Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

PeridotPuss

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Okay define square in the literal sense of how they were :leostare:

Smart, kinda corny kinda cool,confident, good jobs, education, comes two parent home,not atheist or agnostic. ...you know "good guys" or are those not "good guys" either ??:sadcam:
 

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What kind of dreams? My therapist was a black lady so she didn't sugarcoat shyt for me.
Ultimately therapy begets therapy. I'm a fan for a year max...after that the financial incentive kicks in for the therapist.
I'm no relationship expert but finding someone with mutual interests as well as the physical attraction is a start.
Godspeed and be well.
 

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Smart, kinda corny kinda cool,confident, good jobs, education, comes two parent home,not atheist or agnostic. ...you know "good guys" or are those not "good guys" either ??:sadcam:
See my post above...you messed with them fake squares...they don't represent all of us :mjlol: nikkas saw Kick, Push and bought some Bape tees then became squares. But like @Audemar or someone else said...we don't put ourselves out there to cheat...or even be checked by women like that so its a double edged sword since its apparent that they don't show up on your radar.

I really don't know what else to contribute that others haven't...shyt is about compatibility in every aspect. Like for me personally I would never ever date you or anyone close to your type but I know it would be mutual...if we're honest with ourselves. A real square is not for you :mjlol: The nikkas that hit though probably wanted to disarm you with those aforementioned traits you mentioned because you associated them with a gilded sense of stability and security you probably felt you were lacking.

At the same time if you think that because a nikka is sheltered, or a square or whateverthefukk that he doesn't want to have sex...and if he does "he's just like the rest" you buggin. Obviously, communicating what everyone's intentions are ( @Matt504 ) prior to doing the deed is necessary...amongst other things.

P/S/: I get that its a requirement for you personally...but I never understood how someone's lack of belief in a god automatically whitewashes them as undesirable even if they're stellar in ever other category/requirement a girl has.
 

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:ohlawd: last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll....:jbhmm: a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst :ohlawd: no booty derailments please

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The NEED for love is your problem. It's that simple. You love out of need, meaning you probably arent offering the men you've been with as much as you think you are. You're trying to fill a void that only self love can fill, THEN a man will join the party when your cup is filled to the brim.

:shaq:

Thats all the:cape:

I have. Best of luck.
 
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