Being single with no kids is pretty much living life in a cheat code.

[DapMeUp!]

Live your life the way you want to. As long as you do so honorably, there is no wrong or wrong path.

/Thread Period.

I don't have kids and I'm not telling people not to have kids either. Do what you want it's your life.
But for whatever reason you have people who have kids, trying to force their Ideologies on people and convince them they are wrong for choosing not to have kids. Just raise your kids and mind your business.

 

[ISO]

The single life definitely had it's perks and you can't beat the freedom.

But getting home from work and my son getting hype like "Dada! Dada!" and hanging out with him ain't nothing like it fam. Plus having the right girl in your corner is huge.

I don't think there is a right or wrong way to live life though*.

With the exception of deadbeat parents

Nothing beats having the right women by your side & building a family together

I came in here feeling good about myself and in come you nikkas with reality

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

Still with her or did you end up getting a newer model?

We bought a condo last year, and got married a couple months ago


Going strong

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The only people mad at this are:
A. People who already have kids and hate being reminded of how others are living it up on their own pace.
B. People who actually have no idea of just how much space a child will occupy in your life.

Once you have a child, what you want and think is irrelevant. Your life until that child is an adult is 100% for them. That big screen 8K OLED you bought with the Dolby Atmos surround sound will be playing the same Disney show over and over again or will be running roblox or minecraft. Anything of value in your home is breakable and at least one of them will be damaged by your child.

Going out to eat? well you better have a babysitter or someone willing to look after your kid. Even going out in public, be prepared to manage a tantrum from an easily distracted child who wants something. That money you were saving for a nice suit? that shyt going to your kids wardrobe which will change drastically every year as they grow. That sportscar that you bought? better sell that shyt and buy an SUV. Your life as you knew it is OVER. And you better pray to the most high that pregnancy won't torpedo your baby mama's body like it does many other women.

Kids ain't for everyone and you better be prepared for what is coming. If you aren't you'll end up resenting your child like so many people who have kids before they're ready experience. Enough adults here raised by parents who had kids because others told them to or because it was unplanned. Get all the shyt you want to do out of your system because if you don't, you'll experience a feeling of "I fukked up" when you see your childless friends going on vacations, hugged up with different baddies, flexing at vegas, going to concerts and all sorts of shyt. Until I've gone where I want to go, messed around with who I wanna mess around with, and otherwise done all the shyt I wanna do and have those memories, I'm not even thinking about kids.

 

[Silver Surfer]

For me, the sweet spot has been, now that I'm in my mid 30s....

I'm with a girl a trust, who's mature, and who shot with me in the gym.
I have the most money (BY FAR), that I've ever had.
We have no kids.
And I'm doing whatever I want.

Kids would fukk all that up.

Hope you keep that same energy when she want kids.....next thing you know a side nikka running raw in ya old lady....pullin out...sending her home

 

[CrimsonTider]

The only people mad at this are:
A. People who already have kids and hate being reminded of how others are living it up on their own pace.
B. People who actually have no idea of just how much space a child will occupy in your life.

Once you have a child, what you want and think is irrelevant. Your life until that child is an adult is 100% for them. That big screen 8K OLED you bought with the Dolby Atmos surround sound will be playing the same Disney show over and over again or will be running roblox or minecraft. Anything of value in your home is breakable and at least one of them will be damaged by your child.

Going out to eat? well you better have a babysitter or someone willing to look after your kid. Even going out in public, be prepared to manage a tantrum from an easily distracted child who wants something. That money you were saving for a nice suit? that shyt going to your kids wardrobe which will change drastically every year as they grow. That sportscar that you bought? better sell that shyt and buy an SUV. Your life as you knew it is OVER. And you better pray to the most high that pregnancy won't torpedo your baby mama's body like it does many other women.

Kids ain't for everyone and you better be prepared for what is coming. If you aren't you'll end up resenting your child like so many people who have kids before they're ready experience. Enough adults here raised by parents who had kids because others told them to or because it was unplanned. Get all the shyt you want to do out of your system because if you don't, you'll experience a feeling of "I fukked up" when you see your childless friends going on vacations, hugged up with different baddies, flexing at vegas, going to concerts and all sorts of shyt. Until I've gone where I want to go, messed around with who I wanna mess around with, and otherwise done all the shyt I wanna do and have those memories, I'm not even thinking about kids.

Do you have children?

 

[Sad Bunny]

Pray for me brehs

 

[darealvelle]

The "having kids means you'll be poor" mindset is a myth. Sometimes I think it's one of those things that gets pushed by people who are ideologically against having kids (for instance ppl who think the world is overcrowded etc).

Married couples w/ kids generally have higher income relatively speaking. Having kids motivates you in a different way. For all you fukking idiots I'm not saying that having a kid will magically transform a lazy person to hardworking etc. My point is that many ppl have a change in outlook that can drive their decision making process in a positive way. When you think about being successful etc, there is a difference between being driven by a desire to fulfill personal goals vs thinking about building a foundation/legacy for future generations.

But again if that doesn't appeal to you in any way, live your life the way you want to. As long as you do so honorably, there is no wrong or wrong path.

well said and this is thread.

 

[Dave24]

The only people mad at this are:
A. People who already have kids and hate being reminded of how others are living it up on their own pace.
B. People who actually have no idea of just how much space a child will occupy in your life.

Once you have a child, what you want and think is irrelevant. Your life until that child is an adult is 100% for them. That big screen 8K OLED you bought with the Dolby Atmos surround sound will be playing the same Disney show over and over again or will be running roblox or minecraft. Anything of value in your home is breakable and at least one of them will be damaged by your child.

Going out to eat? well you better have a babysitter or someone willing to look after your kid. Even going out in public, be prepared to manage a tantrum from an easily distracted child who wants something. That money you were saving for a nice suit? that shyt going to your kids wardrobe which will change drastically every year as they grow. That sportscar that you bought? better sell that shyt and buy an SUV. Your life as you knew it is OVER. And you better pray to the most high that pregnancy won't torpedo your baby mama's body like it does many other women.

Kids ain't for everyone and you better be prepared for what is coming. If you aren't you'll end up resenting your child like so many people who have kids before they're ready experience. Enough adults here raised by parents who had kids because others told them to or because it was unplanned. Get all the shyt you want to do out of your system because if you don't, you'll experience a feeling of "I fukked up" when you see your childless friends going on vacations, hugged up with different baddies, flexing at vegas, going to concerts and all sorts of shyt. Until I've gone where I want to go, messed around with who I wanna mess around with, and otherwise done all the shyt I wanna do and have those memories, I'm not even thinking about kids.

Well thought out post!

@Scustin Bieburr do you want children as it stands?

 

[Umoja]

The only people mad at this are:
A. People who already have kids and hate being reminded of how others are living it up on their own pace.
B. People who actually have no idea of just how much space a child will occupy in your life.

Once you have a child, what you want and think is irrelevant. Your life until that child is an adult is 100% for them. That big screen 8K OLED you bought with the Dolby Atmos surround sound will be playing the same Disney show over and over again or will be running roblox or minecraft. Anything of value in your home is breakable and at least one of them will be damaged by your child.

Going out to eat? well you better have a babysitter or someone willing to look after your kid. Even going out in public, be prepared to manage a tantrum from an easily distracted child who wants something. That money you were saving for a nice suit? that shyt going to your kids wardrobe which will change drastically every year as they grow. That sportscar that you bought? better sell that shyt and buy an SUV. Your life as you knew it is OVER. And you better pray to the most high that pregnancy won't torpedo your baby mama's body like it does many other women.

Kids ain't for everyone and you better be prepared for what is coming. If you aren't you'll end up resenting your child like so many people who have kids before they're ready experience. Enough adults here raised by parents who had kids because others told them to or because it was unplanned. Get all the shyt you want to do out of your system because if you don't, you'll experience a feeling of "I fukked up" when you see your childless friends going on vacations, hugged up with different baddies, flexing at vegas, going to concerts and all sorts of shyt. Until I've gone where I want to go, messed around with who I wanna mess around with, and otherwise done all the shyt I wanna do and have those memories, I'm not even thinking about kids.

I disagree.

The problem with this thread and your post is the assumption that everyone happiness derives from the same place.

I don't have children and am financially independent. Being able to buy the suit I want when I want, watch what I want on TV, eat out when I want, aren't perks I give a fukk about. It is hollow.

The times when I have been happiest in recent years is when I have been away with my family that includes neices, nephews and younger cousins.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Well thought out post!

@Scustin Bieburr do you want children as it stands?

 

[CW_1991]

Especially you making good money.

 

[Jermio]

I don't get the having kids shyt at all. My legacy is my consciousness, and that gets erased when I die. Closest thing to a continuation of it is a great work of art, not some random kid with half my DNA and a completely different life experience. shyt is stupid. Kids are not your legacy at all. Having kids is a complete scam. Think about it. You get diseases and shyt from being a drug junkie. Being addicted to nutting in women raw is no different. Short term pleasure, long term tribulation.

 

[Jahbarri]

I don't get the having kids shyt at all. My legacy is my consciousness, and that gets erased when I die. Closest thing to a continuation of it is a great work of art, not some random kid with half my DNA and a completely different life experience. shyt is stupid. Kids are not your legacy at all. Having kids is a complete scam. Think about it. You get diseases and shyt from being a drug junkie. Being addicted to nutting in women raw is no different. Short term pleasure, long term tribulation.

Low iq blocked

 

[Dave24]

I don't get the having kids shyt at all. My legacy is my consciousness, and that gets erased when I die. Closest thing to a continuation of it is a great work of art, not some random kid with half my DNA and a completely different life experience. shyt is stupid. Kids are not your legacy at all. Having kids is a complete scam. Think about it. You get diseases and shyt from being a drug junkie. Being addicted to nutting in women raw is no different. Short term pleasure, long term tribulation.

@Jermio post and I am def. addicted to nutting. How did you overcome your addiction to nutting?