the cac mamba
Veteran
3 good black men for every 100 black women
at that flawed logic
so a man can only be one of those traits at a time
Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.
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at that flawed logic
so a man can only be one of those traits at a time
filial_piety
Banned
If the only black men with the mentality to leave their kids are thugs like you cats pretend, how the fukk do women bear a greater consequence when a thugs greatest prospect is death or jail?
nikkas can't even keep they lies straight
lol I get the feeling that some of you nikkaz are just defending your own mothers
BTW your response doesn't even make a lick of sense. When I said that women bear greater consequnces of bringing a child into this world, I was refering to women as being the ones who naturally bear the burden of child rearing both as the carrier and the caretaker. That being said, due to the fact that unwanted pregnancies are a possibility, it would be in their best interest to make better choices because ultimately they suffer the consequences more than men do.
You don't like it? Oh well...argue with God.
Great point. I've noticed this website really is the male version of Lipstick Alley. On both sites the threads are the same except that site will completely absolve the woman no matter what and this site will completely absolve the male. It's crazy.
You have threads on here from admitted adulterers and wife beaters and dudes are in there saying,
"keep your head up"
"It's not your fault"
Etc etc.
No nygga it is your fault! Geesh supposed adults can't even acknowledge they are wrong.
Then on lipstick alley you have broads who will openly state they slept with men who knew weren't father material. Who knew the men were no good. I'm a firm believer that you are what you attract. I never attracted potentially violent women or women too fcking lazy not to take birth control. I know both sites are obviously a small minority of people but it raises a good point that even when two people are together you immature parents who have no business raising children because they can't even admit their wrong.
How do you fix problems?
I swear I said the SAME EXACT THING WHEN I SIGNED UP TO THE COLI
These nikkas are the male version of lsa bytches to the T.
Real talk, you mfs in this thread should link up with them bytches
Yall both singing the same old song.
Just imagine if LoneStar and them were on here Honcho
and don't think Honcho only put black men on blast either
He pissed off many a black women on lsa on a daily....
"NEED to man up?"
I don't like that shyt at all. Implies its my responsibility to take care of some hood boogers mistake. Go looking for the guy that had a good time making the little shyt.
fukk that chart. shyt reads like an excuse. "Oh there are no good black men so it's cool if I fukk with bad boys and then decide black men ain't shyt. Woe is my trifflin' black ass."
Hoes need to learn discretion, shame, and how to compromise on what their ideal man is.
I volunteer a lot. Coaching and mentoring from elementary to college level. You'd be surprised at how many of these women don't see what's going on with their kids. Had one kid who's mom thought he was the next TO and wouldn't even have him practice unless he was first string in football and track. I'm trying dude humility and hard work and get his grades up. She wanted red carpet treatment for a 15 yr old.
'Scust
I don't like that shyt at all. Implies its my responsibility to take care of some hood boogers mistake. Go looking for the guy that had a good time making the little shyt.
fukk that chart. shyt reads like an excuse. "Oh there are no good black men so it's cool if I fukk with bad boys and then decide black men ain't shyt. Woe is my trifflin' black ass."
Hoes need to learn discretion, shame, and how to compromise on what their ideal man is.
I volunteer a lot. Coaching and mentoring from elementary to college level. You'd be surprised at how many of these women don't see what's going on with their kids. Had one kid who's mom thought he was the next TO and wouldn't even have him practice unless he was first string in football and track. I'm trying dude humility and hard work and get his grades up. She wanted red carpet treatment for a 15 yr old.
'Scust
Mr Uncle Leroy
All Star
^^^3 good black men for every 100 black women
racist agenda
dont let %/percentages fool ya, especially since the stats include nonblacks, which skews the percentages
you can still find a decent gal...or make one in a decent gal
but you get what you give...
saying BW aint is, you know what she think of you right?
time to work together
Un-AmericanDreamer
Simp City
Although your argument makes sense from a practical point of view, you have to understand we're dealing with women here who suffer no consequences for their actions either way.
If she doesn't get with mr responsible, she still gets aid from the state. If she does, she may not get aid at all. It's almost like they're being incentivized to fukk up. When we're talking cultures here, it's hard to change cultures built on that kind of fukkery.
It doesn't matter if she's responsible or not, she's getting hers.The only chastising is social shaming but you can hardly even do that now with women and simps smacking that down. Women and simps don't check other women, they enable each other.
If you make the risk associated with something low enough, more people are going to engage in a certain behavior.
Sierra Mist
Banned
The funny thing about these stats like the "1 good man for 100 women" is two things.
First of all they don't talk about the women who aren't good. And two the men who have one of those qualities is likely to fall under the other categories so they overlap, so those numbers don't even add up. Like "x amount of men are in jail, y amount of men leave the mothers of their children." They act like each of those statistics exists in a vacuum or something. Like if you are in jail then you can't also fall under the category of men who never graduated college.
You can't add those numbers up because you're more than likely counting the same man 5 times. lol
That was lampshaded ages ago though.
First of all they don't talk about the women who aren't good. And two the men who have one of those qualities is likely to fall under the other categories so they overlap, so those numbers don't even add up. Like "x amount of men are in jail, y amount of men leave the mothers of their children." They act like each of those statistics exists in a vacuum or something. Like if you are in jail then you can't also fall under the category of men who never graduated college.
You can't add those numbers up because you're more than likely counting the same man 5 times. lol
That was lampshaded ages ago though.
I'll try to mentor the few younger black guys I come into contact with at church. (offering advice etc..)
You can't expect a man with with their own responsibilities to spend the EXTRA time to truly "Mentor" another child like a father should.
You can't expect a man with with their own responsibilities to spend the EXTRA time to truly "Mentor" another child like a father should.
What these thirty-year old, Masters-Degree holding, single, childless black women do not understand about today's youth is that most of them are a lost cause. When you have to have to put a kid on "beyond scared straight" they are a failure in the making because they have made the decision to be.
Yes, most of these young black boys come from single-parent households which puts them at a significant dis-advantage. I was one of them. The fact is that regardless, YOU are in control of what you do, how you act, how you think, and your own future.
I'd bargain if I tried to give advice to a youngster these days I'd sooner be scolded by him or threatened by his hoodrat mama. What can a 21-30 year old black man give to the black youth on some big-brother tip when they are too dumb to even walk on the sidewalk?
Yes, most of these young black boys come from single-parent households which puts them at a significant dis-advantage. I was one of them. The fact is that regardless, YOU are in control of what you do, how you act, how you think, and your own future.
I'd bargain if I tried to give advice to a youngster these days I'd sooner be scolded by him or threatened by his hoodrat mama. What can a 21-30 year old black man give to the black youth on some big-brother tip when they are too dumb to even walk on the sidewalk?
Cosign especially at the bolded that is the main problem.These women face no consequences no matter what they do.
DallasTxRep
Superstar
But it happens too often
Un-AmericanDreamer
Simp City
Yeah the language is definitely a turn-off, I wouldn't mind as much if the women didn't tell men what they ought to do. If women went about it like "We fukked up, we thought we could do it all alone but, we need you". That would have been fine. I've seen women use the seductive feminine charm to get men into doing things they otherwise wouldn't.
. I feel like a lot of todays women don't know how to interract with men as women should using the honey, instead all they know is vineagar. "Man Up" sounds so authoritative like they're placing blame squarely on my shoulders.
Like it's an order . Men don't respond well off commands from women.Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Mentoring helps but then it doesnt. I tried to be a big brother to one cat,he didnt listen.I volunteered to football coach one time and I kid yall not the schools got on my case,about being too hard on young man.Yet I was trying to develop him into a man.Its like when you chastise a kid,you get punished for it,not the kid.No wonder why some of these young men are growing up into sissies. All the knowledge I kicked and he was still on some knucklehead type stuff.I wonder what the problem is.Is it the mothers who pick the fathers or something else.
lol, exactly. they don't even have the sense to be humble about it. these women are talking to 17-25 yr old black men like they're their fathers who abandoned them.
they look to tell men who dont have kids that we need to take care of our children. that's why this whole 'gender' war is lopsided. the men these women really want to address don't give a shyt about these topics -- they're probably out in the streets or behind bars. the men, however, can talk directly to these offenders but they try to write us off as BW bashers.
theGoldmangod
All Star
Great point. I've noticed this website really is the male version of Lipstick Alley. On both sites the threads are the same except that site will completely absolve the woman no matter what and this site will completely absolve the male. It's crazy.
You have threads on here from admitted adulterers and wife beaters and dudes are in there saying,
"keep your head up"
"It's not your fault"
Etc etc.
No nygga it is your fault! Geesh supposed adults can't even acknowledge they are wrong.
Then on lipstick alley you have broads who will openly state they slept with men who knew weren't father material. Who knew the men were no good. I'm a firm believer that you are what you attract. I never attracted potentially violent women or women too fcking lazy not to take birth control. I know both sites are obviously a small minority of people but it raises a good point that even when two people are together you immature parents who have no business raising children because they can't even admit their wrong.
How do you fix problems?
Its just a bunch of nikkas with little to no success with women who have developed these poisonous viewpoints towards them because of it breh. Its not like these cats are actually interested in building a better Black community because they wouldn't say the stupid shyt they do if the were.
And yeah for the most part you are what you attract. I never see dirt bag nikkas with kids with upstanding Black women that would be considered wifeable by any decent dude (and not because they have kids).
So if coli bytch nikkas don't consider it worth trying to change a bunch of worthless nikkas to take care of their kids, they shouldn't bother themselves complaining about the worthless bytches that have their kids either, trying to get them to 'make better choices'. But they do, because it all comes back to the fact that they aren't getting attention from chicks period, so they just looking for some shyt to complain about them for, even the shyt that don't concern them.