Been with my girl for two years and she wants to live together

Rice'N Beckford

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See this is what I dont get,
Y'all been together for 4 years, yet you STILL waiting to see if ole girl wifey material?
You in college bruh you not supposed to be locked down with a girl in the first place.

Ive been outta college since 2014 and she been out since 2015 and met in 12:yeshrug:

And yes, fukk I look like moving in with a chick rn:francis:. I been at my crib since a kid. I damn sure aint gonna start my new chapter ij my life shacked up with my gf.

Plus she dont want none of that marriage, kids or moving in shyt till she gets her own :blessed:
 

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But that's not everyone's intentions... People date just to date yes it's a thing. People move at different speeds. Two years people can start getting comfortable and their real actions come to light. Main problem is people put a time line on something as unpredictable as a relationship. Begone with this horseshyt.
This.
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Ive been outta college since 2014 and she been out since 2015 and met in 12:yeshrug:

And yes, fukk I look like moving in with a chick rn:francis:. I been at my crib since a kid. I damn sure aint gonna start my new chapter ij my life shacked up with my gf.

Plus she dont want none of that marriage, kids or moving in shyt till she gets her own :blessed:
My bad bruh I thot you was still in school.
I feel you on the innate time honored tradition of luvin' the one youre with tho.
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my personal rule is I'll never do it until I put a ring on it. Lines tend to get blurred where you'll feel like a married couple when you're really not. I did it after only one year of dating so that's why my situation didn't work out
my rule is similar. id do it while on the brink of proposing...as a trial phase of sorts before i actually spend that bread on the engagement ring lol.
id have to live with her for 8-12 months to be safe though
 

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So when u have your opinion it's cool but when i have my opinion it's horseshyt.

Being with someone for 2 yrs u have no intentions with is horse shyt. That's what friends are for. It's people like you that have baby mamas and daddies they can't stand because they continue to fukk someone they never wanted anyways.

So miss me with your 23 yr old boy logic
But that's not everyone's intentions... People date just to date yes it's a thing. People move at different speeds. Two years people can start getting comfortable and their real actions come to light. Main problem is people put a time line on something as unpredictable as a relationship. Begone with this horseshyt.
 
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