Being an introvert appreciation/unappreciation thread

[mbewane]

I'm not

breh same here, I get some but it's few and far in between

The mystery of my strong silence/ their maternal desire to want to break me outta the shell they think I'm trapped in has been quite the combo. The fact that I actually can chat em up if need be makes it deadly. Extroverts can learn from the less is more sometimes mindset.





-P-

that username fits that passive manipulation technique perfectly

 

[Marci-Senpai]

You wouldn't be on Internet forums all day if you liked being around people so much

C/S

 

[TheNig]

"to know yourself, is to know others"

"to conquer yourself is more impressive than to conquer millions"

just 2 quotes i always loved as an introverted person. i dont remember who said them and im just paraphrasing but thats the gist of it.

Dat personal power is the best to conquer not only yourself but it helps develop a strong ass influence on others.

 

[yo moms]

Presentations in class
Introducing yourself on the first day of class
Group assignments

Pray I dont have to do this

 

[Marci-Senpai]

Presentations in class
Introducing yourself on the first day of class
Group assignments

just had to do all these today

 

[semtex]

just had to do all these today

me too. Both my classes for the summer are very discussion oriented Critical thinking is the worst. Can't think on the spot.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

The mystery of my strong silence/ their maternal desire to want to break me outta the shell they think I'm trapped in has been quite the combo. The fact that I actually can chat em up if need be makes it deadly. Extroverts can learn from the less is more sometimes mindset.





-P-

Exactly, I don't do small talk with anybody, I don't care how hot a chick is. If she says something I don't care about I will hit her with the and keep going about my day. Don't let these chicks be having frivolous ass conversations with you, that's how dudes land in the friendzone. Make women have to EARN your attention and they'll either leave you alone (in which case they weren't all that interested in the first place) or double their efforts by actually having pertinent conversations. These chicks love to chat random people up and use dudes as soundboards. If I'm not fukking then I don't feel the need to pretend I care. Obvious, none of the above applies to wifey though

 

[puppetmaster]

that username fits that passive manipulation technique perfectly

coincidence strictly.




















-P-

 

[Marci-Senpai]

me too. Both my classes for the summer are very discussion oriented Critical thinking is the worst. Can't think on the spot.

because of the condensed schedule ima have to be making presentations and shyt every week

i aint about that public speaking life

 

[AVO]

Presentations in class
Introducing yourself on the first day of class
Group assignments

This whole post is the essence of my school days. I would take an f before I'd consider doing a presentation. Classes would split the percentage of the grade earned between the presentation and written paper so I'd do the project but when they call me up to present I tell them :nah:. Introductions: . Group projects: .

 

[CASHAPP]

just had to do all these today

that shyt that annoys me is that ....it hasn't happened in a while but I remember my first semester in college(im about to graduate in august) I got that introducing shyt in my English 101 class....and my speech communications class....

like even if those are liberal arts type of classes you would think going on to college you wouldn't deal with that shyt anymore...

but no you gotta get those professors who are so lazy the first day they do some bullshyt like that...



if a miracle happens(long story) in the next couple of weeks and i am allowed to dorm the college I got accepted to for the fall semester.....I really hope my roommate is someone who can sympathize and isn't some loud mouth dude constantly feeling the need to "express himself" to try and compensate insecurities inside.....

that shyt would get me heated...hopefully I can pick a roommate and do a good job of "scouting" like im searching for good prospects

 

[CASHAPP]

Exactly, I don't do small talk with anybody, I don't care how hot a chick is. If she says something I don't care about I will hit her with the and keep going about my day. Don't let these chicks be having frivolous ass conversations with you, that's how dudes land in the friendzone. Make women have to EARN your attention and they'll either leave you alone (in which case they weren't all that interested in the first place) or double their efforts by actually having pertinent conversations. These chicks love to chat random people up and use dudes as soundboards. If I'm not fukking then I don't feel the need to pretend I care. Obvious, none of the above applies to wifey though

agreed...

I will assume the first reaction with wifey though that you followed the approach you just listed....and wont turn it around until you know that she is wifey for real.

I cosign...

aint nothing worse than when someone especially a female tries to force unnecessary conversation ...

like being in a study room in the library a couple months ago around these loud ass Jamaican twin chicks.... leave for a second ask to watch their stuff plz for a sec...ok whatever no problemeveryone says or asks that at least once in college...as long as you say thank u about it

come back to continue being loud as fukk and while im on my laptop.....ask if I can play some music for them...not even joking/being sarcastic...

like you fukking serious

 

[AAKing23]

Being black male introvert is an especially curious case That's the last personality trait anyone expects from a black male.

This is the truth :obamaohhh:



Many people expect black men to be charismatic outgoing people who are very talkative. When they do come across a black male that is an introvert who keeps to themselves they usually think something is wrong with him.



It ain't all bad tho, I notice that my introversion tends to draw in alot of curious outgoing chicks who love to know what a nikka is thinking about. And as far as as other races of women go, they seem to love a black dude who's different that doesn't act like a stereotypical black male. You just say something "I love to write and read in my offtime" and they go

 

[semtex]

This is the truth :obamaohhh:



Many people expect black men to be charismatic outgoing people who are very talkative. When they do come across a black male that is an introvert who keeps to themselves they usually think something is wrong with him.



It ain't all bad tho, I notice that my introversion tends to draw in alot of curious outgoing chicks who love to know what a nikka is thinking about. And as far as as other races of women go, they seem to love a black dude who's different that doesn't act like a stereotypical black male. You just say something "I love to write and read in my offtime" and they go

Yeah an introverted black fella will make absolutely no sense to most people. I've dealt with it my whole life. The first time it was brought up to me was in the 2nd grade, believe it or not, by one of my classmates who said "You don't act like a black person" while we were chillin at recess. I remember that vividly.

 

[Ciggavelli]

I work with all extroverts...shyt is like a nightmare everyday brehs

Not being a drinker and having to go to happy hours and work parties


Sometimes I think being an introvert is a real disadvantage but other times shyt's cool. We're smarter


"wise men listen and laugh while fools talk"