Being Shy

[BlackAdonis]

being shy = being self obsessed.

shy = narcissist.

try focusing on helping others and stop being so selfish. be selfless

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Are you not comfortable with your own thoughts, even when surrounded by people? I'm a fairly social person, but sometimes I just tune folks out, go off by myself and ponder my own thoughts because 1) some people eventually get on my nerves and 2) I feel like disengaging, regardless of what others think. I'm comfortable in my own skin, though; those that know me well just understand this is who I am.

The trick is becoming comfortable just being you without worrying about what other people are thinking. If you want to break out of being shy, practice going up to people and initiating conversation, even if it's something as simple as the weather. I've had amazing convos with random people just by saying shyt like "Dang, it's colder than a yeti's ballsack outside!!" Don't be passive in your own life; why wait for someone to initiate a conversation with you? That's not the way to live!! Furthermore, it's possible that you give off an unapproachable vibe without even knowing it (a lot of shy people do); it's not that you're trying to be rude (probably the furthest from the truth), but shy individuals tend to be too much inside of their own heads. You're too busy freaking out about the situation to take it for what it is: a simple social interaction with another person.

People can usually tell when someone is self-conscious.... that insecurity rolls off you like a fart under a blanket. Some people see this and empathize, while others are put off by it. Hopefully you'll come to the point where you can handle social situations and not obsess over them or what someone else thinks, if you're saying the "right" thing, etc.

**Sorry, I didn't mean for this post to be so long LOL**

I read this just to say I did it

 

[TheArchitect]

breh this is me. They be like damn why you so quiet. I be like idk b

Me too....Doesn't that shyt annoy you? It's as if nikkaz expect you to say something every second....

Another thing that annoys me is when people misjudge you as being shy or bashful, then start making condescending statements and shyt. shyt like that makes me just want to get away from said people (causing them and other dummies to misjudge me as timid or whatever), and avoid associating with them....

 

[yo moms]

what do you mean stop it slime?

what i said was correct. but its to be expected when we live in a generation where we get told "fukk everybody else just get yours"

how about we help each other instead. there is no black community cus the kids are brainwashed. everybody is about getting paper and fukk everything else.

just look at how you c00ns reacted with the whole mollywatr situation. actively going out of your way to ridicule @The Nigerian business.

shyt makes mad just thinking about it

 

[iBrowse]

start by hitting on chicks.....It's a quick way to build confidence

and... what kind of chicks would that be

 

[BlackAdonis]

what do you mean stop it slime?

what i said was correct. but its to be expected when we live in a generation where we get told "fukk everybody else just get yours"

how about we help each other instead. there is no black community cus the kids are brainwashed. everybody is about getting paper and fukk everything else.

just look at how you c00ns reacted with the whole mollywatr situation. actively going out of your way to ridicule @The Nigerian business.

shyt makes mad just thinking about it

How did you go from being shy to mollywatr

 

[yo moms]

How did you go from being shy to mollywatr

Becasue nobody wants to help other people.

Everybody here is too focused on themsleves. Shy people are included because they are also self-obsessed and narcissistic.