Black female privilege

[Bay Area]

i think that this whole debate among black folks may be doing more harm than good. treating black men like white men is filled with areas where the analogy breaks down. if we ask ourselves, "who would you choose to be if all you wanted was an easier life?" and you had to choose between being a white woman or a black man, and if everybody knows white woman is the correct answer, then we have to question the notion of gender privilege in a society where the institutions of consequence are dominated by white people of both genders.

at most, there is a system of preference for black men in terms of church leadership, but really, in anything that matters to real life outcomes, black women are doing fine or even better compared to black men. that includes education, employment, keeping a clean criminal record, rate of being murdered, etc.

I agree with everything you said. Im only in here because there are just so many daily threads on here bashing black women and they dont have a voice or they dont speak up because they are afraid of getting piled up on so I play devils advocate because I enjoy these discussions.

 

[InDePickWest]

Do u hold women accountable for anything? Are u aware that women use the child support system as a means for income?

Are u aware that men have been placed on child support without it even been proven that they are the biological father?

Men can not financially walk away from their children. They are held accountable. If they don't pay, they will be placed in jail.


If women can't afford to take care of a kid, they can go to the state for money, housing and food.

Please tell me if anything i Stated was factually incorrect

Lol thats cuz women are the primary care givers for the kids. They cant put her in jail like they do the men cuz then who would take care the kids.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Lol thats cuz women are the primary care givers for the kids. They cant put her in jail like they do the men cuz then who would take care the kids.

Way to totally skip over what I said. Nice deflection tho. And this proves that women are not held accountable like men are

 

[InDePickWest]

Way to totally skip over what I said. Nice deflection tho. And this proves that women are not held accountable like men are

Watch the video. Dont reply until you do. I read all your posts, I READ what you have to say. Now just watch.

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=374229&page=1 also <----

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Watch the video. Dont reply until you do. I read all your posts, I READ what you have to say. Now just watch.

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=374229&page=1 also <----

Ok first off,you have TOTALLY deviated away from the topic of the thread that YOU made. How about adressing that before u jump all over th place.

Where and what is black male privilege? What privileges do black men have that black wommen don't?

How do black men sytematically opress, discriminate,deny bw of employment, deny black women of housing, freedom of speech, deny voting rights? How are black men in any way responsible for any of what I said?

Secondly. I listened to about 9mins of that bullshyt video u dropped. That broad is so far off base in her assessment of how black men are "coddled"


When BM do crimes, them are locked up longer, are sentenced more frequently and are subseqeuntly preosecuted more than ANY other race and or gender.


What do black me n get away with. That broad in the youtube video tried to use her experiences in black church as a means to cast aspirsions aganst bm. GTFOH. Try again Ma

 

[Killer Instinct]

Bushes.

 

[J-Fire]

There wouldnt be a need for child support of more men in our community werent abandoning their seeds. Dont leave and you wont have to worry about paying child support. If I get a female pregnant im gonna stick around.

How about women hold the rights to abortion or giving the child away for adoption? A woman get separate from motherhood with support and it doesn't matter what you want as a man.

And if you are an underage make that is statutory raped by an older female as she has your child...you will still have to pay child support.

A man is at the mercy of women as it comes to having a child.