Bird talk: But does she have a point?

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Are brehettes really trying to grow with a man?

Or, do they want the finished product?

Is it chicken/egg?

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I dont know if she is using nikka in a disrespectful way. nikkas don't want to grow or really give a shyt :manny: it is what it is....

If she is using the term nikka to describe a real man, then she has half a point. A lot of real men want to have their shyt together prior to jumping into serious committments, marriage, kids, etc but at the same time, one of the things that define real men is the ability to be resilient. Financially and just with life in general. I.E an unexpected pregnancy and being there for his seed, or being in a dope ass relationship where a man can consciously make long term decisions such as moving in or planning a future.

But broads? Yeah, they are always lookin for the come up.
 

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A) the title of the thread is trash....

2)
Just bird talk
Most women just want the finish product

This very person has tried to shame me for wanting to build with a man....

A woman is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't .... Whether she wants to build or whether she wants a man who is accomplished....


So I say fukk it... Do whatever you are comfortable with... The rest is for you banty birds to bandy about.
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Serious men would not come at a woman with cap in hand. All this "po mouf" shyt with black men gotta go. Stay crying about black women not respecting you when you stay begging to be hand held.

Understand black men that when your shyt is together the quality of women and relationships you have will improve.

This however is not an excuse to be a pookie and ray ray in a business suit. You eventually have to settle down have a family and raise children for black empowerment.
 

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nothing wrong with not being the finished product, but some men are out here without even the basics.
 
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I'd say some women would like to grow with a man, but definatly not most. And those numbers get cut down more and more the closer you get to 30.

It's not a problem though, because once you become established you should only be looking for a woman who's on your level so y'all can do the power couple thing.
 

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Serious men would not come at a woman with cap in hand. All this "po mouf" shyt with black men gotta go. Stay crying about black women not respecting you when you stay begging to be hand held.

Understand black men that when your shyt is together the quality of women and relationships you have will improve.

This however is not an excuse to be a pookie and ray ray in a business suit. You eventually have to settle down have a family and raise children for black empowerment.
So no one should date until they achieve middle class status? No prom, no college dating etc ?

It's cool to reduce men to their monetary value? So can we reduce you to t&a? Lol
 
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