being introverted can be a gift and a curse.

[philmonroe]

Extroverts do care. I ran into this problem at my job. Just let me do my fukking work, why do I have to do small chitchat with you that will just delay my work and make me work later?

New people care too. You go to a party and aren't as talkative and people are like "what's wrong with that guy?." Can't I just chill and listen to the music and people watch? I'll talk when I'm comfortable.

Extroverts left and right make assumptions about introverts and more likely than not, they are negative.

Nah they don't care you confusing bullshyt talk with really caring. Tell everybody you don't want to talk see how much they run up on you at work or a party. I also doubt everybody doing it to you and all the "introverts" unless its maybe a girl that like you or some shyt. That's what makes it funny (in an unbelievable sense) that the quietest people are being harassed the most. Maybe you haven't pay attention in this thread but honestly y'all aren't much better with the talking about folks y'all selves regarding your last sentence. The mirror is all our friends sometimes we need to look at it.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Extroverts do care. I ran into this problem at my job. Just let me do my fukking work, why do I have to do small chitchat with you that will just delay my work and make me work later?

New people care too. You go to a party and aren't as talkative and people are like "what's wrong with that guy?." Can't I just chill and listen to the music and people watch? I'll talk when I'm comfortable.

Extroverts left and right make assumptions about introverts and more likely than not, they are negative.

Extroverts have a tendency of forcing people to engage in social situations they don't want to.

They make it seem bad for not joining in the conversation or being overly "social".

 

[Ciggavelli]

Nah they don't care you confusing bullshyt talk with really caring. Tell everybody you don't want to talk see how much they run up on you at work or a party. I also doubt everybody doing it to you and all the "introverts" unless its maybe a girl that like you or some shyt. That's what makes it funny (in an unbelievable sense) that the quietest people are being harassed the most. Maybe you haven't pay attention in this thread but honestly y'all aren't much better with the talking about folks y'all selves regarding your last sentence. The mirror is all our friends sometimes we need to look at it.

I have told people that I'm an introvert and don't like to talk much. Guess what, they still talk to me "trying to bring me out of my shell."

Extroverts just don't understand what it's like living in a world as an introvert. There are more extroverts than introverts. The majority always makes assumptions about he minority. We see this all the time.

Yes, introverts make assumptions about extroverts as well. But from my experience, it isn't nearly as negative as what extroverts do.

 

[philmonroe]

I have told people that I'm an introvert and don't like to talk much. Guess what, they still talk to me "trying to bring me out of my shell."

Extroverts just don't understand what it's like living in a world as an introvert. There are more extroverts than introverts. The majority always makes assumptions about he minority. We see this all the time.

Yes, introverts make assumptions about extroverts as well. But from my experience, it isn't nearly as negative as what extroverts do.

Well truthfully better watch out for them cats if its guys trying to "bring you out of your shell" If its girls well you know what time it is unless you don't. shyt dude tell me that shyt ok don't have to worry about me outside of hi/bye. There are more functional introverts not true "extroverts" and that's real. If what you think is true alot of things would be different just from a dating perspective. shyt online would really probably never pop cause people would just go after what they want when they see it.

You experience is probably hanging around online or IRL with people like you so of course you going to think people are more negative towards you than you to them. It also could be like you said you feel you are the underdog so its okay to trash the "popular" thing.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Extroverts do care. I ran into this problem at my job. Just let me do my fukking work, why do I have to do small chitchat with you that will just delay my work and make me work later?

New people care too. You go to a party and aren't as talkative and people are like "what's wrong with that guy?." Can't I just chill and listen to the music and people watch? I'll talk when I'm comfortable.

Extroverts left and right make assumptions about introverts and more likely than not, they are negative.

Extroverts have a tendency of forcing people to engage in social situations they don't want to.

They make it seem bad for not joining in the conversation or being overly "social".

Someone asking you what you have planned for the weekend or hows the weather is not forcing you into social situations.

And if you get anxiety from people just being fukking friendly and inclusive than you have a problem.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Someone asking you what you have planned for the weekend or hows the weather is not forcing you into social situations.

And if you get anxiety from people just being fukking friendly and inclusive than you have a problem.

I'm a social person. I don't have social anxiety or any social problems. You're not trying to see it from our side. We're saying why extroverts always try to "push" people to talk. Just because they don't want to talk that doesn't mean they're anti social or whatever term you wanna call them.

Asking somebody the weather or what they're doing for the weekend is not what we're trying to use as a point.

We're talking about :

Social situations, like a party or small gathering of people, where someone tries to force you to go talk or loosen up.

It's like someone is telling you to jump while you're trying to figure how are is the jump. Extroverts just jump in, we look at the distance decide is the jump logical or not

 

[Matt504]

Someone asking you what you have planned for the weekend or hows the weather is not forcing you into social situations.

And if you get anxiety from people just being fukking friendly and inclusive than you have a problem.

no one is suggesting that being asked what their plans are means they're being forced into a social situation.



I prefer to be asked so I can have the option of saying I'm busy that day, as opposed to "dude, why don't you wanna hang out, you're always cooped up in the house, just think about it, blah blah blah"

 

[CrimsonTider]

I'm a social person. I don't have social anxiety or any social problems. You're not trying to see it from our side. We're saying why extroverts always try to "push" people to talk. Just because they don't want to talk that doesn't mean they're anti social or whatever term you wanna call them.

Asking somebody the weather or what they're doing for the weekend is not what we're trying to use as a point.

We're talking about :

Social situations, like a party or small gathering of people, where someone tries to force you to go talk or loosen up.

It's like someone is telling you to jump while you're trying to figure how are is the jump. Extroverts just jump in, we look at the distance decide is the jump logical or not

Its shouldn't be that big of a deal to converse with a fellow human. You guys do it on here with no problem.

If you most of you would admit that you are socially akward/ suffer from social anxiety and stop trying to placate the situation by diagnosing yourself as Introvert it would help.

 

[the artist known az]

Story of my got damn life

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Its shouldn't be that big of a deal to converse with a fellow human. You guys do it on here with no problem.

If you most of you would admit that you are socially akward/ suffer from social anxiety and stop trying to placate the situation by diagnosing yourself as Introvert it would help.

I can't speak for the majority here, but like I said I'm social and not social awkward. I just hate people forcing me to talk when I don't want to. Idk why it's so hard for people to understand some people just don't feel like talking all the time.

If I'm chilling or bumping some music by myself, that doesn't mean I'm social awkward or have social anxiety. It means I'm chilling and enjoying whatever I'm doing with the need of constantly talking and talking

 

[Audemar]

Its shouldn't be that big of a deal to converse with a fellow human. You guys do it on here with no problem.

If you most of you would admit that you are socially akward/ suffer from social anxiety and stop trying to placate the situation by diagnosing yourself as Introvert it would help.

Breh, are you completely stupid or do you do it just for the negs? Conversing online is a matter of choice and there isn't some random person asking "why are aren't you talking?" or something similar, or formulating opinions based on your lack of input. It's practically common knowledge that we live in a social world and people who aren't social, especially in settings where people expect social interactions, are looked at differently and often in a negative manner. Example: I was reading in a lounge filled with people who I worked with but didn't talk to regularly. They were all talking, but I was the "odd one" out by reading. Later on, some chick came up to me and said that she thought it was "rude of me to not speak" and that I must be arrogant or something to that effect.

 

[observe]

Hey looks it's another self congratulatory thread about being an introvert

 

[CrimsonTider]

Breh, are you completely stupid or do you do it just for the negs? Conversing online is a matter of choice and there isn't some random person asking "why are aren't you talking?" or something similar, or formulating opinions based on your lack of input. It's practically common knowledge that we live in a social world and people who aren't social, especially in settings where people expect social interactions, are looked at differently and often in a negative manner. Example: I was reading in a lounge filled with people who I worked with but didn't talk to regularly. They were all talking, but I was the "odd one" out by reading. Later on, some chick came up to me and said that she thought it was "rude of me to not speak" and that I must be arrogant or something to that effect.

It was rude and it took no effort to chat with everyone for a quick second and then continue your reading.

 

[philmonroe]

Breh, are you completely stupid or do you do it just for the negs? Conversing online is a matter of choice and there isn't some random person asking "why are aren't you talking?" or something similar, or formulating opinions based on your lack of input. It's practically common knowledge that we live in a social world and people who aren't social, especially in settings where people expect social interactions, are looked at differently and often in a negative manner. Example: I was reading in a lounge filled with people who I worked with but didn't talk to regularly. They were all talking, but I was the "odd one" out by reading. Later on, some chick came up to me and said that she thought it was "rude of me to not speak" and that I must be arrogant or something to that effect.

You might be Michael Sam status. That chick was probably trying to talk to you this dude mean mugging chicks. Let me find out. Nobody cares tell me how often complete strangers stopped y'all to talk to you? That's not whats going on you got people that y'all working with saying normal bs and some are taking it like they a superstar that don't want to sign anymore autographs. Just being real y'all can be any way y'all like but its hard to make positive moves like that cause we all need help at some point. I don't speak to people all the time but situations like yours I'm not going to be mad either but hey that's the life you choose.

 

[Pdiddy]

Why do people have to be labeled anyway?