I'm down for detangling, but u gotta feed me sweetsNatural hair is a lot of work. Any kind of curly hair is work, any kind of thick hair is work. I don't understand why men who deal with none of this always have something to say about what women should do.
Does the Coli have some cosmetology certification I don't know about
Who is down to come finger detangle this mane?Then tell me how easy it is.
Been natural for about 4 or 5 years and I can say that having a relaxer is much easier than being natural especially when you first go natural. First, you have to find products that work in your hair, I was using Pantene relaxed/natural for the longest and this ish was drying out my hair. I was also shampooing my hair every week which is bad for natural hair because it strips the much need moisture from it. Then I was pulling it out every morning because I just slept on it then woke up and picked it out, without using any moisturizer.
Now I know how to manage my hair and while it's still some work, it's not as bad as it was in the beginning. All I have to do is co-wash and detangle once a week, shampoo/deep condition once a month, and I only have to moisturize it once a week because the product I use keeps my hair soft and shiny for that long. The only hard part is the braid out, I do it every night before I do to bed to avoid my hair from becoming matted or tangled. That's the hard work, hell I've gone a whole week keeping my hair in braids simply because I didn't want to put it back up that night
Dnt give me dat look I said I'm down; a few hours is worth seeing ur hair in good shape.Lol ok, its takes hours
its not hard at all, put water on your head, put grease or oil sheen in it, use a pick. thats like 10 min at the most.nah its long bro, when i was 16 and had a high top i was always late for school combing my hair in the morning
"You gon' leave the house like that?" Not to mention spending two nights a week combing out knots from her hair. All the conditioning... etc. I know way too much about this. 
so what ur saying is we should go bald if we cant or refuse to maintain natural hair?It was hard work when I was growing out an afro for months the first half of this year and getting it to be smoother.....so what did I do???
Did I get a blonde toupee? No I shaved my hair off since it was so "hard"...god women just lack logic sometimes
lmao i hated that shytThis is true. I had an ex that would be take the most gorgeous instagram, poofed-out curly fro pics. But she put in hella work to get that look. During the week she would have what I called "maintenance hairstyles." Basically lil dookie twists or whatever they're called. shyt used to have me like
