Who are these people and how did they get these jobs? Lol
Hold on! Let me go and gather what some blk dudes tell blk women to do when they are being called pit bulls and darkbutts by blk men in the media.
I’m pretty sure I’ve seen some pretty apathetic responses if I’m remembering correctly..
Some “if this is what the blk race is worried about we lost”
Some “most blk men are with blk women so don’t worry about it”
Some “that’s their opinion! Let them pawg in peace!”
Think I saw some shoulder shrugs in other threads too, so shouldn’t we take a similar stance here.
They don’t represent all black women.
But no seriously, I think black men and black women have a lot of real issues that need to be resolved. The resentment can sometimes seem palpable between the two and the blaming is toxic as hell.
Black women are unwilling to take responsibility for the men they choose to put up with shyt from.
Black men are unwilling to take accountability for anything. Both are just taking shots are each other and thinking they can escape their pathology with non-blk partners.
But they try to get their acts right for non-blks but end up fukking up in those relationships too b/c they won’t confront their own demons.
The other issue is that blks with legitimate concerns share the stage with blacks who for all intends and purposes are basically losers. These are people who wouldn’t be successful even IF white supremacy didn’t exist. They problematize these discussions b/c everybody ends up focusing on their extreme issues to delegitimize real problems.
Think about Azealia Banks. She can’t be the spokes person for blk female issues b/c she mentally not there.
So there is a lot that needs to get addressed but unless both black men AND blk women come to the table forthcoming about their own gender fukk ups without blaming one another for them, nothing will happen. And the lack of empathy any telling people they lying or making shyt up doesn’t help either or dismissing people’s concerns doesn’t help either.
I didn’t watch the video of these chicks b/c I didn’t want to give them a view.

You and @kevm3 stay dropping knowledge.great post, rep you when i can. lmao let me tell you something about the black womanist agenda b, they will always attempt to use purported black male dysfunction as the answer to any question that could shine a light on them. it disallows anyone from issuing observations of their behavior that might have critical or negative connotations. "we're perfect, it's them fukked up nikkas!" lmao bytch please. they've been doing this since the 80's. phil donahue, oprah winfrey, sally jesse raphael, geraldo, etc. "we're going to the moon and back but why oh why *sob* *sob* are our men so fukked up white america???"
look first off if the discussion is about low marriage rates then you first need nuance to provide context. are marriage rates in other communities steady? fukk no. they are declining across the board due to several factors including economics and the erosion of traditional gender roles in a post feminist society. i mean if patriarchy is so evil and should be eradicated, then wouldn't it make sense that the patriarchal construct of marriage would fall too? yep and they asked for this, white and black women alike
so if anything fukked up is happening in the white community then you pretty much gotta triple that for our community. highest incarceration rates? unemployment? homelessness? HIV? yep so throw marriage right on in there yall
fat bytch is slick though son real slick. it wasn't just the mass incarceration bit either. notice later in their conversation when she speaks on her man picking her up at the airport and how good it feels to have companionship (that part was ok with me, i'm kind of happy for her in that regard). BUT she continues to say someone who is "loyal" and takes a pause for effect. oh word? look here man i am all about underlying subtext
lil mama is part of the problematic tap dancing swirl movement that says white men are better companions for black women because they're not dysfunctional criminals among other things and of course they are more loyal partners. wait... who exactly puts white folks on a pedestal again? i thought it was black men? lol i see them loud and clear. nikkas gotta take the kente cloth capes off and call this behavior out. it's not misogynoir (jesus christ that word lol) to see black women's bullshyt for what it is

Putting most of the blame on men yet again.
The bolded is it. They actually admit it. Think about it from their perspective, They think that all the other races of women are more desired by other races of men, but other men don't Promote Black women, meaning yes they'll fukk with them on the low but It's not like white boys give props like they do with say Asian or Hispanic women.
They overlook the fact that If you actually did a study white men date out of their race at a higher percentage than any other men, and they focus on the fact that Black male IR rates is double theirs.
The other reason is that like all women they generally want men as resources so their mad that they don't get men for resources. If you're beautiful Black white or whatever men are going to step to you with the bag, If you're "alright" looking you're gonna attract men with "alright" looking pockets.
That was in my pops old hood alsoWeren’t we the ones dragging them out of them damn asian stores and shutting them down?


Some of the posters on here temper their disdain for black men under the guise of reason and occasional attempts at bipartisan comments, but their race-based misandry shines through. Keep your eyes open.That was in my pops old hood also
I can tell which women on here (and in real life) actually attract quality bm. The ones that don’t always try to shyt on us under some guise. Like the fat bytch in the video, they’re very sneaky with the subtle shade towards us. Fortunately most of them won’t end up married to a quality dude anyways.
That was in my pops old hood also
I can tell which women on here (and in real life) actually attract quality bm. The ones that don’t always try to shyt on us under some guise. Like the fat bytch in the video, they’re very sneaky with the subtle shade towards us. Fortunately most of them won’t end up married to a quality dude anyways.
fukk em. The black women who love us gonna be there no matter what. Let them broken hoes be a white mans problem
I’m glad some other brehs are hip to this.Some of the posters on here temper their disdain for black men under the guise of reason and occasional attempts at bipartisan comments, but their race-based misandry shines through. Keep your eyes open.
Read the YouTube comments, tell me what u think.I've come across worse unfortunately than this.
Overall, I think this is a pretty complex issue.
I do think a lot of us as men, should hold each other accountable more. Not all of this is our fault, but we do have some stake in it. Some of us on here love to go "#HoH" laugh at, and cosign dudes straight up disrespecting and sonning women (regardless if they deserve it or not), but all that stuff has been damaging. You can't do stuff like that and then act shocked when you see this happening. Brehs need to stop trying to navigate the world like White men and doing and saying shyt recklessly. White men have the power and control of the narrative, they can do and say reckless and disrespectful shyt and still be seen as individuals and saints. We can't. All the shyt the some of us do paints us all, and all that negative shyt will stick and continue to pile on.
However, with that said, I do think the mindset these women are starting to have was almost inevitable regardless. As long as Black men remained at the bottom of the socioeconomic totem pole, the idea and mentality that Black women should "level up" would eventually rear it's head anyway![]()