Black America's problem is that we don't have strong black fathers.

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Too many deadbeats that keep having kids with no consequences. I know a lot of dudes that don't have kids but are working, have good jobs, and are solid people.

Take care of your own. If you don't got kids look out for your little nephews, cousins, etc.
Women pass those guys over in favor of the bad boy type, the irony being that they try to marry those same men when they get older.
 

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Yes there's systematic racism, poverty, and no opportunities, but those really aren't excuses to rob and kill. In order to overcome those things you need a strong leader for guidance. I see all these young kids and teens doing dumb shyt, and I'm willing to bet it's because they don't have a proper father figure. A strong father will teach his boys how to properly move around systematic racism, how to avoid being a statistic whether it's jail or death, and how to legally hustle in a poverty environment.
Breaking myths about black fatherhood this Father’s Day - Chicago Reporter

"The inaccurate perception that African American families are devastated by absent fathers that need to return to their responsibilities informs policy and law formulation in a variety of harmful ways."


OP is negged for cac talking points
 

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Why is it that we accept fatherlessness as an explanation for Black criminality, but don't do the same to explain white criminality?
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Despite the amount of Black children born out of wedlock, Black fathers outperform their white and Hispanic counterparts in being involved in their children's lives.

Fatherlessness is an American problem. Not a Black problem specifically.




wrong, criminality increases in every race without a father.
 

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So much comedy in this thread already.

Lack of fathers is one thing, lack of mentally strong black fathers is another. If your father is there and he's a negative influence the only hope is that the kids grow up to do the opposite. Look at how black people slander Levar Ball for backing and supporting his kids 110%. People be really upset about that. Weird.

But yeah black America has a multitude of problems that your not allowed to call out or be called a c00n. This is a big one though because it's a foundational thing.


What black person did this?

only people I seen was the white media and white racist comments

mid anything only other black entrepreneurs supported them I sure as hell didn’t see a white guy doing it

If I’m wrong Please correct me
 

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No his argument makes perfect sense.

I'm ADOS on both sides
My grandfather on my mom side who was married to my grandmother for over 40 years
Had 6 kids.

He was from Texas, moved to cali, when the jobs dried up he went to Alaska. He routinely had to leave his family to work until he opened his owned construction roofing company at 61 years old, a business that went from 1978 to 2005

He employed my mother and her sisters an brothers along with some of his cousins an brothers.

When he died at 94 he left all 6 of his kids 200k each and all of grandkids ( 8 of us total) 25k each

He was still able to do this despite jim crow, an worse racism

My father an mother are still married going on 39 years strong.


I've learn from them an my grandfather
an I've pushed my net worth to over 700k, when my parents go, my brother an I will mutil millionaires because my parent took the baton and ran with, they didn't do anything special other then work and buy an additional property my mother already had before she met my dad.
.
And when I go my kids will inherit more then me.

Yes there is white supremacy and we should continue to fight, that doesnt mean you cant make moves or prosper despite it.

An strong father, and mother is the key not just one



that’s the blueprint breh :salute:
 
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lmao their are strong black fighters, they moved their family away from that environment

the problem is we have no community, there is no organization, where's the group of black men who have meetings discussing how tackle the problems black people face, it don't exist

and yall nikkaz do is complain and point fingers

these young wild nikkaz are a result of generations of neglect these people who have been consumed by their environment, no different than zombie after being infected, only the strongest of minds can make it out

The way to change the situation is create institutions to protect the youth, to get them away and shield them from such environments, where they can find the guidance they lack at home

it always takes a village
 

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Social workers did what they did to Malcolm to my grandmother
 

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You’re a damn fool if you think there are no families out here missing their dad due to some bullshyt. Not even necessarily deadbeats, I’m talking in jail or dead. I’m speaking on things I’ve personally witnessed from a lot of people in my city.

You even admitted that the father's missing are due to jail or being dead, so basically results of white supremacy(being railroaded by the legal system and possibly killed because of poverty crimes like drug sales). :unimpressed:

Which brings me to my original point, this thread is nonsense. The biggest issue for ADOS is that we live in a system of white supremacy. :unimpressed:

If anyone supports the white supremacist babble that OP is talking about, then that person is a c00n or a suspected white supremacist. :unimpressed:
 

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lmao their are strong black fighters, they moved their family away from that environment

the problem is we have no community, there is no organization, where's the group of black men who have meetings discussing how tackle the problems black people face, it don't exist

and yall nikkaz do is complain and point fingers

these young wild nikkaz are a result of generations of neglect these people who have been consumed by their environment, no different than zombie after being infected, only the strongest of minds can make it out

The way to change the situation is create institutions to protect the youth, to get them away and shield them from such environments, where they can find the guidance they lack at home

it always takes a village
It takes a village for certain to keep a kid on the straight and narrow, but it only takes one to set him on a road to destruction.
 

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:salute: to all my bruhs who made it this far successfully without being a statistic without a pops or even a mother in some cases.

Grew up with both parents in the house. Pops was "pops" to all my potnas I grew up and played ball with. To this day cats hit me up and thank that man and tell him he's the blueprint that they try and follow because those same cats have families now but grew up without a pops in the crib.

When you are lucky/blessed to have/live with someone who you love, fear, respect, will go to war and die for you, your mother, your brothers and sisters on the spot, protect you at all costs. Take you and the fam up out of terrible environments and conditions teach you the wicked ways of this world and what it takes to be a positive man leading by example....

You pass that on to your sons, nephews, cousins or a young bruh who lacks some of those essentials in his life.

No it won't completely solve our current condition in Amerikkka but it's a start.
 

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You even admitted that the father's missing are due to jail or being dead, so basically results of white supremacy(being railroaded by the legal system and possibly killed because of poverty crimes like drug sales). :unimpressed:
The biggest issue for ADOS is that we live in a system of white supremacy. :unimpressed:

The issue is that our culture doesn’t appreciate nor want strong black fathers...shyt that’s like the first part of white supremacy. Get the fathers out of the picture, let’s the women raise the kids and now you got a whole bunch of directionless men who are subconsciously angry at their fathers for not being there. It’s a vicious cycle.


Which brings me to my original point, this thread is nonsense.

:gucci: It sounds like we agree with each other, nikka :unimpressed:
 

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You even admitted that the father's missing are due to jail or being dead, so basically results of white supremacy(being railroaded by the legal system and possibly killed because of poverty crimes like drug sales). :unimpressed:

Which brings me to my original point, this thread is nonsense. The biggest issue for ADOS is that we live in a system of white supremacy. :unimpressed:

If anyone supports the white supremacist babble that OP is talking about, then that person is a c00n or a suspected white supremacist. :unimpressed:
These are copouts. You choose to be a criminal. People quit jobs in the 80's and 90's to get that fast drug money, people lost jobs (good jobs)due to getting high. Those are individual choices.
 
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