Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

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PeridotPuss said:
:ohlawd: last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll....:jbhmm: a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst :ohlawd: no booty derailments please
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girl stick to posting those types of threads in the salon

shyt like that is why Ive been posting in the salon lately

the trolls in tlr are getting out of control.
 
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PeridotPuss said:
This is good advice but I'm PAST that. I've been single for a year, I only recently started coli-in because I was ALREADY spending so much time alone.

I took this time because my LAST relationship ended in an engagement that ended because he cheated. I did what I was supposed to do...was faithful, honest and willing to be the breadwinner.

THAT breakup was a final straw of sorts so I'm not suffering from magical man syndrome I'm suffering from the fukk ITS but everyone is saying at MY AGE if I go bitter now I'll never marry and I'll regret it later

I currently feel like I should probably be single and permanently. ....but that permanenty part is the "damage" I've heard
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Don't go bitter. But you have to accept the truth. Your life will be lonely and painful.

Two choices:

Do the lonely woman look. A guy may or may not walk into your life, but at least you will have your mind. Yeah your girls will be with dudes and that will make you feel like shyt. But trust me, the grass is always greener... and a sane mind is worth its weight in gold.

Or, you continue to play the game. You get hurt or not, might meet a great guy.

But as long as your mind is shyt, there will be no peace. Route one is the only way i see you fixing your mind.
 
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As real as you keep it on here you should do that in real life.

All you need is an honest dude with hoe tales like you

Because it seems like you could connect with a person through honesty

Sorry the last guy cheated but it seems like if you can find a guy who is brutally honest about his fukkery you can know who you all are dealing with

Real men respect honesty and dish it out too

It just seems like a guy would respect you because you keep it real thats a good foundation for a relationship

You might end up in a open relationship with someone who can rock with you due to you not being fake and keeping secrets


It might not be a disney type relationship but it can still be of substance

Thats my
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