Black men hate trending on YouTube....

[ALMIGHTY GOD]

of course @CarmelBarbie in here talking about white women and black men.... she sounds exactly like those lsa wenches when it comes to bm/ww


cant even have a thread on the war on black men and the hate we get without one of them coming in here with that fukk shyt. the obsession is real

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Although you make good points about some women going after weak minded men and black wealth.
In a nutshell you’re saying most women are gold diggers you might as well throw your money at black gold diggers if you’re an athlete?

I’m saying that people pretend that these other groups of women aren’t just with these brehs for their money. I’m saying that a lot of brehs scrutinize bw for caring about bm with money dating out, but disregard the fact that these other women only care about brehs once they have money, too.

Yet bw are routinely shamed for it, on some “they just jealous that we have money and options so we can date out”—even in that statement itself, it’s like well ummm
options that were presented once y’all got money.

In any case my whole point is that other groups aren’t in the position we are right now in this country, and other groups have managed to keep wealth within their communities a lot better then we have, by operating in a certain fashion that ultimately benefits their communities. Marriages, building businesses, shunning others out, being as inclusive as they can be, etc.

yes they will fukk as many races as possible but when it comes to settling down and seeding up, most of the wealthiest are keeping it within their communities. And The ones that aren’t, aren’t putting their men and women down in the media—showcasing their issues.[/QUOTE]


Yea alot of the black dudes who get the better looking white women higher up on the looks totem pole or got money.

Women of all races get with dudes for money so its not like its just bw.

But the bigger issue is to not bash ur own race.

Even when asians date out they dont bash they own and they date out the most.


That the issue with ir dating with us stop bashing ur own.

 

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Hold on! Let me go and gather what some blk dudes tell blk women to do when they are being called pit bulls and darkbutts by blk men in the media.

I’m pretty sure I’ve seen some pretty apathetic responses if I’m remembering correctly..

Some “if this is what the blk race is worried about we lost”

Some “most blk men are with blk women so don’t worry about it”

Some “that’s their opinion! Let them pawg in peace!”

Think I saw some shoulder shrugs in other threads too, so shouldn’t we take a similar stance here.
They don’t represent all black women.

But no seriously, I think black men and black women have a lot of real issues that need to be resolved. The resentment can sometimes seem palpable between the two and the blaming is toxic as hell.
Black women are unwilling to take responsibility for the men they choose to put up with shyt from.
Black men are unwilling to take accountability for anything. Both are just taking shots are each other and thinking they can escape their pathology with non-blk partners.

But they try to get their acts right for non-blks but end up fukking up in those relationships too b/c they won’t confront their own demons.

The other issue is that blks with legitimate concerns share the stage with blacks who for all intends and purposes are basically losers. These are people who wouldn’t be successful even IF white supremacy didn’t exist. They problematize these discussions b/c everybody ends up focusing on their extreme issues to delegitimize real problems.

Think about Azealia Banks. She can’t be the spokes person for blk female issues b/c she mentally not there.

So there is a lot that needs to get addressed but unless both black men AND blk women come to the table forthcoming about their own gender fukk ups without blaming one another for them, nothing will happen. And the lack of empathy any telling people they lying or making shyt up doesn’t help either or dismissing people’s concerns doesn’t help either.
I didn’t watch the video of these chicks b/c I didn’t want to give them a view.

 

[JT-Money]

Wow. The whole panel is IR relationships

I'm just saying shouldn't the fat chick who was crying on the show. Be mad at the other two heifers on the show taking eligible black men off the market?

If all black men are deadbeats or in jail. How come her co-hosts are able to find eligible black men to date but her and Tisha can't? It can't be that all these successful black men are color struck either.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Funny thing is that in that video that’s how many of those types of marriages play out. Thing is, that wealth gets recycled back into the white community. Brehs don’t see the bigger picture. Yes black women, white women, Asian women are going to gold dig, it is what it is, but out of all of three, Asian and white women are putting that money into their communities and a lot of times their half black kids continue the breeding out process, wiping away a black family, legacy and black wealth in only a generation. We’ve got to move smarter, like other groups do, but too many can’t get on code because they’re too busy thinking with their dikks, it’s a weakness.

Other races don’t get shamed as often for a reason. For instance why would wm? They have the most wealth, resources and power in this country. They running shyt and controlling it. no matter who they get with, because they are in power and have the most wealth, it has little impact on their communities. With other groups, Asians, and even Latin people they stay sending money back in their communities and creating businesses that benefit their communities. Latins be having 4 generations in one house.

None of those groups are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to wealth and resources in this country either. This is not the case for Black men. We are behind in nearly everything, so that means we have to be twice as smart, and more strategical. Brehs should be building with bw, working to create more black successful families and legacies.

These other groups, wm especially will fukk a lot of races but in the end, most will create white families and white children—especially those that are wealthy. Brehs be fukking and wifing these ww, thinking that non black women are angels compared to bw, when really they are the queens of finessing weak minded brehs. they come from wm—how the hell could they not be?

Got damn my brother fukked a whole bunch of White hoes, so did my cousins, but when it came down to seed and establish family, they kept it black. It’s a concept that pawgset is often too slow to understand, throwing bw under the bus, to put average looking Beckies that y’all know were fukking whole football teams and baseball teams in high school and college—on pedestals.

Those same women then age like shyt, take ya money, and divorce you. Oh well.

You brought up a great point!!

It seems to me women are mad because black athletes are dating out, so then they take their hate out on black men in general.

you can’t go by that though, being a celebrity is another whole different ball gang compared to regular people.

you have regular women in the comments bashing black men and talking about dating out etc.

I really doubt that there aren’t any bm that don’t want bw at all.

Those regular women are taking their anger out on regular men, when celebrities are a whole different story.[/QUOTE]

I wasn’t going by that. As I said in another post, most bw want bm and date bm. We don’t base life on the handful of celebs dating out. Most react when they see pics of a buck that could be with a bw but chose another—making a dumb ass post, then they Kim and get back to their actual lives.

I was pointing out to that poster that bw only have issue with brehs who shyt on us and put ww on pedestal, or on those bm that are wealthy or very attractive that date out. Most of us don’t care about the everyday typical pawgset breh dating out, because a lot of us do just fine with bm.

As for the comments, like I told you yesterday your only focused on the comments from bw who don’t fukk with bm, I saw a variety of comments and a good many were of bw saying they prefer bm and don’t want to date out.

The bw in the video—one is fat and unattractive, the other has not aged well and was married to a bm. They both got fukked up looking weaves. Tamara is half white, so it makes sense she is with a white man.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

Smh

 

[jay83]

Damn I actually watched a few clips of that show. Tamera mowry is playing a character or is she really that clueless?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Thank you for saying this truth.

And furthermore, these women operate this way aren't hearing a peep from anyone like @CarmelBarbie
about how they aren't "moving smarter" than other alleged "communities" because they aren't tripping off asserting themselves to marry anybody and make more Black families.

I don’t know any bw dating a breh or waiting on a breh that’s in jail. Like I said before, the majority of my friends are with bm. Only one is with wm. We all prefer white collar brehs too. The breh I’m dealing with actually works with me. And when my friends move stupidly as far as men go, I call them out on it.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Hold on! Let me go and gather what some blk dudes tell blk women to do when they are being called pit bulls and darkbutts by blk men in the media.

I’m pretty sure I’ve seen some pretty apathetic responses if I’m remembering correctly..

Some “if this is what the blk race is worried about we lost”

Some “most blk men are with blk women so don’t worry about it”

Some “that’s their opinion! Let them pawg in peace!”

Think I saw some shoulder shrugs in other threads too, so shouldn’t we take a similar stance here.
They don’t represent all black women.

But no seriously, I think black men and black women have a lot of real issues that need to be resolved. The resentment can sometimes seem palpable between the two and the blaming is toxic as hell.
Black women are unwilling to take responsibility for the men they choose to put up with shyt from.
Black men are unwilling to take accountability for anything. Both are just taking shots are each other and thinking they can escape their pathology with non-blk partners.

But they try to get their acts right for non-blks but end up fukking up in those relationships too b/c they won’t confront their own demons.

The other issue is that blks with legitimate concerns share the stage with blacks who for all intends and purposes are basically losers. These are people who wouldn’t be successful even IF white supremacy didn’t exist. They problematize these discussions b/c everybody ends up focusing on their extreme issues to delegitimize real problems.

Think about Azealia Banks. She can’t be the spokes person for blk female issues b/c she mentally not there.

So there is a lot that needs to get addressed but unless both black men AND blk women come to the table forthcoming about their own gender fukk ups without blaming one another for them, nothing will happen. And the lack of empathy any telling people they lying or making shyt up doesn’t help either or dismissing people’s concerns doesn’t help either.
I didn’t watch the video of these chicks b/c I didn’t want to give them a view.

that key both need to come together

 

[LunaticVillage415]

In reply to your last point.. "The View" and "The Talk panels are full of white women, the show in OP is like the Black the view lol.


Agree with the rest of your post, especially the commercials Them Everlast commercials

What makes the View different is the View is obviously for older white housewives and retirees, y'know post menapause white women. Whereas the show in the OP whatever the fukk it's called is aimed at women of color under 40. The show in the OP seem like it's aimed at 30 something year old pregnant single moms on Section 8. It's lightweight fukked up. But moms are supposed to stay home and raise young children. Our workaholic society don't alway understand that. Even the Asian chick is lowkey marketed as a relatable-to-black women hood East Oakland type of Asian broad who go out with Jeezy for Gods sake. Even though black women were screaming cancel that bytch not too long ago.

 

[JT-Money]

I don’t know any bw dating a breh or waiting on a breh that’s in jail. Like I said before, the majority of my friends are with bm. Only one is with wm. We all prefer white collar brehs too. The breh I’m dealing with actually works with me. And when my friends move stupidly as far as men go, I call them out on it.

We've had our differences but you should be real careful with office romances. Especially if you have a decent job you want to keep.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I wouldn't agree with that.... nikkas always have the option to fukk white women...... but depending on her social status, she will not marry you unless your status is greater than hers... that applies to black and white men......

Did I say fukk ww? I said with WW, as in settling down with them. Ww be fukking everyone in sight, across every college campus, it’s not a secret, that’s why I said it in another post. But the real attractive ones that aren’t overweight are only settling down with their own, unless that bm got wealth.

 

[Balla]

You brought up a great point!!

It seems to me women are mad because black athletes are dating out, so then they take their hate out on black men in general.

you can’t go by that though, being a celebrity is another whole different ball gang compared to regular people.

you have regular women in the comments bashing black men and talking about dating out etc.

I really doubt that there aren’t any bm that don’t want bw at all.

Those regular women are taking their anger out on regular men, when celebrities are a whole different story.

I wasn’t going by that. As I said in another post, most bw want bm and date bm. We don’t base life on the handful of celebs dating out. Most react when they see pics of a buck that could be with a bw but chose another—making a dumb ass post, then they Kim and get back to their actual lives.

I was pointing out to that poster that bw only have issue with brehs who shyt on us and put ww on pedestal, or on those bm that are wealthy or very attractive that date out. Most of us don’t care about the everyday typical pawgset breh dating out, because a lot of us do just fine with bm.

As for the comments, like I told you yesterday your only focused on the comments from bw who don’t fukk with bm, I saw a variety of comments and a good many were of bw saying they prefer bm and don’t want to date out.

The bw in the video—one is fat and unattractive, the other has not aged well and was married to a bm. They both got fukked up looking weaves. Tamara is half white, so it makes sense she is with a white man.[/QUOTE]
I went through the comments again and I have looked for the one’s that support bm, but there were so many against them.

I really tried looking, but a majority were saying they are tired of “waiting” etc.

even saw comments from chicks who claimed they loved bm, but still say they understand that women should date out and try new things.

my thing is anyone can date who they want, but to bash your own race of men for your reason go date out is pathetic to me.

Imagine how much backlash a bm would get if he said the same things that the big chick was saying.

I know for sure they would light his ass up and talk even more shyt in the comments.

 

[Taadow]

I don’t know any bw dating a breh or waiting on a breh that’s in jail. Like I said before, the majority of my friends are with bm. Only one is with wm. We all prefer white collar brehs too. The breh I’m dealing with actually works with me. And when my friends move stupidly as far as men go, I call them out on it.

None of this has anything to do with the point I was making.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I wasn’t going by that. As I said in another post, most bw want bm and date bm. We don’t base life on the handful of celebs dating out. Most react when they see pics of a buck that could be with a bw but chose another—making a dumb ass post, then they Kim and get back to their actual lives.

I was pointing out to that poster that bw only have issue with brehs who shyt on us and put ww on pedestal, or on those bm that are wealthy or very attractive that date out. Most of us don’t care about the everyday typical pawgset breh dating out, because a lot of us do just fine with bm.

As for the comments, like I told you yesterday your only focused on the comments from bw who don’t fukk with bm, I saw a variety of comments and a good many were of bw saying they prefer bm and don’t want to date out.

The bw in the video—one is fat and unattractive, the other has not aged well and was married to a bm. They both got fukked up looking weaves. Tamara is half white, so it makes sense she is with a white man.

I went through the comments again and I have looked for the one’s that support bm, but there were so many against them.

I really tried looking, but a majority were saying they are tired of “waiting” etc.

even saw comments from chicks who claimed they loved bm, but still say they understand that women should date out and try new things.

my thing is anyone can date who they want, but to bash your own race of men for your reason go date out is pathetic to me.

Imagine how much backlash a bm would get if he said the same things that the big chick was saying.

I know for sure they would light his ass up and talk even more shyt in the comments.[/QUOTE]

I’ve got to go, but i’ll probably be on again tomorrow, and i’ll take a look at the comments. I can guess that they’re from bw choosing wrong, unattractive or very overweight unattractive bw though. Have a good Saturday breh, don’t let that video get to you