Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[iBrowse]

and @PeridotPuss why you need a dude...just stay single. Dating...love and all that are privileges...not obligations..furthermore you don't get into dating while you have all of that baggage expecting someone to for your fukked up mentality. You need to really fix that before you start choosin again.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The one where Hillary Swank got kilt?

 

[Jean Jacket]

Stay in shape. Eat right. Be better. Cut out negative people/things from your life.

Stop bullshytting yourself and other people about your goals. Actually do something everyday towards who you want to be.

Reflect on your past, but don't dwell. Learn from it and move on. Thoughts->Actions->Habits->Character->Destiny.

The rest is fun.

 

[TheNig]

You owe me for ice....

 

[Trapperman Dave]

@PeridotPuss my pms now or i come to yours

 

[PeridotPuss]

and @PeridotPuss why you need a dude...just stay single. Dating...love and all that are privileges...not obligations..furthermore you don't get into dating while you have all of that baggage expecting someone to for your fukked up mentality. You need to really fix that before you start choosin again.

I wasnt looking for a man just to clean up my mentality a bit.

 

[KingFreeman]

Why are all 'good' brehs supposed to be lames? I never understood that kind of reasoning. Like there aren't multitudes of educated, levelheaded brehs that dress well, are in shape, and are just chill without having to fit dumbass stereotypes on how 'brothas' are supposed to be?

Shyt is crazy. A man can't be a down-to-earth, successful dude doing the whole relationship deal without suspicion and Tyler-Perry stereotypes thrown at him. I swear, the relationships I've been in with otherwise top-notch sistas that literally cannot process a breh outside the box (athiest, not a follower, athletic but cerebral, etc) even one they consider attractive

/End rant.

Srsly tho, u relax them hangups issues and you'll be straight OP

 

[Imlinkin]

And a msg for all the other brehs and brehettes

No NEEDING love except from yo damn self

"You can't love out of need." - my late great granny

She used to drop jewels of wisdom on me as a kid, so deep that it took years to fully comprehend her wisdom.

Think about it. The game of love is most harsh on those who need love the most because they are looking outward for something that only can come from within.




Aiight, now I gotta go do something mannish like smash a beer bottle over someone's head to get that testosterone level back on 10 right

 

[LV Koopa]

Peridot seems cool from her other threads, but this is starting to get weird

are you crying for attention, or trying to live life according to same blase rules

 

[Youseenmywork]

You remind me of myself a little while ago. I used to be like that, you might need therapy. Not even trying to be funny, but self perception is important and yours is all fukked up. You need to see a therapist and get to the root of what's causing you to feel this way about yourself. You also have to be honest with yourself, are you comfortable being vulnerable around someone you care for? Because shyt is a gamble regardless, you have to choose whether it's one you see as a viable risk or not. There are plenty good dudes out there, don't let anybody make you feel jaded and justified. Loathing manifests itself into all parts of life. It's dangerous.

....therapy is SOO underrated. I watch couples therapy cause one of my favorite rapper (joe budden) is on the show. Dr jenn is great thoe. In the black community for some odd reason therapy is looking down upon. Great post by the way

 

[LV Koopa]

There are different kinds of squares

Exhibit A: Normal Square

Definition: "Someone who is unaware of or oblivious to a specific subculture; one who "doesn't get it." An old-fashioned expression."
(n; adj) A person who is regarded as dull, rigidly conventional, and out of touch with current trends.
No boring, dull, conventional guy is cheating on you. You didn't date this kind of guy. Stop lying.


Exhibit B: Rounded Corner Square (Fake Square)

Definition: fukkboy fake
The guy in your other story who was 24 and had comic books, spiderman sheets etc. He was a wanna be square, but he was doing shyt with his life working at the retail store, not taking any classes, and raping underage girls. That's a rounded corner square. Psuedo square. False square.



Know your shapes brehettes.

 

[Tapp]

last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll.... a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst no booty derailments please

Obviously there are guys that want to date you (you're beautiful) you just have to learn that in order to be happy in a relationship you have to be vulnerable and let that special guy in. you brining out the simp in me I kinda want to save you





but I ain't drunk enough to do that

 

[LV Koopa]

....therapy is SOO underrated. I watch couples therapy cause one of my favorite rapper (joe budden) is on the show. Dr jenn is great thoe. In the black community for some odd reason therapy is looking down upon. Great post by the way

It's not just the black community. Mental health isn't taken seriously by a lot of people.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Peridot seems cool from her other threads, but this is starting to get weird

are you crying for attention, or trying to live life according to same blase rules

I was just trying to discuss something impt to me and the first thread for b derailed so I cut the info down and made a more direct thread the next day

I'm weird for askin men for some insight on men?

 

[iBrowse]

I wasnt looking for a man just to clean up my mentality a bit.

Hmmm...I must have misread that post above where you were talking about having tried the "alone for a year" route. My bad