you gonna eat there just to spite me?Me and like 5 of my homies might pull just because of this. So now it's a net gain![]()

you gonna eat there just to spite me?Me and like 5 of my homies might pull just because of this. So now it's a net gain![]()

How is its intent to remain a secret when it has multiple articles and features written on it, a yelp page, a IG page, and a well known a$$hole ownerThats a speakeasy bar. their intent is to kind of keep it a secret and limit it to word of mouth only. Makes sense not to allow cell phones there
. I just saw Tony Roberts on Friday. They asked to please keep cell phone use to a “minimum”. Lady at our table recorded his whole set.I hear you. I don't mind the attempt. Let's see what happens. I would like to check it out and see if it really changes the atmosphere. If it does, he might be on to something. And I don't think comedians only do it to protect their material. I think a byproduct of them doing it is that the audience is more engaged. It helps the energy in the room......well, I'm assuming it does. I mean, it has to.




breh, thats not an opinion its literally a speakeasy bar. Google the restaurant.How is its intent to remain a secret when it has multiple articles and features written on it, a yelp page, a IG page, and a well known a$$hole owner.
It's a marketing approach , just like this DC bar.
No, because I appreciate people vibing in real life and not hypnotized by their phones, you cotdamn narcissistyou gonna eat there just to spite me?![]()

enjoy your tsa check vibe brehNo, because I appreciate people vibing in real life and not hypnotized by their phones, you cotdamn narcissist![]()
Its just a shame that so many black restaurant owners put themselves out of business or limit their growth, with these power trips. Trying to raise their patrons instead of serve them.
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There are so many sides to this though.
1) You just trying to sell some Turkey Legs and your customers come to your establishment like this.
NSFW
Or
2) You just tryna sell some drinks and some Southern-ish type food (shame on the business owner for having a DJ though)
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Owner of True Kitchen Kocktails Addresses Viral Video and Statement About ‘Twerking'
A video showing the owner of a Dallas restaurant shouting at customers has people on the internet talking. It all started because a few women were twerking.www.nbcdfw.com
Or
3) You don't even put your name on the place, but word gets out that you're a part owner
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Jeezy Says His High-End Atlanta Restaurant Went Downhill After He Announced He Owned It
Jeezy discussed the luxury restaurant he once owned that went downhill after he announced he owned it during a radio interview.www.blackenterprise.com
It don't take but 1 or 2 incidents to mess your game up. Food* places are already tight margins as it is, on top of so much operational complexity (and liability). *Not that you can tell by the over the top pricing.
So if you're a Black bar, club, restaurant owner - you can't really win because your business model is especially fragile, because you are BLACK. Some folks will use your blackness to get real familiar in a way that they would not with any other group. There's some upside to the idea that so and so is family, but a whole lot of downside....
And it's not always about rich vs poor, educated vs un-educated, civilized vs "savage"
In DC, you can't even PRICE out the socially disruptive. The worst ones be Loud, Wrong, and Rich. (and often connected)
DC brehs can verify, but I'll be out with 6 figure Figgas and Ladies, and
They acting like Indian Hiring Managers when it comes to being decent customers.
- They sending stuff back to the kitchen, cause ain't enough lemon on the lemon pepper
- Pinching and bargaining over every penny on the check
- I ain't order that
- but you had a taste of it
- that don't mean I'm chipping in
- Saying she ain't really that good of a waitress, so 11% tip...
And these folks (my peers, my homies, the chicks I date and deal with) be the first to start yapping about how other Black folks is such and such....
Every last one of them can code switch....can get on code....but when Blacks is running the businesses the patronize.....
All that to say - I understand when Black Business Owners SPEAK THE UNSPOKEN RULES.
I get it. It makes sense to me.
I also get that it doesn't actually work.
Would be better service to deal with each case one by one, then becoming a full on dictator to everybody.
Think about it in school back in the day. You had one kid in the back constantly talking. I have some teachers who would just kick him out of class and keep it moving. Some would just ignore him and let him fail the class since he ain't listening.
the teachers the bothered me the most was the ones who stopped class entirely. And wouldn't continue until the talking stopped. Thats this guy.
Now you punishing all of us for the actions of one person. The teacher assumed everyone would collectively blame the misbehaving student but we were more annoyed by the teacher
Yeah. He lost you as a customer, but others in the thread seem to want to check it out. No way to say how many customers he gained because they thought the idea was novel. And, if it works, he'll gain even more. That's already a tough business so he's already up against it. But if he thinks the idea is worth taking the shot I stand by him. I hope it works out for him.so you admit he has already lost two potential customers because of this. Meanwhile you probably still have no problem eating at places without this policy.
Net loss it seems like
The analogy doesn't have to work it has to explain how i feel. If you punish or dictate to everybody i'm annoyed by the dictator. If you just focus on the individuals only, i'm annoyed only by those particular people.I get that, I'm just saying it's two sides to it.
This ain't a class room though. I'm not gonna get sidelined in pointing out how the analogy doesn't work, what I am trying to say is
Hush dude is trying to create a no-phone environment, because he wants his customers to talk to each other. (it's literally in the linked IG)
Before no-phones, it was black business owners enforcing "no sneakers, no ball caps, no baggy jeans" aka "dress to impress" (now when a dress code is used at white places....)
Is top down better than a case by case?
How would he even do a case by case in this situation?
Say Slim, you been staring at your phone too long, holla at that dark skin sista over there?
not sure why he need his customers to talk to each other though..
didn't know it was a bar. But even then thats kinda stupid. I mean yes, i would want my customers in a bar to talk to each other. treat my place like a hangout.If you don't understand why a bar owner would want his customers to talk to each other, we're not really working with the same set of assumptions.