Lol, I read it. I wanted to see your opinion even if the matter isn't that important. You can delete it if you want.I'm disgusted with myself for this one... who the fukk writes whole epics on such trivialities... you asked for it breh
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Are you British breh?Sure. I think it's quite uncontroversial. I don't believe black women are repulsed or have ever been repulsed by white men. And I think they genuinely would like both to personally experience and see a greater number of black women forming relationships with white men. In fact historically whenever black women were in position to form partnerships with them (even other non-black men) they took it, be it in Brazil, or cabo-verde, or haiti and new orleans with the french plaçage (granted mixed women eventually came to be preferred in this system), etc. This is not surprising; if hypergamy is available to women (well actually for men as well) they will take it.
And this is the crux. The opportunities for the average black woman have not been that plentiful in this regard. That is the supply of white men seeking long-term relationships with black women has historically been dependent on whether other women were available, hence kinda low. For a long while there was this perception that white men simply saw little romantic value in them (of course some of this perception was actually rooted in reality, that is whites in general being quite bigoted towards blacks).
So black women being aware of this tried to salvage some self-agency and said "no muthafukka, don't get it twisted, we don't want you". This is an instance I give credit to them for being somewhat more self reflecting than their male counterparts... black men in the same situation (that is, white and non-black women largely not wanting them as partners) to protect their frail egos invented this notion that all women want them and other dudes just hating the black man's libido.
Things are getting far better for black women in this regard though. The culture and mentality that encouraged virulent open racism against blacks is dying. Though they do not have yet (and likely will never gain) the status of white women, some of them now have more options in regards to partners (educated middle class black women), and they intend to take full advantage of it. This is why there's a very significant push on their part through the creation of groups, literature, dating apps... all encouraging forming relationships with white an non-black men. Actually social media is a big player in this, it democratised these women's ability to market and promote themselves. Before when all media was essentially white media and holywood, black women were largely invisible and when not, hardly displayed as the prize. Now you just go on the internet and you can see a variety of positive representation of this pairing, because black women are providing the content themselves. It's positive reinforcement.
Do black women have a hard set preference for white men... no. However like any other woman they have preference for certain traits and outcomes (social position, financial stability, power and authority, and positive perception) that white and non-black men exhibit at higher rates than the average black man. This has always been the case. What has not always been the case is the existence of an environment that allows certain women to form unions across racial boundaries for their benefit.
In short, I don't think black women really have a distaste towards white men (some pretend but they don't and at this point the need to pretend is vanishing), in fact if there was a mass demand for them they would furnish the supply. When the demand is not there and is actually compounded with negativity, they quite cleverly turn it around and say "you was no prize anyway wet dog!"
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I asked that because from what you were writing it doesn't sound like you live in Amerikkka
What you described though is what black women who live all over the world EXCEPT for America, even though that is changing as you said.
I will go as far as saying that bw/wm relations OUTNUMBER bm/ww relations GLOBALLY. Black women are like any other women. Race is only a issue here in AMerikkka.
The racial history of this country is the ONLY reason why IR relations between bw/wm is not as high as other IR relations, even though it is increasing. A lot of are not turning down cacs like back in the 90's.
No other nation had racial problems like Amerikkka (except for SA, Namibia, and Zimbabwe and most iR relations their are with older cacs and young bw)
But all in all I do believe that a lot of amerikkkan bw do NOT want wm, nor is that really that attracted to the average cac.
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Most black males are with black women breh. And same for vice versa. Black men may fukk a white woman but in the region where I am at, they settle down with black woman. SO it depends on the region, this is a huge country. Stats might be different in California and Washington state. But in VA, I dont see a lot of black and white relations. I was at a black-owned restaurant Sunday and did not see not ONE white/black relationship. All black families. Went to another black owned restaurant several times, and every time I go there I do not see any IR couples. At least publicly.
But there is a very loud bedwench minority online that make it seem like MOST bw are falling for cacs. They are trying to push this movement towards bw and a lot are falling for it. They NEVER call out wm and always take what a cac does (especially if its something a black man has started and perfected) and go bananas over it. nikkas in here making moist threads about some IG thots then post their cac bf as well. But they dont bother with the bw who are with bm.
But since you live outside the US, I could see why you have reservations. The US has a ugly history with a lot of bad racial strife, and the only country to be on the "Black is Beautiful" movement in the 70's. Because of that, bw outside the US would have NO reservation to stick with black men. Especially if they are immigrants. And I have heard that Africans dating out will have no qualms with their women doing so but will berate their black male families members for doing the same. Plus cacs in other countries are more open to date bw like in England. Cacs here wont be punished by dating bw, and a lot of them see that. He will get praised, especially if he is good-looking. Black women will NOT get punished by her community (other black women, or by the white community)
Black men however WILL get punished in some way if he was seen with a ww or nonblack, rather by HER fam or community or by his own family. This is why I also dont see a lot of bm fukking with ww for everyone too see like that. That's way over exaggerated IMO.
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That's rather easy to answer, some are actually repulsed by white men (and their history with us) while others aren't so much. The latter group fall into the minority and so feel rather ashamed to say that they prefer white men/non-black men to black men as it's not a popular opinion. I will note that this is only related to black women who grew up around a lot of black people as that opinion wouldn't be so unpopular in a white setting. It's no coincidence that as the media normalises black women/non-black men pairings, the minority of black women that do like that kind of thing have started to speak up. I'm talking about the black women that solely date interracially btw, not the ones who dabble in it here and there.
Disclaimer: I am from the UK so I'm really just talking about black people in the UK- I'm not sure if there's a similar situation in the US.
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And this is weird too. In all community the women are generally the ones who are shamed for dating outside of their race while men get no repercussions. but in ours, it's the reverse
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