Been Having Trouble At Work With The Head Manager (Even Though I'm ONE Of The BEST There)

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Alright, I do my work and everything, but I had three encounters with the guy. He's a Caucasian older guy and we have a hiring manager the female who hired me. Anyway, he was getting all upset over something I didn't do. I explained to him I was at lunch this was Friday. Dude says to me, "he's fired stock people for putting things in the wrong place and begins to act irrational". This was AFTER :mindblown: I told him I was at lunch. Then, proceeds to give me a speech on how this is his lively hood and has been doing it for 30 years. Has anyone had this issue before? Because it's weird when you are the best worker there and coworkers are giving you the heads up. However, the head guy constantly whines about it. Had THREE YES THREE:mindblown: negative encounters with the guy. Plus, yesterday the shift manager brings the incident up AGAIN that I had with the head guy :snoop: He treats me like I'm an idiot even though I do my job well. Is it a good idea to have a private discussion with him when I go back to work? Plus he asked how old I am. He then says in a stern voice, "I've been doing this longer than you been alive". Me STUNNED :wow:I'm not even a drama person, but other coworkers argue with each other. Have an interview tomorrow for another job. Hopefully, I get it and I'm just trying to stay out of trouble, so in the future I can get a letter of recommendation when I start my career. Whats your advice?

P.S. the shift manager is a different person than the lady who hired me.
Hes concerned you will take his job for less money so hes going to get you fired before you make any waves.
 

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This is what I said I was gonna do and I agree with you. I stood up for myself three times against dude, but he's just getting annoying.
You must be a beta,probably didn't even look him in the eye when you confronted him:beli:
Back when I used to have a regular job I've had a few encounters with bytch ass make supervisors tryna snap at me when I would always be doing my job right,bith times I pulled them to the back and let them know what's up,told them they better realize they talking to a man first,and an employee second,I ain't do nothing to have them comming at me like that,but I have no problem handling the situation the way I see fit,they both backed off after and stopped giving me shyt:leostare:
 

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You must be a beta,probably didn't even look him in the eye when you confronted him:beli:
Back when I used to have a regular job I've had a few encounters with bytch ass make supervisors tryna snap at me when I would always be doing my job right,bith times I pulled them to the back and let them know what's up,told them they better realize they talking to a man first,and an employee second,I ain't do nothing to have them comming at me like that,but I have no problem handling the situation the way I see fit,they both backed off after and stopped giving me shyt:leostare:
Naw I looked his ass in the eye. He bytched some Haitian girl there though and almost made her break down. I've looked him in the eye with all three encounters. Just trying to do what I can to get on my feet and get that break, so I can move out west. Got that other interview Tomorrow.
 

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Naw I looked his ass in the eye. He bytched some Haitian girl there though and almost made her break down. I've looked him in the eye with all three encounters. Just trying to do what I can to get on my feet and get that break, so I can move out west. Got that other interview Tomorrow.
A lot of them be power tripping cuz that's the only shyt they got,you got to make sure you let them know that don't mean shyt to you at the end of the day,while still doing your job duties,when both realized I could care less and that I'd put hands on em if they kept unwarranted disrespecting me they stopped bugging me and just moved along to the other employees to power trip on
 

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A lot of them be power tripping cuz that's the only shyt they got,you got to make sure you let them know that don't mean shyt to you at the end of the day,while still doing your job duties,when both realized I could care less and that I'd put hands on em if they kept unwarranted disrespecting me they stopped bugging me and just moved along to the other employees to power trip on
True, especially with he that's the only thing they have. Dude even came to the place on his day off to bytch someone out.
 

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Aww the workplace. :blessed: Always having to deal with bitter ass people who can't just be happy they're making money and live to make your life miserable. :francis:

That's why it's best to move up as fast as possible so that there's less people above you and you have more power. That, or do the @DrX approach and start your own business. :manny:
 

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Aww the workplace. :blessed: Always having to deal with bitter ass people who can't just be happy they're making money and live to make your life miserable. :francis:

That's why it's best to move up as fast as possible so that there's less people above you and you have more power. That, or do the @DrX approach and start your own business. :manny:
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Like someone said above, dude is a loser. Try to get a transfer to another department, if not just lay low until you get another job.

And unless you know someone in HR, they probably won't help. The best thing is to not let him intimidate you, stand up for yourself.
 

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Like someone said above, dude is a loser. Try to get a transfer to another department, if not just lay low until you get another job.

And unless you know someone in HR, they probably won't help. The best thing is to not let him intimidate you, stand up for yourself.
Thats what I always do anyway stand up for myself. Also, I have a job interview today.
 
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