Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!

[Arishok]

I feel like in order to be ready for a relationshipyou have to accept the fact that you may very well get hurt. Its hard to be vulnerable and open with another person especially if you have trust issues but you have to dive into the deep end and wade until someone or something is willing to pull you out.

Just accept the fact you feel that way about men and date to have fun. You will get hurt but guess what? Every girl that has dated has been or is going to be, so either accept the fact that it happens and move on or just give up.

You can't cherish a rose without getting pricked by its thorns.

 

[iBrowse]

Imma good guy.

Go to hayull you THUG

 

[The Mad Titan]

I feel like in order to be ready for a relationshipyou have to accept the fact that you may very well get hurt. Its hard to be vulnerable and open with another person especially if you have trust issues but you have to dive into the deep end and wade until someone or something is willing to pull you out.

Just accept the fact you feel that way about men and date to have fun. You will get hurt but guess what? Every girl that has dated has been or is going to be, so either accept the fact that it happens and move on or just give up.

You can't cherish a rose without getting pricked by its thorns.

*plays*

 

[iBrowse]

Imma good guy.

and stop sagging your pants!!

 

[Arishok]

*plays*

Love this song

 

[DrexlersFade]

last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll.... a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....

So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.

Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst no booty derailments please

You just answered your own question quit saying the word I want and just do

But let this dikk point you in the right direction no simpin here

 

[Audemar]

Not in a serious sense. More in a you guys share an interesting dynamic kind of way.

 

[PeridotPuss]

This girls wants attention, she does not want to be saved

Why is everything you post in my threads something negative about me?

 

[Bless't]

If that's the case then what are you looking for...because you can't disassociate your dysfunction with men and your mother from your perspective [bold]. Your OP in this very thread says that you're jaded and....

so...

Unless you have had some thotpiphany since making this thread idk what you mean by cop out.

If you still hate us while being completely content with yourself then just be alone and dead this thread.:smuggyralph:

Or do a SWOT analysis

 

[Donald J Trump]

Why is everything you post in my threads something negative about me?

Its nothing negative, just the truth.
Truth is hard to swallow, and usually mistaken for negative.

But its true.

All that being said have a blessed day

 

[The Mad Titan]

Why is everything you post in my threads something negative about me?

Your light skin

We feel a certain way about you kind round here girly



Yall do have a pretty bad rep here

 

[illadope]

I guess I can relate to you in a sense. Here's what I did to flip things around completely.

I stopped giving a fukk about what anyone thought of me and did what pleases me. I like playing video games...so I take time out my day to do so. I like dj'ing so I make sure I put a majority of my time to that. Last but not least I love to eat good food so you'll always catch me snacking on something. It seems a lot of people do things to appease other people before they please themselves. Anyways to wrap this up, find some shyt you like doing and just do you. Eventually you'll find someone that you can relate to and just go from there.

 

[Action Mike]

*plays*

Baaayyyybayyyyyyyy

 

[PeridotPuss]

If that's the case then what are you looking for...because you can't disassociate your dysfunction with men and your mother from your perspective [bold]. Your OP in this very thread says that you're jaded and....

so...

Unless you have had some thotpiphany since making this thread idk what you mean by cop out.

If you still hate us while being completely content with yourself then just be alone and dead this thread.:smuggyralph:

Or do a SWOT THOT analysis

that swot thot analysis tho

 

[Shade]

You need to do some self reflecting and also reprogram your mind into telling yourself this is want you want, this is the type of person and relationship I want and that's what I'm going to get. Believe it or not the Hermetic laws do exist and the Law of Attraction are one of 7. Start getting into meditation, breathing exercises and turning off all noise and get into a nice place and mediate with music playing in the background. Start getting into doing self affirmations in front of a mirror each morning. Also read The Kybalion which goes into detail about the seven Hermetic Laws. You should be able to find a free PDF download on google. Peace and inbox me if you have anymore questions.