Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[YBE]

So black women one day woke up and decided that it was to time fukk with the dregs of society?

And the fact that so many black males are conforming to a stereotype in the pursuit of p*ssy shows that they aren't leader material. A real black man with a good head on his shoulders is going to realize that he can get a woman even if he is a Braxton type and she's going to be quality. These "swagged out" nikkas are fukking hoodrats. Letting hoodrats dictate your identity? That's so demonic, friend.




And before you get upset, I'm not talking about you specifically. General terms.

As long as women who look like this get wet for nikkas who look like this, young nikkas will emulate those sort of characteristics to get her.

It is what it is. Sorry for disrespecting the wave Max

 

[AAKing23]

Well look at the time, it's 1:18 on the East Coast


I'm out brehs

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Why are we so against helping each other?

That's that simp shyt breh.

 

[Rawtid]

The cold hard splash in the face that you're going to have to admit to is that there are Men who are worthy and men who aren't worthy of procreating with. All the "supposeds" in the world aren't going to change that fact of life. There is a CHOICE that some of you refuse to acknowledge.

Once some of you can muster up to that reality, hopefully you will invest in men to lead your communities instead of investing in those that won't.

I bet you're a democrat.

 

[GoPro]

As far as this goes... we also need to be REALISTIC.

Women NEED affection and like sex just as much as we do. The pool of black men is already low, so no matter what, black women are gonna let subpar dudes fukk. Whether you understand it or not, confidence is attractive to women. A confident nikka with no job is knocking off women no probs. Yes, even the college educated ones.

On the other hand, men will fukk just about anybody. Class status has never mattered much in the chase of tail. Arnold Schwarzenegger fukked a maid raw for crying out loud. I'm a good dude and I've smashed some hoodrats. Why? Cuz it felt good. Did i strap up? Hell yes. Would my life be ruined if they got pregnant? Hell yes. I barely escaped so I'm not gonna knock other cats like i'm all high and mighty.

Expecting sexual responsibility from either side is a plan to fail.

Finally an objective voice of reason. Its kinda funny how both sides of this decades-old war is rife with hypocrisy, yet theyre all too fervent to perceive it.

As far as this topic goes, i aint mentoring shyt. Anything that makes single motherhood more acceptable is a nono for me.

 

[filial_piety]

The reality of the situation is you don't know what the term emphasize means. And I'm supposed to take you seriously on complex social issues?

This guy

@ anyone caring about who you "take seriously."

You couldn't even apply "emphasize" correctly to make a point.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

As long as women who look like this get wet for nikkas who look like this, young nikkas will emulate those sort of characteristics to get her.

It is what it is. Sorry for disrespecting the wave Max

There are plenty of beautiful black women that don't chase after F-list celebrities.

 

[marcuz]

There are plenty of beautiful black women that don't chase after F-list celebrities.

@ you considering her black and his point going directly over your head

 

[filial_piety]

I bet you're a democrat.

 

[jfkennedy]

Why are we so against helping each other?

I think there's a difference between helping each other, and doing another person's job.

Like when I was younger my mom told me, "I'll help you out with your finances as long as you're in school and have a job." That's helping out. Not, "do whatever you want, and I'll bail you out."

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

@ anyone caring about who you "take seriously."

You couldn't even apply "emphasize" correctly to make a point.

My point was that you emphasized splash and muster making you sound like a complete idiot.

I can tell you're aggy though so I'll leave you be and let you cool down.

 

[theGoldmangod]

Both genders are responsible, but I still think any real change will be based on just who black women allow to enter and exit their wombs. Until they become the Praetorian Guards over their own coochies, it will never change.

Furthermore, this message of men needing to "step up" has been repeated for over 30 years now. Shyt, I remember the same message back in the early 90s (which of course led to the MM March in 95') and nothing has really changed. If anything, things have gotten worse. That being said, one would think that the message would have evolved into a solution that may work, like whom women allow to enter and exit their bodies, but unfortunately on a larger scale, political correctness won't go there.

You speaking from a perspective that every dude that knocks these broads up and is uninvolved afterwards is a thug. You dudes not living in reality, that's not even more than half of the cases. The culture we have as black men promotes that type of fukk em and duck em attitude amongst nikkas from the burbs to the projects that is behind a lot of this noncommital behavior. The majority of single mothers I know are middle class and were in a long term relationship that soured so the nikka became inactive with his own kid.

And yeah they both should have gotten married before they had a child together but we also talking about a culture that acts like you a simp if you do before your late 30s. And how many bytches do you expect to be childless after all them years of running into fukk em and duck em nikkas

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I feel you breh, if NO ONE feels you I feel you.

But just look at this thread. 90% of the blame IS going to the woman. Someone a few posts up said that since many black men are failing to step up then the woman must pick up the slack and take the blame. Then a few posts down there's talk about how much black women suck at everything involved with raising children. They are getting a lot of blame while the sorry nikkas are getting that "boys will be boys" protection.

Yep I see it mang. And dat "boys will be boys" can only be valid if dese brauds are ALLOWING dat kinda bullshyt to occur in da first place. If a single mom is seein a dood and buddy is showin lil to no real interest in INCLUDING her child/children in their courtship then it's on dat braud to get dem spidey senses up n poppn n tell dat nikka to go kick rocks. But unfortunately a good number of dese single moms recognize game (knowing bein a single mom doesn't exactly leave her much wiggle room for being "picky") and just accept dem ratchet ass nikkas for fear of bein alone.

It is what it is. All dat shyt coulda been avoided if some of em just stopped n put da condom on or just said no. Mah sympathy for dese strugglin single moms is strictly on a case by case situation but mah sympathy for dem kids is across da board.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

@ you considering her black and his point going directly over your head

Looked black to me.

And his point didn't go over my head. It's been raised several times in this thread already; black males emulate stereotypes to attract p*ssy. Black women are to blame.

 

[filial_piety]

My point was that you emphasized splash and muster making you sound like a complete idiot.

I can tell you're aggy though so I'll leave you be and let you cool down.

now that he's discovered a dictionary, he correctly applies "emphasize" to make his point. A pointless point, but he finally got it right.

But now he's creating arguments to "empahsize" another point that wasn't able to make the first go-around. Boy I love the inna net scholars on coli