"Beyonce was 18 in this picture Jay-Z 31"

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it’s beyonce. :hubie:

that being said I attempted to hook up with a 20 y/o when I was 31…ultimately nothing happened and it still ended up being the biggest mistake ever

it’s one thing ogling chics on JBO and saying what I would/wouldn’t do but realistically I personally don’t need to be messing around with anyone under 30

now don’t get me wrong if a random hot ass 20-something year old rings my doorbell right now and says “you can fukk me but you’ll never see me again afterwards” then that’s different
I was steady fukking a 19 year old chick when I was 32. Don’t apologize for dipping into the fountain of youth. Embrace it! :ohlawd:
 

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I was an 18-year-old girl once.

Graduated from high school at 17 in June and then turned 18 a few months later right when college started.

According to your logic, is it safe to infer when I turned 18 just 60-something days later, somehow I was suddenly psychologically different and it was morally okay for me to be able to handle a 31-year-old man's attentions?

I know what the law says but that ain't what im talking about. I would have fully expected my daddy to go apeshyt had I come home freshman year talking about I'm seeing a dude that's 31. On the other side of that, it would have freaked me out to be pursued by someone that age when I was that young...ain't a damn thing a man that old wants with my young ass that is benefitting me.

Like I said, this is a weird ass place though.

If your father and mother taught you how to become a woman, gave you the tools and information needed to be an adult, which you should have gotten these lessons already then yes when you turn 17/18, your mind should be aware of how the world works


You do know your grandmother and her grandmother and the ancestors weren't waiting until they are 25-30 to get married.

By 21-24 those women had 2-3 kids already with a husband who were at times 10 years older than them

Know your history.
At 17, you should be preparing Thanksgiving dinner or at least knowing how to. I guess 17/18 is too young for that too huh?
 

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If your father and mother taught you how to become a woman, gave you the tools and information needed to an adult, which you should have gotten these lessons already then yes when you turn 17/18, your mind should be aware of how the world works


You do know your grandmother and her grandmother and the ancestors weren't waiting until they are 25-30 to get married.

By 21-24 those women had 2-3 kids already.

Know your history.
At 17, you should be preparing Thanksgiving dinner or at least knowing how to. I guess 17/18 is too young for that too huh?

It's their indoctrination that women and men well into their 20s/30s are somehow "babies/kids" which is ridiculous and dangerous.

Completely oblivious to the fact the world's largest war was comprised of 18-19 years olds getting eviscerated by machine guns....

But hey...10 year age gap is totally wrong...

TikTok generation talking from their anus...
 

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I was steady fukking a 19 year old chick when I was 32. Don’t apologize for dipping into the fountain of youth. Embrace it! :ohlawd:

???????????????

deciding something for myself based on personal experience is not an apology

do YOU…I wasn’t passing judgment…no need to “convince” me of anything in order to carry on as you please
 
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That’s how it should be for every man. A young lady’s guidance counselor should also guide her how to spot solid older suitors. I’m teaching my daughter to wait until 18, and not to even bother with men her age. Go. Older. :gladbron:
 

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The same thing you just wrote literally applies to every young nikka that's trying to pursue your daughter.

And id say it applies more to younger dudes than an older man.

It's a better chance that your daughter hit a lick by catching a sucka old dude, that's just happy to be in her presence.
Than her catching a young dude ready to NOT play games and settle down

Edit: coli dads would rather have young nikkaz fukking their daughter, than an old nikka taking care of their daughter. Because of the optics.
Trust me, I understand

What's funny, there is never an outcry when chicks who are in the 9th grade date the dude that's not in HS, the dude that is either in college or the dude who either graduates and becomes a bum or the dude who just flunks out.
None bats an eye.

No chick on this board has EVER said it was an issue with a HS FR, SO, JR chick dating a dude that's out of HS.

Most if not all would even brag about them dating an older dude lol.

I was in high school and saw plenty of FRs, SO, chicks dating dudes that were not in HS. 2-3 years removed.

No chick batted an eye.

Most chicks first child is with a nikka who was either out of High School.

98% of the chicks who were pregnant, the the ones who walked around campus hiding their pregnant bellies with that wind breaker jacket tied around it, many of the times, the baby's child was out of HS lol.
 

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It's their indoctrination that women and men well into their 20s/30s are somehow "babies/kids" which is ridiculous and dangerous.

Completely oblivious to the fact the world's largest war was comprised of 18-19 years olds getting eviscerated by machine guns....

But hey...10 year age gap is totally wrong...

TikTok generation talking from their anus...

Sad. It's only in our community.

Age gap dating been going on since the beginning of time.

Even the Nation says, half of the man's age, plus 7 years added is the age range where his wife should fall.

If he's 35,
35/2 = 17 + 7 = 24

A man that's 35 years old should find his wife around the 24-28 range.

A man is a leader, leaders have to teach, instill wisdom, etc.
Wisdom comes from older people. Most of the time
 
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