Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[PeridotPuss]

last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll.... a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst no booty derailments please

 

[VegasCAC]

I kind of said this in the other thread, but you need to realize that there's good dudes out there.

That doesn't mean settle for a lame. Doesn't mean settle for an ugly dude.
If what you want is a meaningful relationship, give them a shot. And try your best to trust again

 

[Playeroni]

 

[knickscrusaderm]

Have you considered islam?

 

[feelosofer]

Sometimes you have to see past your own issues and take a risk. Otherwise life will pass you by.

 

[Michael9100]

I can't sympathize with light skin women

 

[Elle Driver]

You remind me of myself a little while ago. I used to be like that, you might need therapy. Not even trying to be funny, but self perception is important and yours is all fukked up. You need to see a therapist and get to the root of what's causing you to feel this way about yourself. You also have to be honest with yourself, are you comfortable being vulnerable around someone you care for? Because shyt is a gamble regardless, you have to choose whether it's one you see as a viable risk or not. There are plenty good dudes out there, don't let anybody make you feel jaded and justified. Loathing manifests itself into all parts of life. It's dangerous.

 

[PeridotPuss]

I kind of said this in the other thread, but you need to realize that there's good dudes out there.

That doesn't mean settle for a lame.

If what you want is a meaningful relationship, give them a shot

Thank you, but "good dude" ?

Can you tell me how to spot a good one from a bad one...bc real talk most men seem to do the same type of fukked up stuff regardless

 

[PeridotPuss]

Sometimes you have to see past your own issues and take a risk. Otherwise life will pass you by.

 

[Larry Lobster]

 

[VegasCAC]

Thank you, but "good dude" ?

Can you tell me how to spot a good one from a bad one...bc real talk most men seem to do the same type of fukked up stuff regardless

It's hard to tell off top. But there are warning signs that I'm sure you're aware of that he's not about shyt


And not all men cheat/lie. You have to continue taking risks I guess

 

[PeridotPuss]

You remind me of myself a little while ago. I used to be like that, you might need therapy. Not even trying to be funny, but self perception is important and yours is all fukked up. You need to see a therapist and get to the root of what's causing you to feel this way about yourself. You also have to be honest with yourself, are you comfortable being vulnerable around someone you care for? Because shyt is a gamble regardless, you have to choose whether it's one you see as a viable risk or not. There are plenty good dudes out there, don't let anybody make you feel jaded and justified. Loathing manifests itself into all parts of life. It's dangerous.

Elle I went to therapy, therapist sold me dreams

 

[TRFG]

Why buy it when you and everyone else can get the samples for free

 

[Hijo de luna]

You're too old to not understand the laws of attraction. Go read some Abraham Hicks and get out of this victim mentality

 

[PeridotPuss]

It's hard to tell off top. But there are warning signs that I'm sure you're aware of that he's not about shyt


And not all men cheat/lie.

imma need some time to believe the bold. I'm not there yet...