Best way to take a gal out on a dutch date

[newworldafro]

I'm tired of paying for dates and not having absolute certainty that it will turn into anything and suffering from extended wait for the puss games. So how is the best way to break it to a bytch that I'm just not going to pay for your meals as we get to know each other as it should be a mutual interest. Damn. I got two dates lined up and there's a good chance I'm paying for it so please let me know how to put these hoes down tenderly

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

If you're too broke to date you don't need to be dating.

 

[Spuffy]

Dont you mean, dont go out iu dont wanna pay your way and a strangers way? Im just saying, you making it seem like its not a trait of a women to expect NOT to pay.

I wouldnt go on dates where I have to pay a stangers way. Until i know you pretty well im not spending money on you if im in the OP's shoes.

I remember it was some rapper that took a stripper w/ him to eat after she got done stripping amd when he implied that she pay her bill she had a problem and posted it online. Even the lower class women got a general understanding that men pay on dates.

Me personally, if or when i do spend money on a date, shes gonna know not to take it as a compliment. Like i'd give a bum the same amount of money i spent on her meal.

Reading through these threads it sickening the double standards female want and even more sickening some of the dudes cosign them.

Then he should only date women he knows well, not a totsll stanger.
And do you oppose all double standards? Or only the ones that benefit women?

 

[Dooby]

If you're too broke to date you don't need to be dating.

It has nothing to do with being broke you presuming fukk. It has to do with me putting money into something that ultimately leads to nothing which HAS happened.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

It has nothing to do with being broke you presuming fukk. It has to do with me putting money into something that ultimately leads to nothing which HAS happened.

If you're too broke to date you don't need to be dating.

 

[Jahmal]

You just put me up on some game. How do you present the groupon without her knowing tho?

So OP (@Dooby) if you meet a classy chick with relationship potential...take her out for coffee/juice during the day. If the chick is clearly a potential slide then take her out for drinks like @Jahmal said and you might get her loose enough to fuuck you that night.

Why would you be ashamed of using a Groupon? I use Groupons, LivingSocial and Scoutmob on almost every date I go on and have not had any problems smashing chicks. Any chick that looks down on you for saving half on a bill is not the type of chick you want around you anyway.

 

[WheresWallace]

Why would you be ashamed of using a Groupon? I use Groupons, LivingSocial and Scoutmob on almost every date I go on and have not had any problems smashing chicks. Any chick that looks down on you for saving half on a bill is not the type of chick you want around you anyway.

You are right...you don't want anything long term with a chick that dont want to save money...

but if its a chick you just want to fuuck then...

I dont want to give the coupon in front of her with no fuucks given because...when you leave the bar...no fuucks will be given. I've heard many times, many places, that its a turn off.

So I am assuming you just present the coupon in front of the chick with no fuucks given. :thinking:

 

[Jahmal]

You are right...you don't want anything long term with a chick that dont want to save money...

but if its a chick you just want to fuuck then...

I dont want to give the coupon in front of her with no fuucks given because...when you leave the bar...no fuucks will be given. I've heard many times, many places, that its a turn off.

So I am assuming you just present the coupon in front of the chick with no fuucks given. :thinking:

When I ask for the bill, I just hand the waiter a printed copy of my groupon deal and say I have a gift certificate. Thats all.The less I care about what a chick thinks of me, the more p*ssy I get. If a chick wants to curve me just because I'm smart with my money and saved 50% off the bill then she can go kick rocks. I've smashed so many chicks from $10 dates.

 

[Jahmal]

double post