Bae Is Becoming Cheap. Help A Bruhette Out?
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This not answering my question dumb assshe want him to start footing the bill when that wasnt what was initially established.
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Get used to it darling
Dumb ass
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Hey Guys...
I spoke about my boyfriend in the other thread, but I am having a relationship problem I would like your advice about. My boyfriend is becoming cheap, and I don't know how to confront him about this without seeming... greedy?
When we first started dating we would take turns paying for dates. He would get one, I would get the next one. This isn't something we agreed to, but it is something I did because our living situations are different. We both have decent jobs, but I have less bills than him, and he has a teenager. (I know she is expensive. lol)
He would ask me out, and I would just pay the bill when it came... . He would look shocked and say, "thanks".
Or if we went to the movies he would buy the tickets, and I would buy the snacks. (I like a lot of snacks, and I know they can be expensive)
Lately though he is getting comfortable. He doesn't want to date as much, and if we do, he looks for me to pick up the tab, or contribute something, always. (like a least the tip) At first, he didn't do this.
I don't mind contributing. I have shown him that. However, I don't want to always have to.
Am I wrong for that?
My mother AND Brother warned me about this. When you give a man an inch, they will take a mile! Why would he start taking advantage like that?I never call him asking for money or help. Shouldn't he appreciate that? Shouldn't that be rewarded?
Now it seems like he thinks he doesn't have to do anything for me, or just do nice things.
When trying to be independent backfires, eh?
#HelpPlease
They were right you shouldn't have done that. If I was really feeling a female I never ever ever ever EVER asked her to pay for anything.
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Your box must be dusty otherwise he would be throwing cash at you
Not at all...
I have had men throwing cash at me, but I like respect and quality time. My man does give me that, and he is a good man.
The men that "throw cash" usually suck in bed, neglect you and lack affection.
I know if I asked, my man would give me his last dollar!
He's Just cheap.
There are lots of ways a man can show you he cares, or enjoys your "box". Not just with "throwing cash". A poor man like yourself should know this.
Gold digging is fukking a nikka for cars, purses, and money!
Since when is it gold digging for a man to pay for his girl on a date?
Spoken like a true fukk boy!
Not at all...
I have had men throwing cash at me, but I like respect and quality time. My man does give me that, and he is a good man.
The men that "throw cash" usually suck in bed, neglect you and lack affection.
I know if I asked, my man would give me his last dollar!
He's Just cheap.
There are lots of ways a man can show you he cares, or enjoys your "box". Not just with "throwing cash". A poor man like yourself should know this.
If he is a "good man" why are you so concerned about the amount of money he spends? Shouldn't you just be content with having a good man?
you sound like a gold diggerNot at all...
I have had men throwing cash at me, but I like respect and quality time. My man does give me that, and he is a good man.
The men that "throw cash" usually suck in bed, neglect you and lack affection.
I know if I asked, my man would give me his last dollar!
He's Just cheap.
There are lots of ways a man can show you he cares, or enjoys your "box". Not just with "throwing cash". A poor man like yourself should know this.
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True.
But thats the thing... He never did ask me to pay for anything.
When I insisted he would be shocked, and impressed.
Sometimes he would insist that he pays.
Now, if I offer... He won't stop me.
I know how confusing this sounds. I am realizing how ridiculous I sound typing it.
