Being educated does not make you an ideal mate

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Nah, bro. I do. Character matters, but a good character is a baseline requirement for a relationship. Other aspects include sex, finances, and overall intellect. A chick can be nice as a sunny day but if she's dumb as rocks, unskilled, and uneducated she's no good.
I agree except that I don't believe the lack of a college education makes for a dummy. And college doesn't necessarily build intelligence.

What I got from college was nothin' more than trainin' for a job. Without a sound understandin' of money & self, that's all it will be. The intelligence I look for in women is THAT understandin'. Only a few college majors can help with that. Those who have it typically get it from parents, mentors or self study.

And skills can be obtained in many places outside of college.

I'd take a truely intelligent woman with skills over one that's simply college educated everyday of the week.
 

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A lot of them are masters of trickery

They can fool you
Word! College can provide the trainin' & vocabulary to make a person appear to be somethin' they're not.

I'm in DC. Many "educated" women here. Especially lawyers. Some appear to be slolid on the surface. But hang with 'em a few times & you learn their only real interest & aspiration is to climb the ranks of their field.
 

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Word! College can provide the trainin' & vocabulary to make a person appear to be somethin' they're not.

I'm in DC. Many "educated" women here. Especially lawyers. Some appear to be slolid on the surface. But hang with 'em a few times & you learn their only real interest & aspiration is to climb the ranks of their field.

What's wrong with having priorities?
 

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What's wrong with having priorities?
Absolutely nothin'.

But if a woman's sole interest is her job, she's not my type. We won't have anything in common. I can't learn from her. She's unwillin' to learn from me.

Edit: And I admire havin' knowledge of the law. I just never came up on a lawyer searchin' for knowledge outside of their field.
 
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Absolutely nothin'.

But if a woman's sole interest is her job, she's not my type. We won't have anything in common. I can't learn from her. She's unwillin' to learn from me.

Edit: And I admire havin' knowledge of the law. I just never came up on a lawyer searchin' for knowledge outside of their field.


True. I guess lawyers just see us as clients and potential cases. Most professionals are deeply entrenched in their field.
 

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Word! College can provide the trainin' & vocabulary to make a person appear to be somethin' they're not.

I'm in DC. Many "educated" women here. Especially lawyers. Some appear to be slolid on the surface. But hang with 'em a few times & you learn their only real interest & aspiration is to climb the ranks of their field.
I learned from being around my mother and sisters and realizing how full of shyt they are
 

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My sister owns her own business. But she's a single mother who cries herself to sleep every night. She is not happy unless she is drinking. She's gorgeous too, damn shame
 

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Real Talk

Women have to OutThink us because they're not physically stronger than men

Women have taken down many great men

They are men's #1 weakness

Women are very smart

Don't underestimate them. Don't treat them like they are harmless.

Once you understand that, you won't take love and marriage so lightly.

I'm quick to forgive, but slow to forget. So. I. do. not. ignore. red. flags.
 

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...Breh not hating but i figured that shyt out like my sophmore year of HS.... Good grades didn't mean intelligence.
Exactly. Besides, lets not act like there arent more people out there who are succesful cuz they cut corners, knew/are related to the right people, or simply caught lightning in a bottle than there are people who actually worked for their status. Its a dirty game.
 
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