Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[YouCherThatGirl]

Not that hard. Just quit being a hoe. Be as honest and self-aware offline as you are on here. You're not going to attract every dude, cuz not every nikka is going to be willing to put up with that past. I wouldn't but I'm sure plenty of well-to-do guys would. Cliche as it sounds, being yourself is usually the simplest solution. You wanna be a hoe, and whatever comes with that, keep hoeing. If you want something different out of life, then maybe that's not the route. On some level, I fukk with your tales of thottery though, so I if you wanna keep on for amusement's sake, I won't complain.

 

[Hijo de luna]

and you too old to be tryna control your wife by making her think you're up to shyt.

Don't think since I'm asking for help I'm not going to light the dumb shyt up in here

I swear y'all blow shyt wayyyy out of proportion. That post wasn't meant for the female psyche because yall can't see the forest for the trees. There was a deeper message that some got and others didn't . In my years on this planet I've learned how to get everything I want. You could learn from me youngsta

 

[PeridotPuss]

Damn @PeridotPuss so it's this deep?

Could start from the top, what's your mind set towards males from the jump? I haven't seen bitterness, just being opinionated.

We are all a sum of our experiences, perhaps from today switch up the type of dudes you say yes to.

I'd be the first to admit harshly, from what's been disclosed so far I wouldn't/encourage my brehs to wife you.

Hey Mike YES IT'S DEEP and I'm not too ashamed to ask for help

I don't understand men

Off jump my perspective is this man doesn't like me, is already lying to me or hiding something probably something small like a lingering ex or a chick who might be pregnant, he wants my sex as quickly as possible with as little effort as possible and okay that's fine so I think we'll what do I want? I'm not going to get true love or commitment so.....sex is cool I like sex

And I've just been leaving it there

I don't want to be sold the dreams....I rarely see those dreams coming true

 

[PeridotPuss]

I swear y'all blow shyt wayyyy out of proportion. That post wasn't meant for the female psyche because yall can't see the forest for the trees. There was a deeper message that some got and others didn't . In my years on this planet I've learned how to get everything I want. You could learn from me youngsta

Ok....your advice tho?

 

[The Mad Titan]

1st off You want to get more than a good dude, there are plenty of good men and women out there. That's not enough, especially now a days.

You want a good dude that's loyal to you and gives you the attention that you require. Because lets be honest those are big concerns for you. There are levels to it, and it depends on what YOU want.


I suggest being much more selective of who you open up with, and engage in conversation with. Positive influences are so important to have around us and to engage with.... As much as the coli or the internet for that matter is enjoyable its leaves us jaded if we don't keep positive influences in our lives. I just made my "farewell" post a few min's ago before seeing this as a matter of fact.



You'll be alright, long as you keep being honest with yourself.

 

[thirdeye]

wait. hol up.. ALL you women see therapists... well damn

maybe its just you guys... maybe its just you guys

I guess most idiots can find humor in bettering your mental health.

 

[Verbal Kint]

imma need some time to believe the bold. I'm not there yet...

Sounds like you got a mental block. What types of people do you be around? I don't think its that hard to find a good dude if that's your main focus and not bankroll, looks, etc. Not saying to start rolling by the bus stop for #teamugly nikkas but still...
Lotta dudes are snakes but check his people and his history. If his people are good, standup people and he's honest, thats a good sign. Anybody can cheat/mess up given the right/wrong situation but . Never thought it was that hard.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

This is good advice but I'm PAST that. I've been single for a year, I only recently started coli-in because I was ALREADY spending so much time alone.

I took this time because my LAST relationship ended in an engagement that ended because he cheated. I did what I was supposed to do...was faithful, honest and willing to be the breadwinner.

THAT breakup was a final straw of sorts so I'm not suffering from magical man syndrome I'm suffering from the fukk ITS but everyone is saying at MY AGE if I go bitter now I'll never marry and I'll regret it later

I currently feel like I should probably be single and permanently. ....but that permanenty part is the "damage" I've heard

How old are you?

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[BlackBall]

last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll.... a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst no booty derailments please

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

Wife you a coli nikka.

 

[FSP]

Did someone leak this chick nudes?

 

[DrX]

@PeridotPuss

as I stated before, youre a good person that need to value your personality over your looks and sexuality .... u seem like a cool person to hang out with .....u need to embrace that.....u dont gotta get a man with sex...because u have other qualities to offer

also I think maybe u might need somebody to talk to? maybe a therapist...Im saying that because I care, and Im not a hypocrite...Ive been doing some work on myself also because obvious im mentally ill myself...and acceptance is always the first step

 

[Kitsch]

 

[PeridotPuss]

How old are you?

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28

 

[Still FloW]

I guess most idiots can find humor in bettering your mental health.

i did... found it amusing.. feel free to drop by my PMS's to have a discussion