filial_piety
Banned
She's talking BS....I've seen BW get screw faced, taunt and talk reckless when any BM dates out of his race....even if they didn't want him.Respectfully..
To your first point..
You know this is cap right..
And maybe not in your circle..
But I’ve seen black women give looks to so called “lames/squares”..
But I think that’s just a community thing of said race/ethnicity/nationality..
White women may not show it..
But when an Asian chick is not around..
Them hoes go in on AF/WM relationships..
Same for latin chicks dating white dudes..
And so forth and so on..
To your second point..
Attraction is subjective..
And you are a level headed poster..
You know men and women are group think when they are around certain individuals..
A man/woman could talk cash shyt about how somebody is not attractive in a public setting..
Only to actually be feeling said person in question in private..
Let’s not act like men/women don’t partake in fukking “undesirables” in private
Or..
Keep certain relationships in the dark because they are afraid of scrutiny..
Again..
You and your friends may be different..
But men/women are very territorial..
And seeing IR does illicit certain comments from people..
Seen and its happen to me..
Guess I was just one of the ugly ones..
When I was dating Asian chicks
Yeah..
I said it
In their heads he adds to the narrative that he's buying into "white is right" (thereby calling black women unattractive) and leaving more black women single.
I've heard many BW friends say this to me in person..
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Problematic Pat
Superstar
Even threads that call out fukkery from a certain segment get bushed. Think one the mods is either a pro black simp or a member of wenchset
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
No.
You go "war" with them all you want, but fight them - don't fight us.
We ain't the ones accosting you.
Then start calling them out so we won’t confuse it for silent approval
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Then start calling them out so we won’t confuse it for silent approval
And after I "call them out", then what's gonna improve?
Nothing, that's what.
This chit ain't new, this chit old. I Triple-Dog Challenge you to find me any instance
where a flagrant Black woman has been "called out" by a Black man and it mattered...
Why does that mean so much to you?Then start calling them out so we won’t confuse it for silent approval
It’s a desiring the cream of the crop out of your race issue. Let’s be honest if you saw this bad female—she had all the attributes you wanted, let’s say she pulls up with a sloppy looking nerdy cac... it’s like damn that’s a waste, she should be with a breh. Most people desire the best of their race, and would not like to see the best with an “other”.
Respectfully..
To your first point..
You know this is cap right..
And maybe not in your circle..
But I’ve seen black women give looks to so called “lames/squares”..
But I think that’s just a community thing of said race/ethnicity/nationality..
White women may not show it..
But when an Asian chick is not around..
Them hoes go in on AF/WM relationships..
Same for latin chicks dating white dudes..
And so forth and so on..
To your second point..
Attraction is subjective..
And you are a level headed poster..
You know men and women are group think when they are around certain individuals..
A man/woman could talk cash shyt about how somebody is not attractive in a public setting..
Only to actually be feeling said person in question in private..
Let’s not act like men/women don’t partake in fukking “undesirables” in private
Or..
Keep certain relationships in the dark because they are afraid of scrutiny..
Again..
You and your friends may be different..
But men/women are very territorial..
And seeing IR does illicit certain comments from people..
Seen and its happen to me..
Guess I was just one of the ugly ones..
When I was dating Asian chicks
Yeah..
I said it
I should have prefaced it to say that bw I know, and myself. I don’t know every bw, and can’t speak for others. I don’t give a breh I’m not attracted to or that isn’t my type, a second look. So if I see a breh that isn’t my type or isn’t attractive, with a ww, it’s not going to stir anything up in me, because I don’t care. If I see a breh that I’m attracted to with a ww, especially an average basic Becky I’m going to give them a few looks and think to myself, what a shame.
Case in point, at my son’s birthday party last month, when I came inside, I saw this sexy looking breh. Like so sexy. He was staring at me, that’s how I noticed him, I felt his eyes. Then his pawg came up right next to him. I was like damn. But tbh with you, i know the breh was very interested in me, so I would have pulled a Becky move and said something to him anyway, with nfg about how his pawg felt until I noticed that they had a gang of kids together. Then I just ignored him the rest of my time there, no matter how much he was trying to get my attention.
Made no damn sense lol—that’s that shyt I don’t like.
honestly since I’m not a breh that’s been in an ir relationship I can’t speak on what y’all face from bw or from others, as far as receiving hate goes, or getting responses.
I’ve had more experiences with the women in those unions acting intimidated like they were afraid for the man to notice me—so I generally go out of my way to just pretend like I don’t see them (just to avoid the women in those situations acting weird around me) so I’m usually not paying attention to how others are acting around the couples. Sometimes I make the mistake of assuming a lot of bw operate like me and my girls, but obviously that isn’t the case.
And yeah I can feel your second point too.
Cel 510 kid ados forever
Veteran
Its dumb for people to argue over women who dont want them it makes no sense
Same with bw
Two questions:
1. how would you feel if a breh you’re attracted to is with an attractive ww?
2. Why would you think a bw would tell me she dates wm without me even interacting with her and am I suppose to feel some type of way or not?
This happened to me twice, one black: chick kept talking about wm, I had no reaction, then she says you can see what I’m saying right? I say yeah you like wm, are you trying to make me mad or something?
second girl: with a group of chicks and this random chick I never spoke to comes up to me to profess her love for wm, I did not talk to her or pay attention to her all night. This is literally the first thing she says to me.
so I feel justified in feeling some type of why and I think it’s pathetic they need to get me angry.
sounds like bw going against bm to me and want to make them mad, pathetic.
what do you think?
Of course my brothers can chime in as well.
Two questions:
1. how would you feel if a breh you’re attracted to is with an attractive ww?
2. Why would you think a bw would tell me she dates wm without me even interacting with her and am I suppose to feel some type of way or not?
This happened to me twice, one black: chick kept talking about wm, I had no reaction, then she says you can see what I’m saying right? I say yeah you like wm, are you trying to make me mad or something?
second girl: with a group of chicks and this random chick I never spoke to comes up to me to profess her love for wm, I did not talk to her or pay attention to her all night. This is literally the first thing she says to me.
so I feel justified in feeling some type of why and I think it’s pathetic they need to get me angry.
sounds like bw going against bm to me and want to make them mad, pathetic.
what do you think?
Of course my brothers can chime in as well.
1. The breh in the example I stated, was with an attractive ww. I actually had a little more respect for him—because he got with one on his level physically.
2. She obviously wanted attention for it. Some of the people in those relationships want so badly to be noticed by others, and to get people to react. She may have been one of those types that is bitter or hates bm, and wanted to rub it in your face that she’s with a white man.
Honestly that’s weird asf that those women that you didn’t know came up to you and brought that up as if you gaf.
As for your last point, yes, there are bw that hate bm. Just like there are bm that hate bw. I still believe that a good majority of us don’t though, there’s just hurt and frustration and some other issues happening between bm and bw. But yesterday I went to the black alumni ball out here in Charlotte. Me and my girls each attended with a breh as our date, and there were many couples there. Matter of fact everywhere I go I see way more black couples than ir couples, and I see them of varying ages. Only a handful c00n, buck, pawg, and truly want no dealings with the other.
GhettoTeK
All Star
I had my fair share with nikkas 
and I'm decent woman...
so i date black women now with the phatties
i ain't hopping on no cac dikk
I still look for my black king
and I'm decent woman...so i date black women now with the phatties
i ain't hopping on no cac dikkI still look for my black king
Understood, But everytime the IR issue is brought up It's to shame a regula degula person into being with someone of their own race.
Look at the responses in this thread no one's saying Damn, I wish I could get with Loni Love. I'm not a woman so maybe if say Idris Elba married a cac sistas would feel a ways but men know that if you looked like Janet Jackson that she could have any man she wanted (and she married a pale arab )and nobody really shytted on her for that.
That's the difference, If you're truly bad men understand that usually the chick is going to take the best option and that will be that. If anything Loni Love is a standard dating down issue that All Black people tend to fall into white dating cacs. I'm sure her craka has way less money than her. So in that case she is like the Black male celebrities copping pleas about why they ended up with an ofey.
The majority of the time when IR gets brought up online it’s in reference to an attractive, reasonably attractive, or wealthy celeb, or athlete spotted with a white person or an “other”.
Or when a breh or brehette has a horrible experience(death, prison, slave sex play, racist parents that gets brought up) other smaller cases are when reasonably attractive blacks get with basic looking brads and Beckies that are points below the brehette and breh.
Other than that I haven’t seen people shaming the undesirable blacks that get with cacs, women or men. It’s almost always when the black person has desirable attributes that people have something to say.
As you said loni love is fat, with a horrible weave. Tisha Campbell has a horrible weave and doesn’t look good anymore. Tamara is meh(bland). No one really gaf about who any of them are with, because a lot of yall aren’t attracted to them.
But in other threads, for instance Cameron hall, it was different. Brehs were legit not understanding why she was with that wm. They’re attracted to her, she is someone who could easily pull a breh if she wanted. It’s an insult that she did not.
Megan Markle recieved so much hate from ww, you should have seen the shade and hated thrown her way. Those ww thought he should be with one of them instead of her. Because Again, at the end of the day it’s natural for people to want the desirable, atttactive, wealthy, etc, cream of the crop brehs and Brehettes within their race.
Other times when people shyt on ir relationships is when they say stupid shyt about their own, calling bw bulldogs, or saying bm ain’t shyt.
Besides those cases, I genuinely believe(and again I might be speaking for myself) most people don’t care.