Big Boi under fire

[Deluuxe]

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[Gravity]

So it's feminine to ask you to explain your position?

Your whole style as a poster is feminine and it always has been. You're just a bytch of a poster. I've explained my position clearly you're just tryin to deflect. I say that they're too many thots in our community raising kids. Your response is "how many are there? What's too many?" That's that sassy feminine shyt that I don't respect. Take that limp wristed sucker shyt to somebody else.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

So the problem is just that black women are stereotyped as oversexed whores huh? You don't agree that too many black kids are raised ignorantly/irresponsibly as depicted in that pic?

I don't agree that that pic represents anything close to the norm for black mothers.

That looks like a Dominican (or some other 3rd world country) whore. There's some bottom of the barrel bytches out there, sure, but the vast majority are not represented by that meme.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Yo if I was a broad I wouldnt wanna be like either one thoughFlorida Evans? Poor and struggling in the projects with a nikka who is a bad provider..barely any food to actually cook but it's all good I guess... they should've used some other black tv mom as an example Like, at least pick a good woman/example who was being properly provided for in return like Weezy Jefferson or somebody

How was James a bad provider? Dude did what he had to do despite only having a 6th grade education. Florida Evans was a great example. The Evans held it down and did the best for their kids despite circumstances. Weezy was living in a penthouse suite with a maid

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Your whole style as a poster is feminine and it always has been. You're just a bytch of a poster. I've explained my position clearly you're just tryin to deflect. I say that they're too many thots in our community raising kids. Your response is "how many are there? What's too many?" That's that sassy feminine shyt that I don't respect. Take that limp wristed sucker shyt to somebody else.

Saying something is "too many" is vague nonsense.

You can't clearly explain your position cause you really have none.

 

[86\*/98]

That's not all the meme says.

Had he just posted a pic of the chick and said "that's a bad choice" nobody would care.

The meme takes that pic and stereotypes an entire generation of women and children.

Of course not everyone fits under the umbrella but a lot do. And I'm all for shaming the fukk out those individuals.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

It's a dumb thing to say because he puts the onus on one parent when it takes 2 to raise a child. But many in our community seem to think parenting is a one person job and the father usually escapes with 0 critique. When you need women to lead your community you are lost.

What does a woman taking a half naked selfie with the baby in the same room have to do with the other parent?

 

[JLova]

I disagree. The absent black father has been getting shytted on for decades and rightfully so, but only recently have the mothers choices been questioned. There are many women in our community who are a part of the group that think parenting is a one person job and it's reflected in their mating choices. We're doing ourselves a disservice to act like that's not half of the problem.

Also, twerking half naked in front of your child is a bad choice, Big Boi's meme stands.

Why do they think that way? Cuz too many men are not leading. Too many absentee fathers... The image of family in our community that gets promoted is a 1 parent household. So of course that will have an impact on young women out there that they can raise children without a father. This to me is due to a complete failure of black men taking repsonsibility. We're failing because of the lack of leadership from the men.

So now women are making bad choices? Sure they are, but you're completely skirting the issue here, lack of leadership and accountability from black men. The fact that "baby daddy" is thrown around in our community the way it is is an indictment on black men.

 

[Gravity]

I don't agree that that pic represents anything close to the norm for black mothers.

That looks like a Dominican (or some other 3rd world country) whore. There's some bottom of the barrel bytches out there, sure, but the vast majority are not represented by that meme.

You people are pathetic with the deflections. Now instead of addressing this culture of bad parenting where people(women especially) have started to treat personal attention like the new drug even at the expense of their kids, we're talking about whether a meme that sparks the discussion reps all black women.

@Colicat tapping out and being reduced to cheerleading for that other clown. Girls do tend to stick together tho.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Of course not everyone fits under the umbrella but a lot do. And I'm all for shaming the fukk out those individuals.

Again. That's not what the meme says.

There are plenty of "parenting fails" memes and nobody gets mad at them. Plenty of parents do dumb shyt.

It's when you try to atatch that to an entire race and generation of women and children that the problem comes in.

In reality black women in 2016 are doing awesome overall. If there's any stereotype memes being posted about black women in 2016 it should be them graduating from college.

To make it even worse, the picture isn't even an American black woman. It's some Hispanic chick somewhere with her kid.

But Yall will ignore that to jump at any chance to "shame the fukk" out of the small minority of black women who do behave like that, while throwing all black women under the bus in the process.

at you nikkas.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

You people are pathetic with the deflections. Now instead of addressing this culture of bad parenting where people(women especially) have started to treat personal attention like the new drug even at the expense of their kids, we're talking about whether a meme that sparks the discussion reps all black women.

@Colicat tapping out and being reduced to cheerleading for that other clown. Girls do tend to stick together tho.

How is it deflecting when I'm directly addressing the meme that's the topic of this thread?

 

[Klyk21]

But he had some single mom's bussing it open in some of his videos tho

He did? You mean like back then? Oh ok....stop it

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You people are pathetic with the deflections. Now instead of addressing this culture of bad parenting where people(women especially) have started to treat personal attention like the new drug even at the expense of their kids, we're talking about whether a meme that sparks the discussion reps all black women.

@Colicat tapping out and being reduced to cheerleading for that other clown. Girls do tend to stick together tho.

That's the problem with saying vague shyt like "too many"

Nothing is clearly defined, so no discussion can ever be productive.


We got too many dummies on this site

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

Why would someone get so upset about something that doesn't personally apply to them?

 

[EndDomination]

And for all of you claiming "it's the truth" you are dead wrong, and that's the damage this type of stereotype does

Despite the fact that black women are the most educated group in America, and the fact that young black children are on the way to achieving more than ever.

We get a bunch of alleged black men cosigning a message claiming black women are irresponsible and there's "something wrong" with their kids

Irony of it is when these kids grow up into men and end up like Mike Brown, all the same stereotypes and attacks are used to justify what happened to them. And then all of you in here will cry foul at the evil cacs.

Damn dummies

Black women aren't the most educated group in the US b.
Everything else is spot on.