Best way to take a gal out on a dutch date
- Thread starter Dooby
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3 date rule....if she hasn't paid or offered to pay within 3 dates 
Recently had a 3 date with this chick this past weekend and only did she pay for lunch Saturday but she cooked me dinner that night too
Recently had a 3 date with this chick this past weekend and only did she pay for lunch Saturday but she cooked me dinner that night too
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
I don't see how you guys find these women that don't want to pay for their food on dates. I don't think I've ever been on a date where I was expected to pay for both our meals, even though there has been dates where I did. Granted I'm not a chronic dater, but if you keep on running into women that expect you to cover the tab, that's got to be on you and the women you choose and where you go.
Someone brought up coffee shops; that's a good way to make sure the bill stays low and, for me at least, it's a better place to talk.
Someone brought up coffee shops; that's a good way to make sure the bill stays low and, for me at least, it's a better place to talk.
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
And a pedophile.
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
If you said "do you want to go out" or any variation of that you pay because you invited her. Consequent dates can be split.
If you said "we should go out sometime" or any variation then she should offer to at least pay for herself. Neither party is "hosting" the get together.
That's my guide to dating
If you said "we should go out sometime" or any variation then she should offer to at least pay for herself. Neither party is "hosting" the get together.
That's my guide to dating
Figdcotton
Why are you mad at a real niguh??
That's wat I live by.. My moms raise me to always pay on the first date.. 2nd date I look at her like
you better fish in dat purse
WheresWallace
Superstar
Actually, Coffee is a better date. Its cheap enough to where it really doesn't matter who pays and if the date is awkward there is no big financial loss. If you don't drink coffee go to a Juice bar.
WheresWallace
Superstar
You just put me up on some game. How do you present the groupon without her knowing tho?
So OP (@Dooby) if you meet a classy chick with relationship potential...take her out for coffee/juice during the day. If the chick is clearly a potential slide then take her out for drinks like @Jahmal said and you might get her loose enough to fuuck you that night.
Cynical Thoughts
All Star
Dont you mean, dont go out if you dont wanna pay your way and a strangers way? Im just saying, you making it seem like its not a trait of a women to expect NOT to pay.
I wouldnt go on dates where I have to pay a stangers way. Until i know you pretty well im not spending money on you if im in the OP's shoes.
I remember it was some rapper that took a stripper w/ him to eat after she got done stripping amd when he implied that she pay her bill she had a problem and posted it online. Even the lower class women got a general understanding that men pay on dates.
Me personally, if or when i do spend money on a date, shes gonna know not to take it as a compliment. Like i'd give a bum the same amount of money i spent on her meal.
Reading through these threads it sickening the double standards female want and even more sickening some of the dudes cosign them.
End Cruelty
Yuffie butter!
Take her to one of those dutch oven spots. Cheap and intimate. Or just wear wooden shoes, op. If she don't get the hint then :outofherethumbbasketballplayer:
