Yes. But it's something I should make a more consistent part of my routine for sure
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Yes. But it's something I should make a more consistent part of my routine for sure
My wife is addicted to it. I've seen a tremendous improvement in her self esteem and overall well being since she started 5 years ago.
Check out the posts I made about Core Power Yoga in this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/my-in-shape-brehs-who-are-close-to-or-over-30-come-in.368656/page-3
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Look at my name Moon
I just empathize with the day walkers
but the darkness be like, "You belong to us 
" my next and maybe last piece of work is all about my creative strength endowed by the moon.The cloak of darkness is heavy but worn gracefully
#SOG_soldier
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
You can love yourself and still have low self-esteem/ self-worth.
You can say I'm a hoe, I'm ugly, I'm stupid and still be like but I love myself and I'm happy where I am. That's the issue with a lot of people is that they get content and complacent with where they are.
When people are saying love yourself, they mean love yourself more. Raise your self worth. Don't settle for less. Don't limit yourself.
It's like a false confidence. And that's why you yearn for more. Why you may not be happy with your situation, but you've accepted it for what it is. Like people say I'm a hoodrat, a thug, and proud. I take care of myself but you still have the potential for more.
At the end of the day, people get hurt and they build up a wall for protection. That wall keeps people out from hurting you but it also keeps people from getting in touch with you. You can't build intimacy without vulnerability.
Instead of not trusting people to not hurt you. Trust in yourself, that you will be ok, no matter what. Trust in yourself to gain discernment so that you can tell who is deserving to be in your life.
You have say I deserve more. Ask yourself, how is this serving me? Is it adding to my life or taking from it? Are the people around you building you up or holding you back? Surround yourself with positive supportive people.
But hey I could just be projecting, what do I know?
You can say I'm a hoe, I'm ugly, I'm stupid and still be like but I love myself and I'm happy where I am. That's the issue with a lot of people is that they get content and complacent with where they are.
When people are saying love yourself, they mean love yourself more. Raise your self worth. Don't settle for less. Don't limit yourself.
It's like a false confidence. And that's why you yearn for more. Why you may not be happy with your situation, but you've accepted it for what it is. Like people say I'm a hoodrat, a thug, and proud. I take care of myself but you still have the potential for more.
At the end of the day, people get hurt and they build up a wall for protection. That wall keeps people out from hurting you but it also keeps people from getting in touch with you. You can't build intimacy without vulnerability.
Instead of not trusting people to not hurt you. Trust in yourself, that you will be ok, no matter what. Trust in yourself to gain discernment so that you can tell who is deserving to be in your life.
You have say I deserve more. Ask yourself, how is this serving me? Is it adding to my life or taking from it? Are the people around you building you up or holding you back? Surround yourself with positive supportive people.
But hey I could just be projecting, what do I know?
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#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
not much :stupidmofo:You can love yourself and still have low self-esteem/ self-worth.
You can say I'm a hoe, I'm ugly, I'm stupid and still be like but I love myself and I'm happy where I am. That's the issue with a lot of people is that they get content and complacent with where they are.
When people are saying love yourself, they mean love yourself more. Raise your self worth. Don't settle for less. Don't limit yourself.
It's like a false confidence. And that's why you yearn for more. Why you may not be happy with your situation, but you've accepted it for what it is. Like people say I'm a hoodrat, a thug, and proud. I take care of myself but you still have the potential for more.
At the end of the day, people get hurt and they build up a wall for protection. That wall keeps people out from hurting you but it also keeps people from getting in touch with you. You can't build intimacy without vulnerability.
Instead of not trusting people to not hurt you. Trust in yourself, that you will be ok, no matter what. Trust in yourself to gain discernment so that you can tell who is deserving to be in your life.
You have say I deserve more. Ask yourself, how is this serving me? Is it adding to my life or taking from it? Are the people around you building you up or holding you back? Surround yourself with positive supportive people.
But hey I could just be projecting, what do I know?
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
All I know is, I've gon through similar situations as Peridot.I know there are good dudes here. She can get her one but it's the same story all the time. If you don't trust men. If you already believe men are gonna do you wrong, what incentive does a man have to do right?
You've already labeled him as no good.
It's a personal problem. If all men are no good. Why keep messing with them?
I've done the whole sex-only thing before but that life gets boring and doesn't fill the hole you need it to. #dualities.
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FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
What else dont you allow, seeing that you are making demands?
If you have to TELL someone.."No cheating" they arent worthy of my time and they arent ready for a committed relationship.
People who decide to commit automatically know its monogamous..
On top..Ive ran across few women who have stepped out in their relationship..
Its usually the male who cheats..
my advice to you is to figure out what u want out of life. Once u figure that out the rest will come. If u want more I will have to charge you. I charge by the sentence.Sone things was brought to my attention in some threads that I could use some help....I can both give and need advicewe all have our gems
But put me on to the bold thoI still think I might not get it
The Maverick
Rookie and the vet.
Your problem isn't that you don't trust men. It's that you don't trust yourself. You don't trust yourself to pick the right one, to give yourself completely, to be appreciated. An aimless ship will spend forever in the sea, regardless if there's passengers or not.
Get right with yourself and revisit dating. It sounds like you have some self discovery to do.
Get right with yourself and revisit dating. It sounds like you have some self discovery to do.
#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
I know there are good dudes here. She can get her one but it's the same story all the time. If you don't trust men. If you already believe men are gonna do you wrong, what incentive does a man have to do right?
You've already labeled him as no good.
It's a personal problem. If all men are no good. Why keep messing with them?
I've done the whole sex-only thing before but that life gets boring and doesn't fill the hole you need it to. #dualities.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
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All your posts sounds like a porn directors 