Being in your 30s with no kids and not being married puts you in a strange place.

[LezJepzin]

I'm booking a trip to Vegas during AVN weekend while reading this

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

I have a couple friends in their 40’s who are unmarried and no kids. shyt gets very strange after a while. Women don’t want dudes that nobody else wants so you have to keep some females in rotation you cannot be single!

My advice to those that are over 30 and single. You better get money and stay fresh on the dating scene.

Or get a female from overseas.

Don’t be the old single weirdo.

 

[Standing on business]

I hear ya but me and my wife have mastered this. Birthday parties and stuff be out of control, everybody show up cuz they know it's gonna turn into a night cap with drinks and whatnot, lol. It's easier once the kids get older, plus I have teenage nieces and nephews. The couples can be outside on the deck by the firepit enjoying a libation or two and shooting the breeze while the kids inside on the Xbox. There's balance, that's whats so incredible about being grown and having kids.

I appreciate another positive perspective in here. These threads are generally filled with the "everyone with kids are miserable and life is mundane" rhetoric, and that's far from the truth.

 

[h2o_proof]

I appreciate another positive perspective in here. These threads are generally filled with the "everyone with kids are miserable and life is mundane" rhetoric, and that's far from the truth.

Yeah I get it, kids ain't for everybody, but I can't possibly imagine getting into my 60's and not having a family of my own. I honestly wonder if some folks think that far down the line.

 

[LezJepzin]

I would rather be in my 30's making good money with nothing to tie me down. People are out there being miserable because of lack of money and having too much responsibilities. I do plan on eventually getting married at 35 though.

Seeing this all over my timeline . Divorces, scandals , anniversary photos when you know what really went down during the marriage

One dude I went to high school committed that the other day



I'm good right now with my good job, condo, disposable income and harem of pawgs

 

[Shorty K]

Are you making this up cause typically people find this out about someone and just be like, "Damn your lucky".

If you're in your 30s and you do want to have kids that's something to think about cause, the longer you wait the harder it is to keep up with the lil rugrats. And also, that clock is ticking... how old do you want to be when your kids grow up? 50s 60s?

Why do so many people sit here and act like it's somehow better to have kids at 25 than 35? Like y'all not improving yourselves and can't look yourselves in the mirror and say I'm a much better person at all facets of life than I was 10 years ago or sumn.

 

[he_is_I]

No hate, but what type of award nikkas want for bein 30 wit no kids and livin it up. That's not doin nothin special, your not adding nothin to the world you just been cautious enough to look out for yourself. I don't blame you because the way the world is now most families end up turning into ugly situations and the man is usually the one who loses the most. The experience of being a parent of a life you created is beautiful. To think "another year" at this age I think is a little strange because...... we was made to reproduce brehs.

 

[///Vega+++]

Im 34
my sperm is getting old...

 

[Rell84shots]

So true. Out of all the married people I know (family, friends, coworkers) only 3 or 4 keep it real. My dad and my oldest brother mostly. They tell me to take my time and that marriage is hell and a ongoing battle. And my dad and brother wear the pants frfr. Women are just hell. Starting to think Men aren't meant to be locked down to one woman til death.

I wouldn't say that, but i do think Marriage shouldn't even be considered until you're in your 30s. The problem is that marriage is expected to be great all the fukking time, when in reality the best marriages are the ones that are sometimes andother times because that's reality. Make no mistake though being in your 30s with no kids/drama and a decent income puts you at the top of the food chain.

 

[call_me_step_daddy]

I’m 27 with all that. My only fear is being a stepdad

face it young blood..the older you get,the more likely that will become you're reality..embrace it breh

women who don't have kids over 30 either can't, or don't want them..the ladder of the two 9 times out of 10 is usually a cold hearted independent chick thats wack in bed

 

[Rell Lauren]

I'm already there. I want children and I want to get married. The older I get, the less appealing I become.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I hear ya but me and my wife have mastered this. Birthday parties and stuff be out of control, everybody show up cuz they know it's gonna turn into a night cap with drinks and whatnot, lol. It's easier once the kids get older, plus I have teenage nieces and nephews. The couples can be outside on the deck by the firepit enjoying a libation or two and shooting the breeze while the kids inside on the Xbox. There's balance, that's whats so incredible about being grown and having kids.

yep...the ones i hang with do that as well. they just dont go "nightlife out on the town" very often. but that is when i go by myself, other girlfriends or date.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

I've been 30 for 4 months and I gotta say, no big deal. I have friends without wives/girlfriends who are traveling and living their lives.

If you stay in shape and stay positive, no one will look at you weird. They might actually be jealous that you have time and money they spend on kids and each other.

 

[Diyhai]

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

So true. Out of all the married people I know (family, friends, coworkers) only 3 or 4 keep it real. My dad and my oldest brother mostly. They tell me to take my time and that marriage is hell and a ongoing battle. And my dad and brother wear the pants frfr. Women are just hell. Starting to think Men aren't meant to be locked down to one woman til death.

I think it's most women just be selfish and want a man forever all to themselves..

Just do you in life...I don't think some people aren't meant to be tied down to one person until death. People need to stop shaming others into feeling that way.