Black Feminist: Black Patriarchy hurts everyone

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In absolutely no point in the history of Black America’s existence has there ever existed a patriarchy.

That is not true. There was a Black patriarchy in this country until the late 1960s. Black families and Black society used to be headed by Black men and it had been that way since slavery. This crap you are looking at now days is due to White feminism and government policies in the 1960s that financially incentivized lower income Black women and Black men to create and rear children without being married. Once the stigma was removed from unwed women having babies, which coincided with the "Great Migration" to cities then that is when the breakdown of the Black patriarchy occurred and family structure collapsed. Before then it used to be rare for Black women to head families.

If you don't believe what I am stating then find some older African Americans preferably in their 60s and 70s and you are going to get a history lesson. If you stop and think about it lower income African American families were part of a great failed government experiment. Now days all that people see is the carnage. They don't actually remember the situation before said carnage.

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I never see attractive black chicks complaining about black patriarchy unless they date white men and/or have mental problems/questionable past

She's not ugly tho.

And very attractive females don't complain because they have armies of simps already obeying them, not because they don't share the same dumb views.

Feminism is the default thinking of western/westernized women under 40.
 

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"My shoe collection costs more than your annual salary. You don't make enough money to even breathe in my direction.."

"Men put so much of their mental well being into how much money they are able to provide.."





The fact that these two sentences were said by the same person, one right after the other, let's you know all you need to know. :mjlol:
 

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"My shoe collection costs more than your annual salary. You don't make enough money to even breathe in my direction.."

"Men put so much of their mental well being into how much money they are able to provide.."





The fact that these two sentences were said by the same person, one right after the other, let's you know all you need to know. :mjlol:
The lack of self awareness (or, hypocrisy) in these types is FAR too common.
 

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That is not true. There was a Black patriarchy in this country until the late 1960s. Black families and Black society used to be headed by Black men and it had been that way since slavery. This crap you are looking at now days is due to White feminism and government policies in the 1960s that financially incentivized lower income Black women and Black men to create and rear children without being married. Once the stigma was removed from unwed women having babies, which coincided with the "Great Migration" to cities then that is when the breakdown of the Black patriarchy occurred and family structure collapsed. Before then it used to be rare for Black women to head families.

If you don't believe what I am stating then find some older African Americans preferably in their 60s and 70s and you are going to get a history lesson. If you stop and think about it lower income African American families were part of a great failed government experiment. Now days all that people see is the carnage. They don't actually remember the situation before said carnage.

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Church+Fans2.jpg

Even under the guise of “Black patriarchy” at that particular time, Foundational Black American society and culture was still centered around the wife/mother/grandmother as the backbone of both the community and household. We’ve always been more of a matriarchal people, that’s nothing new. But I definitely agree that this whole feminist shyt spearheaded by these nasty ass Cac women got our whole structure fukked up by constantly cutting down Black men and Black boys, intentionally knocking the masculine element of our community off its kilter while causing our feminine half to go awry when both are supposed to balance and complement each other whether we’re matriarchal or patriarchal.
 

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Exactly everybody talk about grandma, nanna or big momma or whatever. Most nikkas are growing up with matriarchs.

So men growing up in patriarchal homes are the cream of the crop?
 

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Even under the guise of “Black patriarchy” at that particular time, Foundational Black American society and culture was still centered around the wife/mother/grandmother as the backbone of both the community and household. We’ve always been more of a matriarchal people, that’s nothing new. But I definitely agree that this whole feminist shyt spearheaded by these nasty ass Cac women got our whole structure fukked up by constantly cutting down Black men and Black boys, intentionally knocking the masculine element of our community off its kilter while causing our feminine half to go awry when both are supposed to balance and complement each other whether we’re matriarchal or patriarchal.


Well what is a patriarch?
 
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