Black man explains why the dating scene is messed up
- Thread starter Bonk
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Do you think he’s too entitled?
I’m not really a fan of people who’re entitled & tend to moan whenever they can’t get their way.
So, do you think he should stop moaning & level up since it seems he understands the basic requirements to bag baddies?
Women are always gonna be there. And once you understand what they’re looking for that you lack - it’s always better to take a break from fruitless chasing & work on yourself until you can meet their standards. It’s not that difficult - or is it?
Accountability is a gift. Once you embrace - it makes life easier.
Not absorbing these chicks cos women in general lack accountability. But as a man, you just have to know how to play the game & man up.
The Pledge
If it’s a lie, then we fight on that lie.
Absolutely no lies told. 
You raised a few salient points, however, it’s not the same across the board.
Admittedly, a lot of women desire weak men they can lord over due to the toxic effects of brainwashing on social media. Just as a lot of women desire strong men & are still innately traditional. However, the only thing that’s universal is that all women desire comfort & that comes with money.
And we live in a social media era where everyone is rich online & on social media app & it’s all about materialism. So that’s what they’ll all desire in order to keep up with the trend.
Evidently, since that’s the trend - all you have to do is level up & play the game. Moaning won’t solve the problem. Or will it?
90% of woman are after the same 5% of men
Harsh reality
Harsh reality
RareHunter
All Star
I hear you, but you have to consider, women lord over men in many, even ore covert ways and it leads to wickedness. For example when a father says no, the woman will usually go behind his back out of sympathy for the child. This has it’s place but assuming the father is righteous, this breaks order.
Just as Eve was tricked and thought she was doing Adam a favor, is the way many mothers end up feminizing their sons and spoiling their kids, especially black mothers. It seems “nice” but is it right(Righteous). The man is the one who has to do the “dirty” work and be the “bad cop”. It’s why men have to be the leaders.
You are right about them wanting comfort. As far as leveling up, I must ask why?The women these days are likely already used up even if they are young. Why should a man level up to compete for broken women, who’ve given their best to other men? The answer is no man shouldn’t. I’d say if you’re young like 18-20, you should scoop early, even if you have to dally down 2 yrs.
Heavy Emphasis on the last sentence. Very and I mean very few women have a sense of honor.
Piff Perkins
Veteran
lol
Broke boy banter. I think the real problem is that women have standards and most men don't. Whether a woman is a dime or not, she's going to shoot for the top guy. Tall, handsome, has money, etc. If she's a dime she's going to get what she wants eventually. If she's not a dime she's going to keep shooting until she either bags someone out of her league, or until she settles. But women don't settle on everything. Most women aren't going to go from shooting at the top tier to accepting a 5'6 broke guy who isn't handsome. Maybe instead they settle for the tall guy who has a decent job and isn't handsome but isn't ugly.
Flip side men are going to shoot for hot women regardless of whether she's a loser, broke, etc or not. They'll also shoot at average women, and may even shoot at a chubby chick. Again, regardless of whether she's successful, broke, etc. So when you're the average, unsuccessful, moderately handsome, 5'10 dude you're gonna get rejected. A lot. And instead of better themselves these guys complain about women having...standards.
A loooot of shyt would cease if dudes operated like women and upped their standards. If men stopped entertaining single mothers, broke women, women with obvious emotional problems, etc.
Broke boy banter. I think the real problem is that women have standards and most men don't. Whether a woman is a dime or not, she's going to shoot for the top guy. Tall, handsome, has money, etc. If she's a dime she's going to get what she wants eventually. If she's not a dime she's going to keep shooting until she either bags someone out of her league, or until she settles. But women don't settle on everything. Most women aren't going to go from shooting at the top tier to accepting a 5'6 broke guy who isn't handsome. Maybe instead they settle for the tall guy who has a decent job and isn't handsome but isn't ugly.
Flip side men are going to shoot for hot women regardless of whether she's a loser, broke, etc or not. They'll also shoot at average women, and may even shoot at a chubby chick. Again, regardless of whether she's successful, broke, etc. So when you're the average, unsuccessful, moderately handsome, 5'10 dude you're gonna get rejected. A lot. And instead of better themselves these guys complain about women having...standards.
A loooot of shyt would cease if dudes operated like women and upped their standards. If men stopped entertaining single mothers, broke women, women with obvious emotional problems, etc.
If y'all mfers don't get the f*ck off social media and keep mfers out your business society is going to collapse.
if you can't go 10 seconds without saying nikka or bytch, i don't give a fukk what you gotta say. that's remedial communication 
Dameon Farrow
Superstar
What's his username on here?
Women have always gone after men with wealth and wealthy folks have always had it easier. He isn't even saying anything of substance.
Get wealthy or find your level. What he is discussing is older than social media. So when dudes like him bring it into the equation it hurts their credibility.
As far as Chris Brown that's another L for dragging a wealthy man into your tirade about why your broke ass can't date. Find your lane and thrive until you can switch. shyt's tiring at this point. I bet he doesn't know a single woman in his circle that would be crazy enough go drop 1000 dollars for a Chris Brown pic. But he brought it up to make a point? Foh
Women have always gone after men with wealth and wealthy folks have always had it easier. He isn't even saying anything of substance.
Get wealthy or find your level. What he is discussing is older than social media. So when dudes like him bring it into the equation it hurts their credibility.
As far as Chris Brown that's another L for dragging a wealthy man into your tirade about why your broke ass can't date. Find your lane and thrive until you can switch. shyt's tiring at this point. I bet he doesn't know a single woman in his circle that would be crazy enough go drop 1000 dollars for a Chris Brown pic. But he brought it up to make a point? Foh
