Been with Shorty three years. This weekend she moving in. Gimme some do's and don'ts...

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The majority of brehs who will offer you advice here probably haven't been with a woman longer than 3 months. Maybe 3 weeks

Be careful o

IMO cohabitation is a mandatory step to progressing to anything serious. As is an open dialogue on finances. shyt's not all butterflies and cotton candy

 

[True Darkseid]

You fukked up

You said it wrong. You being nice.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Yo I just went through this except for I moved in with her

 

[Rusty$hackleford]

- shyt BETTER BE OFF THE PLATES/FROM IN THE CUPS/RUBBED FROM THE UTENSILS BEFORE shyt HIT THE SINK

 

[Kane1]

Don't get on her nerves

What kind of hoe ass stuff Is this


She’s MOVING IN WITH HIM


She better act right

 

[Womb Raider]

Don’t do it

If it turns out bad, it will fukk your life up

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Do make sure she is

Cooking
Cleaning
Doing what you say

Make sure you do not

Cook
Clean
Do what she says

Unless of course it's a holiday or something a man is supposed to be doing

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

There’s a lot of changes that come with living with someone especially a SO. Just be prepared to deal with her personality on a regular basis and also her wants and needs as well as yours will combat each other at times. Your place will probably be cluttered for a few weeks as you all work through what to keep and what to get rid of. Of course that could spark some disagreements. Just know that once everything is settled and you all get into a routine, it gets a lot easier and you all will settle into your own patterns and establish a new dynamic to your relationship.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Get use to having dry dikk and having to work overtime with work wife to make amends and you'll be good. She'll have a work husband as well.

 

[Honey Bee]

What kind of hoe ass stuff Is this


She’s MOVING IN WITH HIM


She better act right

No hoe babble, jackass. It's just realationship advice.Men can get annoying when a woman is living with y'all, or worst yet dependent on y'all. Hence why I feel like her moving in isn't a good idea.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Do make sure she is

Cooking
Cleaning
Doing what you say

Make sure you do not

Cook
Clean
Do what she says

Unless of course it's a holiday or something a man is supposed to be doing

You're right though. They will sit back and not do shyt the moment they find out you know how to boil water.

 

[Astroslik]

The majority of brehs who will offer you advice here probably haven't been with a woman longer than 3 months. Maybe 3 weeks

Be careful o

IMO cohabitation is a mandatory step to progressing to anything serious. As is an open dialogue on finances. shyt's not all butterflies and cotton candy

Disregarding the dap fishing attempts the first half of your post. I agree with this. Better not wait till marriage to see if you can cohabitate.

 

[Mowgli]

You're right though. They will sit back and not do shyt the moment they find out you know how to boil water.

If you let them

And if she says

"I'm not your mother", while you're dating?

Imagine the rest of your life.


These chicks been plowed by otther men then act like their presence is a favor, telling you they love you, while not doing shyt for you, expecting the world.

That's not their purpose and if she can't understand that, there are greener pastures. If you gotta force it, abort it. When they're really feeling you they go out of their way for your happiness, indefinately.

 

[Vodun]

When I was living with my ex, I did exactly this and after a while he hated it.. He said I was working too much, and spending too much time with my girlfriends. He even thought I was part lesbian because I did spend too much time with them. Op, I am speaking as a woman that has been in this situation before. I don't really think it's a good idea too be honest. But hopefully your situation will turn out for the better. Who idea was it anyways?

Just wondering why did you spend so much time with your girlfriends and not your dude?

 

[Dreadknox77]

- Let it be known from JUMP no one is cleaning up after each other. This ain't accusatory, but shyt gotta be said.

- Let it be known that you doing something you want to do by yourself isn't ignoring the other, just the you-time you put in for during the day. Hour on Xbox/PS4/whatever.

- If you watchin a show together, bytch beh-NOT jump ahead for ANY reason.

- shyt BETTER BE OFF THE PLATES/FROM IN THE CUPS/RUBBED FROM THE UTENSILS BEFORE shyt HIT THE SINK

- Now, hear me: ESTABLISH THE MAX TIME Y'ALL STAY AWAKE. Nothing worse than one going to bed, then the other strolling in at 3am and fukkin up someone else's sleep.

- If it hits the fridge, it's game unless you impose specifics about what your desires are. Putting a name on shyt don't mean shyt.

- Finally, stay in trial mode during the duration. Always acting like it can be over the safest way you can prolong this. I was with mine for 3 years before getting a kid, then married.

Good luck

Just reading this list sounds exhausting...homie fukked up