Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[PeridotPuss]

Just embrace the fact that you are broken, and find other broken men to fill in your needs when you need them.

I got a friend that sounds exactly like you.

She keeps fukking up decent men cause she can't get passed her own fukkery.

Told her them same thing.

Just stop. Accept the fact that you won't have a healthy relationship with the opposite sex.

 

[Lo-Co]

reading that other thread, I got the impression you don't really like yourself that much. figuring out why that is and fixing it would be a starting point. As an example, the reforming thot i was talking about in that other post had a terrible mother, who dominated her very weak father. She basically raised her to believe that only a perfect daughter was good enough to deserves love, and of course, she was never good enough. that led to severe self esteem issues, which made her long for acceptance, which in turn led to terrible life choices and a preference for dominating men that weren't as weak as her dad. in addition, sex became her method of choice to relieve pressure and feel acceptance, which only compounded the problem. unfortunately, that shyt was so hardwired into her brain, that she aborted her project of reform half way through

so my to do list for you would be:
1.) reflect on what type of man you're attracted to and why
2.) reflect on why your relationships failed and what your contribution was (that includes picking the wrong guy)
3.) reflect on your upringing and how it relates to your opinion of men (a mother that tells you man ain't shyt can't be healthy)
4.) train yourself to see men as individuals and not a collective

This shyt here. Get to the root of it.

 

[Bless't]

thanks

Everything will be okay.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I'm actually curious as to how you feel about me now @PeridotPuss I mean I have a dikk and I'm a male.


I know you question a few things here and there but I know for damn sho I better not be being grouped as "typical lying spur of the moment male" that would be pretty


I thought I was different to you

 

[Audemar]

I dated the squares the squares led me here....WHY do yall think there some loyal nerd nikka out there nerds got dikks too

If you're honestly worried about a guy cheating, then you should consider finding someone who doesn't enjoy large social gatherings, keeps to himself, or similar traits, the kind of guy who is statistically less likely to cheat based on the fact that he doesn't interact with enough with women to even have a chance to cheat. I know many guys or types of guys (not self-proclaimed "nice guys" either) who would be loyal but they don't put themselves out there because women aren't really checking for them to begin with.

 

[BocaRear]

I dated the squares the squares led me here....WHY do yall think there some loyal nerd nikka out there nerds got dikks too

I'd like to know about these "squares" you claim to have led you to this situation

Also, don't date other "broken" people as nikkas in this thread are suggesting

Associate yourself with positive and healthy people, take a look at your circle of close friends. I'm willing to bet they're having an unhealthy impact on you. Who knows, if you hang around positive, intelligent and healthy individuals you may find a man who you really connect with on a deeper level than just sex.

Reformed hoes get wifed everyday, nikkas will save a light skinned hoe with the quickness

 

[PeridotPuss]

I'm actually curious as to how you feel about me now @PeridotPuss I mean I have a dikk and I'm a male.


I know you question a few things here and there but I know for damn sho I better not be being grouped as "typical lying spur of the moment male" that would be pretty


I thought I was different to you

You know what I recently discovered about you ? that's EXACTLY the shyt I'm taking about. ..to you it's no big deal ....to me. ...it's typical male behavior followed by rationalization

 

[GoldTeef]

@bcrusaderw

Why not actually reply to my comment explaining why it's nonsense instead of negging me?

 

[-DMP-]

Lol at the amount of posts in this thread telling her to be a hoe.

Old hoes get cuffed all the time tho

Just look at them old porn stars with white men in jbo

 

[The Mad Titan]

You know what I recently discovered about you ? that's EXACTLY the shyt I'm taking about. ..to you it's no big deal ....to me. ...it's typical male behavior followed by rationalization

Thats actually pretty interesting tho that would mean there was more than meets the eye all along that was a pretty awkward conversation. but your right I didn't really look at it like a big deal for a number of reasons.

We'll discuss this later.






That actually says say's alot though.

 

[DontDoIt]

I dated the squares the squares led me here....WHY do yall think there some loyal nerd nikka out there nerds got dikks too

There are different kinds of squares

Exhibit A: Normal Square

Definition: "Someone who is unaware of or oblivious to a specific subculture; one who "doesn't get it." An old-fashioned expression."
(n; adj) A person who is regarded as dull, rigidly conventional, and out of touch with current trends.
No boring, dull, conventional guy is cheating on you. You didn't date this kind of guy. Stop lying.


Exhibit B: Rounded Corner Square (Fake Square)

Definition: fukkboy fake
The guy in your other story who was 24 and had comic books, spiderman sheets etc. He was a wanna be square, but he was doing shyt with his life working at the retail store, not taking any classes, and raping underage girls. That's a rounded corner square. Psuedo square. False square.



Know your shapes brehettes.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Thats actually pretty interesting tho that would mean there was more than meets the eye all along that was a pretty awkward conversation. but your right I didn't really look at it like a big deal for a number of reasons.

We'll discuss this later.






That actually says say's alot though.

Men never do. Womens pain, feelings or desires are rarely a concern or deciding factor in anything within the male mind.

But sure, let's talk about it later....

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Idk not looking for anything specific right now but probably both

Do you have a local women's center? They may have free meetings that will teach you to value yourself and protect yourself while getting to know a man

 

[PeridotPuss]

There are different kinds of squares

Exhibit A: Normal Square

Definition: "Someone who is unaware of or oblivious to a specific subculture; one who "doesn't get it." An old-fashioned expression."
(n; adj) A person who is regarded as dull, rigidly conventional, and out of touch with current trends.
No boring, dull, conventional guy is cheating on you. You didn't date this kind of guy. Stop lying.


Exhibit B: Rounded Corner Square (Fake Square)

Definition: fukkboy fake
The guy in your other story who was 24 and had comic books, spiderman sheets etc. He was a wanna be square, but he was doing shyt with his life working at the retail store, not taking any classes, and raping underage girls. That's a rounded corner square. Psuedo square. False square.



Know your shapes brehettes.

I got ran thru by pseudo squares then

 

[PeridotPuss]

Do you have a local women's center? They may have free meetings that will teach you to value yourself and protect yourself while getting to know a man

Maybe boo I'll look into that option. Happy friday! !