poverty lines that move like them. You do fukk shyt you get tagged with labels, just like men who do scandalous and fukk shyt.

Again, men under 25 living under the poverty lines deal with scandalous women and vice versa, women trying to get over, men trying to get over, these sayings will fit the very worse of society.
You do fukk shyt, you get labeled as such.


Again, ain't no college man saying all that to a black woman after being rejected. stop being dramatic. In 2000 gangsta rap was dying down, Bow Wow was taking over and lol at you mentioning Nate Dog as if black men around the country under 25 bumped Nate Dog like that smh.

2000s, Who ran rap?
Nas
Jay
Bow wow
Dipset
DMX
Ludacris
Jadakiss etc.
These rappers for the most weren't blasting these phrases across the radio like that and it was not heavy in their music like you are saying. The Snap era came after that. Please stop it

Early 2000s, outside of 50 cent and even he wasn't saying those sayings towards black women, rappers weren't saying that.

Please stop the fake out cry

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I wasn’t in college in the 90s. I was in grade school in the south in predominately black schools.

And nearly every dude was on that “fukk these hoes” tip. Dudes were even harmonizing about “sorry ass bytches” word to Nate dog. And it wasn’t just thugs.

By the time I hit college around 2000s and the internet became a thing it was a wrap.

Even chicks that weren’t doing anything wrong were liable to be called a bytch or a hoe. In fact I distinctly remember chicks pushing back with the “why she gotta be all that”.

And as a female, if you weren’t feeling a dude who approached you, “well fukk you too! You ain’t all that. Ugly ass bytch.”

I honestly don’t know where you could be that you didn’t see some of these dynamics. Oh well. Everybody got different experiences.

Ma'am black women for the most call other black women ugly ass bytches.

Black women cause and do more harm to other black women with these sayings than men, but yet you put everything on black men. Stop it ma'am.

If anything, black women are the ones tearing other black women down on some jealous stuff. Women are more quick to hate on another black women, even their own friend


But you don't wanna go down that hole though. Y'all poor, middle class and those with money look down on your own sisters, and it be on some of the silliest shyt, y'all are quick to shyt on your own black woman faster than most men
Women fall out with women all that time. I can't tell you how many women I met who have said, I don't have female friends, I only hang out with dudes etc.

You don't hear black men saying, I don't have male friends, all I hang out is females. You don't hear stories of black men going on guys trips and coming back mad at one another, but you do hear it amongst black women, girls trips be a mess and y'all be at each other necks calling each other this and that

Please stop it

 

[rbksNgirbauds]

GREAT QUESTION OP.
Hate seeing older generations attack younger generations for taking on the problems THEY WERE LEFT, in whatever manner that they do.

Since the 80s nikkas been on straight SIMP and TRICK timing. And the climate we have now are just the results of all the pandering and lack of backbone displayed over the decades. Can't blame the babies , blame the old heads that would try to give the world to a bytch with 3 kids. Or the oldheads that made it "acceptable" to LITERALLY throw away your hard earned money just to see a hoe do splits on a pole.
Or the oldheads who were too shook to tell their paramour, "No, ain't finna be no girl trips to Miami without me. fukk outta here bytch"

And I can go on and on and on. That shyt catches up eventually

 

[MasterThought]

Shout-out to all the black queens out there. We love y'all.

 

[RhodyRum]

Mostly rappers, actors in hood movies who characters are under 25 living under the poverty lines would say these things to women, I don't recall too many college black men in the 90s quoting these things to black college women in the 90s. Never heard Dwayne Wayne or Theo quote these sayings to the black women on screen. Never heard Babyface or Tevin Campbell say these things. I usually heard this from coming from Gangsta Rappers,

Sorry to tell you that, but that kind of language when said outside of the songs come from men who live under the poverty lines under the age of 25.

I'm sure you are not saying men who are upstanding citizens were going around int he 90s telling up standing black women these things?

This is where your stance falls short, this did not happen in the 90s

This post is GARBAGE.

I mean from projecting media created by writers in the 1990s as some sort of real world barometer to thinking a college-educated person was/is above keeping shıt gully, and all points in between...

This post is GARBAGE.

 

[RhodyRum]

All Black women are queens.

fukk you if you deny any one of them their opportunity to be great.

Aside from committing homicide on her or sexually enslaving her against her will, how the hell can a Black man deny a Black woman her "opportunity to be great?"

Y'all nikkas REALLY try to come off as some deep-thinking ass dudes only to sound dumb as fukk for real for real.

 

[Studious one]

For every “queen” that was thrown around there was also “black bytch”, “all these bytches is hoes”, “slob on my knob like corn on the cob”, “bird bytch”, “chicken head”, “hair hat” “burnt bytch”, “dark butt” “hoe”, “fukk these hoes”, “bottom bytch”, “hoodrat”, “rachet hoe” and “manly bytch” many more expletives to describe, denigrate and disrespect blk women. I’ll never understand where the phrase “pandering” comes from when it comes to black women, when we as a community are remarkably creative about clowning everything on a black woman from her hair to her toes.

So it cancels it out.

Always so eloquently said!