Besides work and school how do us wack brehs build rapport with interested women?

-I'm not getting semi rich anytime soon.
(Not to trick but nice clothes and car would def help my confidence with hotter women)
-Its going to take long time for me to look lean, so don't just say gym. Plus I'm too busy with some family shyt.
-I have "friends" but not a social circle

My shytty job working with mainly teens is driving me crazy. I'm cool with the girls but I have to constantly remind myself their teens.
I look like a teen myself so I have had a few flirt with me.

When I say I'm wack is because I live at home, drive a bucket, don't have a social circle, and despite having fukked a few girls my age (early 20s).
I still don't have the level of confidence I'd like with women.

Due to being introverted, not nurturing well the social circle I could have had in highschool, not going straight to university due to not so good grades and skipping SATs. I was too worried I'd get no ladies in college.

In highschool I was a class clown virgin with no car, no smartphone. I rode with my a$$hole cousins who had more bread to school. A breh had to use Facebook chat to satisfy my hunger by flirting with bytches.

I ain't trying to show the shytty flip phone burner I had to girls. I did do self sabotage cause it would be better than being crushed by getting drop when I can't get to them. I got my first smartphone and piece of p*ssy after highschool.


I need a gimmick that will give me social media presence. I'm thinking of making beats.

I know I have kind of rehashed this thread with new information about me. Since doing no fap and porn for quite some time. I need a lady.

 

You're gonna have to cold approach or go online bruh.

Make beats if you think it'll help, go hard on that.

But how will u be known? Are you going to show yourself making beats?

Or do you mean just beats with an image in the background?

You can't really get social media proof that way with the latter.


Why u can't get clothes? You don't make enough to get a couple shirts or kicks?

Try getting a second job.

 

Breh im gonna the ignore the late night babblin and give you some advice. Have a nice smile. And an interesting convo. You can go far with that

 

Just chill where the women are and mingle. Simple as that. If you like to have fun it won’t be hard to meet women.

 

i've been telling these knuckle heads
for years that you need female friends
that you never fukk.
they will deliver you women.
I got homegirls that bring plates,
alcohol,hook ups on gear,jewlery etc.
My homegirls are jackals that i'm sure
i could knock off in a rabbits heart beat
but p*ssy aint worth the perks.

 

Oh yeah and get ya weight up

 

This is sad.

A nice car and clothes isnt what you need to be confident.

You literally just listed all your insecurities and instead of trying to fix them you tryna find a gimmick to mask them.

Work on yourself, hit the gym, focus on getting your funds up, meet new friends. You only feel you need a gimmick cause your inner self is lacking, don't hide it fix it. Be the nikka you want to be and stop tryna pretend

 

My nikka Thugger back

 

You're going to have to plan for the future. The key word is PLAN, to actually enact something , and not just sit there doing the same things and hoping it'll change on its own(it won't).


Start eating natural foods, smaller amounts, running more, body weight exercises here and there. Don't tell me you don't have time to knock off some push ups and sit ups here and there, then you''re just bullshytting yourself.

You probably don't have the creative talent to become a successful entrepreneur or artist or whatever, so you should really focus on your education. Get your bachelors degree in a lucrative field, don't get a degree in social work or some other bullshyt nikkas often get. Then try and go to a good business school or law school or if you can handle the science work, a dental or medical school.

In 8-10 years time you could be entering a high income field, in much better physical shape, and then women will seek you out. When women see you carry yourself confidently, see you're in shape, see you have good career or will have one sometime relatively soon, they go out of their way to put themselves in your sight.

Plan to become a better version of yourself one year from now. Then take a bigger step the next year, then the next.

It sounds easier that what it is, because most people don't have consistency. Most people talk a big game about what they're going to do, then a week later their mind is onto something else, some other bullshyt.

Practice being consistent, try to simplify your life wherever you can, and understand it's a marathon, not a race.

Good luck, but if you're like most people, your mind will be off this and onto some other bullshyt in no time. If that's the case, you'll have to learn to be happy with what you already have.

 

I know it doesn't pay a lot, but I thought social work was most a guaranteed job, especially with a master's?

Dude did say that he didn't do too well in high school and I'm sure if he could do a harder field he would be doing it now.

So idk what his plan is school is, but it sounds like school might not be too difficult if he was taking really difficult classes.

Dude also says he doesn't wanna wait too long to get the bitties, so idk what he plans to do.

 

My father gave me only one piece of useful advice in my life and that was to never chase or try to impress women. If you focus on your craft or whatever you are passionate about, women will come. It didn't really click until years later though but I realized that I always got the most p*ssy thrown my way when I was caught up in a project or one of my hobbies. My advice to you would be to find something that you are passionate about and focus on that. Focus on getting your diet in check and staying consistent in the gym. If you don't have access to the gym, there are several exercises you can do at home that can get you in shape. You'll have a much better shot with women when you are caught up in yourself rather than when you are trying to find weird things to impress them.

 

The mere fact you feel that way shows you shouldn't even focus on women right now and just work on YOU.

Women ain't going anywhere anytime soon. I'm off to the gym right now for a few hours and then will be doing some studying later. Women are a byproduct of getting your shyt together.

 

Bro just be the best version of yourself, and stop trying to be somebody that you're not. As you continue to approach females, stack paper, and upgrade your wardrobe, you will develop your own swag.

Don't start doing something that you're not passionate about just to get girls. All you got to do is get out of the house.

 

These hoes ain’t special listen to some Chief Keef