Bae Is Becoming Cheap. Help A Bruhette Out?

[Ooh Marty]

Nah. I honestly can't say it was like that.

And I never foot the entire bill, unless I OFFER.



We will go dutch though. That's the problem. "dutch". Not me paying for everything. (im sorry if I implied that)

Not even Dutch
If he offered to take u out , he should pay for everything

Jesus u doing it all wrong !

 

[scarlxrd]

Nah. I honestly can't say it was like that.

And I never foot the entire bill, unless I OFFER.



We will go dutch though. That's the problem. "dutch". Not me paying for everything. (im sorry if I implied that)

Real talk, it's going to be hard to get a dude to go from full price > dutch > full price

You can talk to him but I'm sure he'll be about it

 

[Ooh Marty]

Real talk, it's going to be hard to get a dude to go from full price > dutch > full price

You can talk to him but I'm sure he'll be about it

Exactly!

U already got the nikka think u pity him and feel sorry for him and he's obviously using that to his advantage

 

[Strapped]

I mean, is it you who are setting up the dates because if so then you should be paying. Why don't you try doing some things that don't require you to spend money?

dido

 

[Strapped]

does him spending money on you, make you feel good

 

[killacal]

that breh needs to step his game up. How do you guys expect to be with a female, especially a good one, if you aint picking up the tab? There ain't no point in a female being with the dude if he ain't providing for her? I'm not saying this nikka needs to hand over his whole check, but his woman shouldn't be picking up his tab. The day your woman is paying your shyt, is the day you aint a man anymore IMO.

OP, just tell that bum ass nikka he need to straighten up

didn't you just get out of a 20 year marriage aka you haven't dated a bytch this millennium
Talk about what you know nothing about brehs

 

[scarlxrd]

Exactly!

U already got the nikka think u pity him and feel sorry for him and he's obviously using that to his advantage

That's what I'm saying. She allowed him to slack off so he's going to slack off. We will only do what you women allow us to do. So it's not you give us an inch, we take a mile.

You give us an inch, that inch is ours forever. You felt like helping him out with the bill that day, so... why not every day?

OP, you fukked up.

 

[Detroit Wave]

In short: stop wasting good p*ssy on fukk nikkas

so he a fukk nikka because she wants to be what essentially is a gold digger?

 

[Ooh Marty]

so he a fukk nikka because she wants to be what essentially is a gold digger?

Gold digging is fukking a nikka for cars, purses, and money!


Since when is it gold digging for a man to pay for his girl on a date?

Spoken like a true fukk boy!

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Exactly. It's too late now that you've been wishy washy on the issue. If you want us to foot the bill, we're more than willing to do so just to get and keep the p*ssy.

If you want to feel guilty about the dude spending an extra 20-25 bucks then you've just cheapened yourself. Ask yourself this.... If he could get you on pennies a day, you think he'd spend dollars?

Think about that shyt. That's what I mean by your p*ssy stock dropping.

K.


That all makes sense... But our relationship is great aside for this issue we just started having. I will just talk to him about it.

The next guy I date I will make pay for everything and never contribute. I don't ever want to be too nice or generous, because I have to worry about a man not valuing me if I do.

Thanks for the help.

Love.

 

[Detroit Wave]

Gold digging is fukking a nikka for cars, purses, and money!


Since when is it gold digging for a man to pay for his girl on a date?

Spoken like a true fukk boy!

she want him to start footing the bill when that wasnt what was initially established.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Gold digging is fukking a nikka for cars, purses, and money!


Since when is it gold digging for a man to pay for his girl on a date?

Spoken like a true fukk boy!

Thank you! I am far from a gold digger... If I was I would never have paid for anything or even entertained him!

You see how men on here will drag and blame the woman for everything?

 

[Ooh Marty]

That's what I'm saying. She allowed him to slack off so he's going to slack off. We will only do what you women allow us to do. So it's not you give us an inch, we take a mile.

You give us an inch, that inch is ours forever. You felt like helping him out with the bill that day, so... why not every day?

OP, you fukked up.

Once she figures out that men subconsciously take our lead at the beginning she should be good

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

she want him to start footing the bill when that wasnt what was initially established.

Incorrect.

Did you actually READ what I typed?

 

[Detroit Wave]

Incorrect.

Did you actually READ what I typed?

no

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in all seriousness tho, talk to him and be upfront. dont let this shyt fester if it truly bothers you