Been with Shorty three years. This weekend she moving in. Gimme some do's and don'ts...

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

subs

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Get use to having dry dikk and having to work overtime with work wife to make amends and you'll be good. She'll have a work husband as well.

Is it impossible to give legit advice? Or is coli daps so important?

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Don't do it

This.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Don't get on her nerves

Or she gon try to kick your ass out yo own shyt!

*Don't even ask me why or how just trust me in this.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Is it impossible to give legit advice? Or is coli daps so important?

Why is his advice not legit to you?

 

[Mowgli]

I cook and I clean. I just don’t understand why you think you’re a special snowflake and don’t have to contribute unless it’s a special occasion.

Then you will not have a problem.



Hopefully.
Of course I contribute.

I'm paying the mortgage.

But even if we were struggling the rules remain the same.

A woman's not doing a man a favor treating him less than until he has greater than but obviously bum ass dudes who don't want to work and earn and provide for those they love don't deserve nice women.

Covid should have been an alarm clock to wake women up to realize getting solid man and being in your right mind to him is deadly important cuz there's nothing but wolves in the street waiting for you to go hungry.

A man in the scriptures is the only way women can win. Anything less is a time bom.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Its over breh

I hope she clean. Mine turned out to be a messy bytch

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Why is his advice not legit to you?

Because it’s a cynical viewpoint inspired by a need for conformity to the overall negative mindset of women/relationships that tends to plaque this particular forum. If that’s an actual feeling he has then he needs to give more context. Seriously, most couples do not have work husbands/wives.

 

[Eclipser]

If you let them

And if she says

"I'm not your mother", while you're dating?

Imagine the rest of your life.


These chicks been plowed by otther men then act like their presence is a favor, telling you they love you, while not doing shyt for you, expecting the world.

That's not their purpose and if she can't understand that, there are greener pastures. If you gotta force it, abort it

Whole post is flames

 

[the cool]

i was with mine for 4 years before moving in together...a year and a half later we broke up

 

[HARLEM AL]

Just wondering why did you spend so much time with your girlfriends and not your dude?

You really got to ask

 

[Rhyse]

Don’t move in any woman you’re not at least engaged to.

As a woman, I support this message. But I’ve also asked that we stay living separate as long as possible. I need space. Each of you should value quiet time. Also don’t be afraid to not speak as soon as either of you get home. Greetings are fine. But sometimes people need a few minutes to decompress before all out conversations every day. I really don’t want to hear anything unless it’s a must until after I’ve showered and changed clothes.

Value personal space, items, and time. Have financial and cleaning expectations clearly defined in detail before moving in. Write it down if you have to. Revisit household budgets and such monthly in a sit down meeting. Do not get joint accounts unless married. And even then measure twice and cut once. In other words make sure before you do it. Don’t assume anything in the relationship. Make sure rules of the relationship status and expectations are clearly defined. Keep family and friends out of your household and relationship business. Unless abuse is involved what goes in your house is expected to stay in your house. If you don’t already don’t have kids yet. Be respectful.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I ain't never having a woman move in with me. Weekends only, keep things fresh

 

[mamba]

As a woman, I support this message. But I’ve also asked that we stay living separate as long as possible. I need space. Each of you should value quiet time. Also don’t be afraid to not speak as soon as either of you get home. Greetings are fine. But sometimes people need a few minutes to decompress before all out conversations every day. I really don’t want to hear anything unless it’s a must until after I’ve showered and changed clothes.

Value personal space, items, and time. Have financial and cleaning expectations clearly defined in detail before moving in. Write it down if you have to. Revisit household budgets and such monthly in a sit down meeting. Do not get joint accounts unless married. And even then measure twice and cut once. In other words make sure before you do it. Don’t assume anything in the relationship. Make sure rules of the relationship status and expectations are clearly defined. Keep family and friends out of your household and relationship business. Unless abuse is involved what goes in your house is expected to stay in your house. If you don’t already don’t have kids yet. Be respectful.

Solid advice!

 

[KOohbt]

You bout to find shyt she do annoying af. Lil shyt

Do you just be clean and respectful and don't listen to these lame ass coli nikkas they ain't never live with a women. They just talkin shyt.

But if y'all make it thru a year y'all good