I understand my breh. Just let me ask you something, no right nor wrong.
Should your current boss provide you with so much struggle, making your life a living hell and then you see a open position with known networks that can easily get you that job with higher salary and allow you more time with your son that needs constant care for his entire life because he needs it... wouldn't you take it?
Let me ask you a question based on how I see it?
If you were offered a job to be the president of company that was failing. You knew going in you have to travel for whatever reason and your son had health issues which would better for him you to stay home. You also knew some employees won't like you there including the board of directors because you will be shaking things up and kicking out all of the people they had worked with for so many years.
You know there a bigger and better jobs you wish you could have. Also, this is going to take years to fix. But with all that you decide to take the job anyway. You call up people from around the industry and tell them "look I know its bad but together we are going to fix this thing" They see the issue but they decide to follow you and trust in your vision. After two years the ship isn't fixed yet but i didn't get worse. Another bigger company offers you a better deal. You think " I won't have to travel, I'll make more money, and won't have to deal with these a$$hole board of directors bytching about how it used to be"
So you leave but all your employees who believed in you and your vision are stuck at the old job. They can't as easily leave like you. So their stuck in a mess when they could have gone elsewhere with less risk and bs to deal with.
Would you not think that was a snake move.

What analogy would you give it?
