Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

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This past week a real insight into your character.

It's hard to think you are taking this seriously though because... well just look through the thread already :francis: What made you think this was a reasonable idea?

The majority of the advice you are about to recieve is the WOAT, but I think you already know that :manny:

I'd like to think that you cared but :patrice:
 

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I do. I don't believe that "good" man exists for me and I'm realizing now I'm not as "good" as I thought I was :jbhmm: I don't want a man or to get married

I just would like to see men objectively eventually


My girl you got your answer and you've been saying it all along. You're better alone, don't need or want a man, and not trying to get married. You only want a nikka for dikk so be it and just live ya life. If sex makes u happy and being non committed do ya thang.

 

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This is textbook stuff, ageing pretty light skinned girl regrets her demonic and thotful life after being ran thru by ain't shyt nkkkas. Shoulda got with one of those "squares" instead of riding the dikk carousel in your younger years. I have no sympathy as I'm sure there have been countless of Simps who would have :cape:her in her younger years, but these hoes don't want happiness, they want hard dikk and abuse. Let this be a lesson for my young coli brehettes. Get cuffed by a smart simp with a high GPA whilst your still hot:umad:
 

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1st off. What ever you say or claim you are....YOU ARE.
Are some of the things you've said about yourself what you want for yourself? Honestly.

One thing I got from what you want is, ...to stop seeing men as an enemy to your life and future....

We'll need to dig deeper as to WHY you see men as the enemy to your life and future. It couldn't possibly be because of the stories you've told in the previous thread.
I feel like it's more to your anger and mistrust. There is a source to those things.

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reading that other thread, I got the impression you don't really like yourself that much. figuring out why that is and fixing it would be a starting point. As an example, the reforming thot i was talking about in that other post had a terrible mother, who dominated her very weak father. She basically raised her to believe that only a perfect daughter was good enough to deserves love, and of course, she was never good enough. that led to severe self esteem issues, which made her long for acceptance, which in turn led to terrible life choices and a preference for dominating men that weren't as weak as her dad. in addition, sex became her method of choice to relieve pressure and feel acceptance, which only compounded the problem. unfortunately, that shyt was so hardwired into her brain, that she aborted her project of reform half way through :manny:

so my to do list for you would be:
1.) reflect on what type of man you're attracted to and why
2.) reflect on why your relationships failed and what your contribution was (that includes picking the wrong guy)
3.) reflect on your upringing and how it relates to your opinion of men (a mother that tells you man ain't shyt can't be healthy)
4.) train yourself to see men as individuals and not a collective

More good advice. ...
 
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He ain't lying tho. Would you wife a bytch that's had 25 dikks in her by the age of 28?
SImps gonna simp. There's some nikka out there that don't know any better that would be more than glad to save her. Maybe OP doesn't want that but when you're a self-described "washed thot" you gotta get in where you fit in :yeshrug:.
 

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:jbhmm:
This past week a real insight into your character.

It's hard to think you are taking this seriously though because... well just look through the thread already :francis: What made you think this was a reasonable idea?

The majority of the advice you are about to recieve is the WOAT, but I think you already know that :manny:

I'd like to think that you cared but :patrice:

I mean. ...advice and insight is advice and insight. Keep the meat throw away the bones. ....
 

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This is textbook stuff, ageing pretty light skinned girl regrets her demonic and thotful life after being ran thru by ain't shyt nkkkas. Shoulda got with one of those "squares" instead of riding the dikk carousel in your younger years. I have no sympathy as I'm sure there have been countless of Simps who would have :cape:her in her younger years, but these hoes don't want happiness, they want hard dikk and abuse. Let this be a lesson for my young coli brehettes. Get cuffed by a smart simp with a high GPA whilst your still hot:umad:

I dated the squares :heh: the squares led me here....WHY do yall think there some loyal nerd nikka out there:dahell: nerds got dikks too
 

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Just embrace the fact that you are broken, and find other broken men to fill in your needs when you need them.

I got a friend that sounds exactly like you.

She keeps fukking up decent men cause she can't get passed her own fukkery.

Told her them same thing.

Just stop. Accept the fact that you won't have a healthy relationship with the opposite sex and find your own happiness.
 
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