Being A Good-Looking Man Is Overrated

JamilALAmin

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Can you attest to this with personal experience? Because I still experience women flossing and stunting. And all that other stuff you said are just semantics. None of it is cold hard proof or from actual experience.

:mjlol:Breh I don't know how else to say this without sounding like I'm coming off bragging but my entire existence as a single man has been predicated on that. Every woman I have fukked with seriously or been in a realationship with has been like that. I ain't broke by any means. But I ain't no rich nikka either. No where near it. And I stay fukking with a chick who got major bread. Like a lot more than me. I'm a halfway street college drop out and my first ex owns a tax franchise and my last ex had a masters with a good ass job and my main chick now just got out of law school. And they all cute. I don't fukk with ugly or out of shape women. That's why I don't get mad at these sisters out here for going after dudes with money. Cuz I'm on the same shyt they on. Lol. Im looking for a woman with a check. And I'm not even looking for a woman to break bread on me. I make enough to where I can provide for my own. Got to much pride to ask a woman for shyt. But at the same time if I can fukk with a chick who got her shyt together then that's a whole lot less stress on me
 

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:mjlol:Breh I don't know how else to say this without sounding like I'm coming off bragging but my entire existence as a single man has been predicated on that. Every woman I have fukked with seriously or been in a realationship with has been like that. I ain't broke by any means. But I ain't no rich nikka either. No where near it. And I stay fukking with a chick who got major bread. Like a lot more than me. I'm a halfway street college drop out and my first ex owns a tax franchise and my last ex had a masters with a good ass job and my main chick now just got out of law school. And they all cute. I don't fukk with ugly or out of shape women. That's why I don't get mad at these sisters out here for going after dudes with money. Cuz I'm on the same shyt they on. Lol. And I'm not even looking for a woman to break bread on me. I make enough to where I can provide for my own. Got to much pride to ask a woman for shyt. But at the same time if I can fukk with a chick who got her shyt together then that's a whole lot less stress on me
So your saying that you got with all these women because of your looks? If not, then I don't understand the point of your post. And your gonna tell me that no chick has ever tried to string you along, use you for attention, played games, hard to get etc with you? If you say yes then your telling straight :duck::duck::duck:
 

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So your saying that you got with all these women because of your looks? If not, then I don't understand the point of your post. And your gonna tell me that no chick has ever tried to string you along, use you for attention, played games, hard to get etc with you? If you say yes then your telling straight :duck::duck::duck:

Smart dumb nikka you asked me if I was speaking from personal experience. You can read between the lines. And fukk yeah I've taken plenty of L's fukking with women. Who hasn't? You win some you lose some. That's why this shyt called a game. But I'm not a lame and can peep game easily so I'm pretty sure I've avoided a lot of pitfalls out here. Lot y'all brehs go after the wrong women anyway. I got a pretty good track record of picking good ones. Brehs on here stay whining about these Instagram type chicks and just sit back and laugh cuz its so many Black women out here who look good and got they shyt together.
 

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I've never given this Any thought. :jbhmm:

I suppose I'm a good looking dude. Been told it most my life. The sexy the fine as hell the do you model blah blah blah...

I don't know if its overrated or if I've had a certain amount of success in life because of it. Success with getting with hot babes maybe. Financial success I don't know. People trusting me more than the average mf I don't know.

I'm a manipulative charismatic charming mf any mfin way so I don't know if how "fine" I am has to do with any of that success trust shyt.

Its probably overrated. I wouldn't know what a "ugly" man looks like so again I'm not sure.
 

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Smart dumb nikka you asked me if I was speaking from personal experience. You can read between the lines. And fukk yeah I've taken plenty of L's fukking with women. Who hasn't? You win some you lose some. That's why this shyt called a game. But I'm not a lame and can peep game easily so I'm pretty sure I've avoided a lot of pitfalls out here. Lot y'all brehs go after the wrong women anyway. I got a pretty good track record of picking good ones. Brehs on here stay whining about these Instagram type chicks and just sit back and laugh cuz its so many Black women out here who look good and got they shyt together.
No need to call people names. I misunderstood when you said flossing and stunting in your other post for women who flake, play games etc. Anyways, I don't whine about instagram model type women nor do I chase after them, hoodrats or any other low quality type of women. But all that character shyt don't mean anything. The vast majority of women are playing games, flaking, and leading SOME dude on. It may not be you, but it may be the dudes she has as backup in case you fukk up somewhere or she gets bored of you. And the more attractive they are, the more susceptible they are to attention whoring behavior.
 

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nikkas don't realize all that outside shyt won't catch a bytch. it'll grab her attention, but then what? the looks, cars, clothes, money may catch her attention but they won't talk for you. OP will just keep on with the excuses

The Realist shyt said in the whole thread and it went right over these simp nikkas head..the nikka I kno wit the most bytches on his dyck lives with his woman and doesn't have a job, has 3 babymamas and 4 or 5 hoes applying to be the 4th babymama..women cling to this broke nikka like Flys to shyt and it's all because he got a mouthpiece and confidence...

Money will put you in the same room as a bytch but if you corny you'll drop the ball every time.
 

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actual picture of OP in the mall:

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I was thinking about this earlier. Being an insecure average to good looking guy (not great looking but decent) is one of the worst things in the world. Most women have no game/are insecure their self and can be terrible conversationalist so you (I :mjcry:) only know when they're openly hitting on you when they're drunk (they become really touchy and show way more eye contact, will dance around you, shyt like that). I've found females sometimes flirt by being dikks and looking for a sign but most of the time, dudes won't notice because they're just thinking bytches are just being a bytch.
 

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No need to call people names. I misunderstood when you said flossing and stunting in your other post for women who flake, play games etc. Anyways, I don't whine about instagram model type women nor do I chase after them, hoodrats or any other low quality type of women. But all that character shyt don't mean anything. The vast majority of women are playing games, flaking, and leading SOME dude on. It may not be you, but it may be the dudes she has as backup in case you fukk up somewhere or she gets bored of you. And the more attractive they are, the more susceptible they are to attention whoring behavior.

Wouldn't say the vast majority of woman are flakes. There are a lot of flakes out here, true. But it's just as many if not a little more who not on that shyt.
 

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If you're in the top 5% of looks (I'm including height/physique as a part of looks) you are going to eat. However once you get out of that elite category looks matter less and less.

Same thing with money. If you are in the top 5% of your age range, then you are going to have tons of options.
 

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If you're in the top 5% of looks (I'm including height/physique as a part of looks) you are going to eat. However once you get out of that elite category looks matter less and less.

Same thing with money. If you are in the top 5% of your age range, then you are going to have tons of options.
Not really the game has definitely changed. Right now I'm in college and I'm a nobody to the vast majority of students. In high school I could have ate off my looks, physique, height along with my mysteriousness. I went to a pretty big high school but I was probably one of the most handsome dudes in the school (no homo and not trying to brag just stating the facts).

But in college women have access to so many different types of dudes, plus with apps like tinder popping average and below average chicks can be picky af and even have dudes above her looks wise competing for her attention.
 
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