Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Rocket Scientist]

If your a black man you get more respect for going to county jail,then county college (county college is still a school forget what you heard)

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

But that's what we're trying to say breh , You right it ain't just hoodrats going out here getting pregnant becoming single mothers but it's also the college educated ones.


That's why I @ black women saying only hoodrats do this because it's college educated women too.


The only single mothers that are acceptable are divorced women, and widowed women.


I've seen some of the most brightest and sweetest of Black Women get caught up with the wrong dude despite people telling her to leave him. And she'll still stay with him and get knocked up. It's not until they get knocked up that they realize what's a good man. Why does it take a disaster for them to wake up.




That's why I say it boils down to black women's choices

Remove black women for a moment and think about the culture of black men and what we largely define ourselves by.

Btches and hoes breh. How many times have I said that? You want to look up the statistics on black men with other and how those marriage and families pan out. Some of these same damn problems.

It doesn't shock me that college educated women still pick horrible men.

They are from areas where those men were popular. Just because you go to college, you still have to return home. Culture breh. Oow kids is culture that ruins communities of all income levels. Most likely these women and men are from single parent homes and the cycle continues.

 

[marcuz]

interesting how Liggins is quiet as a mouse in this thread. only threads calling out the male half of the community bring out the "fury" it seems. i wonder why that is...

you're alright when you wanna be

 

[Auger]

A lot of people think Mentoring someone is a part-time gig.

Being an effective mentor is a lifelong commitment, just like being a parent, it can almost be viewed as the same. Younger Men, who aren't already trying to establish a family or career themselves, are going to have a hard time investing the same amount of time a parent would, with little reward.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

interesting how Liggins is quiet as a mouse in this thread. only threads calling out the male half of the community bring out the "fury" it seems. i wonder why that is...

I thought you were ignoring me, now you're stalking me? While you're at it, check out my post history bytch. I haven't agreed with any of the female bashers. I'm sure you do though, because they're attacking black women, who you only tolerate so you can have some allies on here.

Your true nature will be exposed on here just like on SOHH where you called yourself a "brunette."

 

[Sierra Mist]

Its just a bunch of nikkas with little to no success with women who have developed these poisonous viewpoints towards them because of it breh. Its not like these cats are actually interested in building a better Black community because they wouldn't say the stupid shyt they do if the were.

And yeah for the most part you are what you attract. I never see dirt bag nikkas with kids with upstanding Black women that would be considered wifeable by any decent dude (and not because they have kids).

So if coli bytch nikkas don't consider it worth trying to change a bunch of worthless nikkas to take care of their kids, they shouldn't bother themselves complaining about the worthless bytches that have their kids either, trying to get them to 'make better choices'. But they do, because it all comes back to the fact that they aren't getting attention from chicks period, so they just looking for some shyt to complain about them for, even the shyt that don't concern them.

Generic reply is generic. No one cares who the ratchet bytches pick. it's the fact that the ratchet bytches will pick a ray ray and pookie and then blame the "good" men for their mistakes. If those ratchet hoes didn't complain about the men they pick then the upstanding men wouldn't have shyt to say about those ratchet women.

 

[theGoldmangod]

lol I get the feeling that some of you nikkaz are just defending your own mothers

BTW your response doesn't even make a lick of sense. When I said that women bear greater consequnces of bringing a child into this world, I was refering to women as being the ones who naturally bear the burden of child rearing both as the carrier and the caretaker. That being said, due to the fact that unwanted pregnancies are a possibility, it would be in their best interest to make better choices because ultimately they suffer the consequences more than men do.

You don't like it? Oh well...argue with God.

My parents been married for 30+ years kid. I'm going on year 5 myself. Shut that shyt up

You on a forum surrounded by a bunch of nikkas that devote 100+ posts to threads complaining about child support daily and you talking like dudes suffer no consequences. The fukk outta here. And like I said, if the only nikkas leaving their kids high and dry are thugs, their fate is much worse than any single mothers. I don't give a fukk about singling out child birth or no shyt like that because life doesn't happen in a vacuum.

 

[Auger]

Name other cultures where mentoring other people's children is common and even encouraged?

 

[AAKing23]

Remove black women for a moment and think about the culture of black men and what we largely define ourselves by.

Btches and hoes breh. How many times have I said that? You want to look up the statistics on black men with other and how those marriage and families pan out. Some of these same damn problems.

It doesn't shock me that college educated women still pick horrible men.

They are from areas where those men were popular. Just because you go to college, you still have to return home. Culture breh. Oow kids is culture that ruins communities of all income levels. Most likely these women and men are from single parent homes and the cycle continues.

I understand the culture part breh and I agree with you.


But how would you say these problems came about. Was it because of Feminism, Hip Hop, The Crack Epidemic in the 80's or are black men just inherently fukked up?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

mentoring is a job. Stuff aint easy. When that kid fails,you fail. When he succeeds you succeed. It's closest thing to fatherhood without being a father.Once you get attached (no Sandusky) you made an impact.Good thing is you can choose to be in his/her life.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Name other cultures where mentoring other people's children is common and even encouraged?

If Bill Gates mentored a young white boy,he would grow up and eventually take over Microsoft.Only in our culture can we mentor somebody,spend energy and time with them and they at times disappoint.

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

I swear I said the SAME EXACT THING WHEN I SIGNED UP TO THE COLI

These nikkas are the male version of lsa bytches to the T.

Real talk, you mfs in this thread should link up with them bytches

Yall both singing the same old song.

Just imagine if LoneStar and them were on here Honcho

and don't think Honcho only put black men on blast either

He pissed off many a black women on lsa on a daily....

I had to laugh at homie who said I only stick up for women. I just aint with that lame gender shh. Same stuff I got over there. Them broads would get so mad cause I didn't cosign their fckury

 

[theGoldmangod]

Generic reply is generic. No one cares who the ratchet bytches pick. it's the fact that the ratchet bytches will pick a ray ray and pookie and then blame the "good" men for their mistakes. If those ratchet hoes didn't complain about the men they pick then the upstanding men wouldn't have shyt to say about those ratchet women.

What the fukk does 'blame' do to you tangibly in your daily life that it boils you nikkas blood so much? May as well admit its because you nikkas don't get attention from women and KIM, because nobody is buying that shyt. You don't get this involved in issues that supposedly don't effect you unless something else is at play.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I understand the culture part breh and I agree with you.


But how would you say these problems came about. Was it because of Feminism, The Crack Epidemic in the 80's or are black men just inherently fukked up?

I think feminism is the least of the problems.

Men are naturally supposed to be the leaders. You can't lead from the trap house. You can't lead when you don't visit or support your seed. nikkas always want to put the ills of our people on the black woman.

Non-blacks---->black men----->black women

Stop passing the shyt we get from c00ns and other races onto black women. You nikkas will sit and type novels about black women and then throw in, "well yeah black men need to do more too. But black women keep us from doing it."



That's a footnote and you still find a way to throw shots at black women. Then turn around and worship a CAC woman who'll call you a stupid ape with the quickness. A lot of black men are lost. You can't blame all the ills of the community on black women.

Unless they're c00ns.

 

[BruhMayne]

lets get to choppin these fables

The logic of those statistics from that site is so flawed its not even worth breaking down. For starters, they subtract additional men from the pool after every statistic in complete disregard that they're subtracting the same nikkas multiple times. No way they passed any post elementary math.

But girls gettin impregnated by hood nikkas ain't the initial problem. I gotta fam full of hood nikkas who are great fathers. The problem is girls getting pregnant by nikkas who ain't tryna live the family life. Don't matter if its Marcus from the burbs or Jamarcus from the slums, if a girl get pregnant and the daddy don't want that life (especially with her) then you know what the outcome is probably gon be