Are brehettes really trying to grow with a man?
Or, do they want the finished product?
Is it chicken/egg?
@bcrusaderw @Emperor_ReinScarf @Panthera @Giselle @CinnaSlim
it is what it is....Just bird talk
Most women just want the finish product
They want the finished product.

So no one should date until they achieve middle class status? No prom, no college dating etc ?Serious men would not come at a woman with cap in hand. All this "po mouf" shyt with black men gotta go. Stay crying about black women not respecting you when you stay begging to be hand held.
Understand black men that when your shyt is together the quality of women and relationships you have will improve.
This however is not an excuse to be a pookie and ray ray in a business suit. You eventually have to settle down have a family and raise children for black empowerment.
I want to neg whoever made this.