Being Shy

[BlackAdonis]

Damn this shyt sucks. I have no problem talking to someone if they talk to me but whenever people are having conversations around me at an event or something I just sit there with the not having anything to say. Then I realize that I'm not saying anything and start to become extremely self-conscious

 

[Remote]

Are you shy or introverted?
There's a difference.

You may just feel uncomfortable in large groups and might do better in smaller, more relaxed environments.

 

[Batman]

I pretend to be extroverted but after I just walk away with a headache.

I'd rather be by myself but closed mouths don't get fed.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

I walked into a store the other day and fat black guy was siting down eating.

49s fan in front of me with his girl paying for there food and me behind him.

Black guy say me not saying anything and it being dead quite.

So he ask me who was going to win the game. Turns out to be a nice guy we have a football convo and the 49s fan jumps in it and we have a long 15 min football chat.

Made the whole time of waiting for my food not bad. All he had to do was ask me a question.

 

[ReggieFlare]

Are you shy or introverted?
There's a difference.

You may just feel uncomfortable in large groups and might do better in smaller, more relaxed environments.

This, or you just may not be interested/knowledgeable about what people around are talking about.

 

[Chris.B]

start by hitting on chicks.....It's a quick way to build confidence

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

start by hitting on chicks.....It's a quick way to build confidence

This


Start talking dimes only


Dudes wanna take a short cut and talk to fatties

 

[Mr.Plan B]

start by hitting on chicks.....It's a quick way to build confidence

I got blind side the other night.

I went to pick up my food and as im walking 7 girls walk out these other store to there cars where we cross paths.

they talk to themsleves kinda loud saying something and laughing one girl was like stop he dont know you blah blah blha but i got bad ears and eyes so i cant even see if they cute.

I just walk by being quite then into the store it was so awkward.

 

[mtu wa chuma]

If you have nothing to talk about, you probably lead a boring life. start doing shyt and having experiences so you can have topics to discuss.

 

[360dagod]

Damn this shyt sucks. I have no problem talking to someone if they talk to me but whenever people are having conversations around me at an event or something I just sit there with the not having anything to say. Then I realize that I'm not saying anything and start to become extremely self-conscious

im the same way....

Im just not a talkative person..

"Small talk"just isnt my thing

 

[The Stan Titan]

I talk when i have shyt to talk about. I don't engage in small talk most of the time.

 

[360dagod]

If you have nothing to talk about, you probably lead a boring life. start doing shyt and having experiences so you can have topics to discuss.

thats not necessarily true...

There will be always topics to discuss,but how many of them will be one sided??

Start doing shyt and having experiences that can sometimes add negativity isnt the way to go..

Its all depending on what your trying to get out the situation

 

[Tunez]

Being shy is a gift

 

[jjj123]

youd be surprised what can happen to your life just by having a conversation, or how it can change the course of a night, week, weekend, happiness, sadness, whatever...it is what you know, but massively more about who you know...dont be afraid to talk to people, you could be dropping opportunities left and right...close mouths dont get fed as it has been said

when opportunities come knockin and you don respond theyll move to those who are responsive, if you tend to want others to eat, thn ok, but being shy gets nobody, nowhere, take it from a former shy person who will talk to anyone anywhere anytime cause i seen the light when i stopped being shy

dont be afraid danielson, fear will only hold u back

 

[BlackAdonis]

Are you shy or introverted?
There's a difference.

You may just feel uncomfortable in large groups and might do better in smaller, more relaxed environments.

I'm probably just an introvert. I don't like being one though.

This, or you just may not be interested/knowledgeable about what people around are talking about.

Yeah, this too. I'm usually quiet when I don't know what people are talking about but I feel like not saying anything gives off such a weird/creeper vibe.