"Beyonce was 18 in this picture Jay-Z 31"

[O³ (O cubed)]

Beyonce is roughly the same age as me. She wasn't dating Jay Z until she was in her early 20s. But don't let facts get in the way with a platinum thread.

 

[TEH]

Yep and I’m probably not as old as most people on here, any person who is 28-32 my age group) who’s dating an 18 year old would get laughed at and look at funny.

A one night stand is one thing, having her as your or one of your main chicks nah I wouldn’t do that myself.

Anything I can find in an 18 year old I can find in a girl 5 years older closer to my age, I don’t need a woman to be 13 years younger than me to exert control, I’m a man I can exert control and authority on even a woman 13 years older than me, I need a level of maturity and wisdom with any woman I take serious that most 18 years old wouldn’t have, and rightly so me as an 18 year old and me as an even 25 year old is two different people wisdom wise.

You seem to be looking for a wife or a long term relationship. These men just want to fukk. I don’t think they care about deep conversations. As for me. Keep me out of it I’m not out here looking for 18 year olds. Still please know and take this as a fact, they’re not technically wrong and technically you’re not morally right.

 

[bl2k8]

Seriously...would the men on here not have an issue, in real life, with their 18-year-old daughter dating a 31-year-old? The Coli is a strange ass place.

Most probably would but wtf does that have to do with trying to start shyt on a couple that’s been married for damn near 15 years. It’s like their miserable asses wants them to break up. Newsflash this happened to most of y’all parents, grandparents ect. People need to Let it go wit this retroactive bullshyt

 

[Budda]

You seem to be looking for a wife or a long term relationship. These men just want to fukk. I don’t think they care about deep conversations. As for me. Keep me out of it I’m not out here looking for 18 year olds. Still please know and take this as a fact, they’re not technically wrong and technically you’re not morally right.

We were taking about dating.

 

[Diunx]

Two adults.

 

[Elle Seven]

First bolded... If you're not able to handle a man in his 30s when you're 18. Then that's your decision.
You and everybody else aren't the same.

2cd bolded... What do you think a guy your age wants with you, thats gonna benefit you.
Or provide for you?

To your first point, fair enough.

My question would still be why a 31-year-old man is looking at me versus a woman his age, or, hell, even a woman in her 20s. Like I said, I'm 18 and fresh out of high school and don't really understand life all that much...what is it that the 31-year-old man wants to give me so much that he could not give to a woman who is 23-25yo?

To your other questions, at 18, I knew fully well 18yo young men wanted to have sex with me. Cool. We are all young and dumb and trying to figure stuff out. I didn't lose my virginity until close to 21, so I would really be wondering why a man that old would be trying to come my way.

At 18, I'm wondering why a man of 31 though, who has 13 whole years on me, is checking for me for any other reason but sex. I would doubt he is trying to make me his wife. In terms of providing for me, some might say at least if I fukked with the 31yo at 18, he could provide more materially for me than my 18yo counterpart. That was the same logic girls I went to middle school with were using when they were fukking with local 21yo dopeboys and coming up pregnant by them when we were only 12yo.

The obvious power dynamic in situations like these is apparent, but I guess we are overlooking that.

 

[Elle Seven]

nikka shut the fukk up

Why?

 

[Rasille]

It’s legal technically but the only argument is from a moral standpoint

 

[NinoBrown]

A lot of this is feminist drivel, if it was a 40 year old cougar dating an 18 year old, we wouldn't hear a peep...

Just more policing of men's sexual agency...

What else is new?

 

[mag357]

To your first point, fair enough.

My question would still be why a 31-year-old man is looking at me versus a woman his age, or, hell, even a woman in her 20s. Like I said, I'm 18 and fresh out of high school and don't really understand life all that much...what is it that the 31-year-old man wants to give me so much that he could not give to a woman who is 23-25yo?

To your other questions, at 18, I knew fully well 18yo young men wanted to have sex with me. Cool. We are all young and dumb and trying to figure stuff out. I didn't lose my virginity until close to 21, so I would really be wondering why a man that old would be trying to come my way.

At 18, I'm wondering why a man of 31 though, who has 13 whole years on me, is checking for me for any other reason but sex. I would doubt he is trying to make me his wife. In terms of providing for me, some might say at least if I fukked with the 31yo at 18, he could provide more materially for me than my 18yo counterpart. That was the same logic girls I went to middle school with were using when they were fukking with local 21yo dopeboys and coming up pregnant by them when we were only 12yo.

The obvious power dynamic in situations like these is apparent, but I guess we are overlooking that.

There is no power dynamic... Lol
Just cause a person is older than you doesn't somehow make them more powerful than you.

Some females are very mature and don't want to deal with guys their own age, and some do.
Not everybody is the same.

Anyway... most of your comment is basically asking why would a 30yr old man be interested in an 18yr.
And that's the simplest question.
Why would any man of any age group be interested in any woman?
If shes attractive, he's going to be interested

There's gonna be a$$holes at 18 who just wanna pump and dump you.
There's gonna be 30yr old a$$holes who wanna pump and dump you.
Choose wisely

But this conversation is about why we think its wrong for a much older man to be with a younger woman.

And there's really nothing people can logically come up with, except for things that females should worry about from any age group of men

 

[TEH]

We were taking about dating.

 

[NinoBrown]

More dikk policing

 

[Renegade47]

so? two legal adults

 

[Renegade47]

Seriously...would the men on here not have an issue, in real life, with their 18-year-old daughter dating a 31-year-old? The Coli is a strange ass place.

explain why that age difference matters.

 

[itsyoung!!]

Lotta sick weirdos on this site